Sex with ex?

Zealousideal-Bear-37 · 2023-06-11T19:07:17+00:00

Nah not worth it . Once you’re on the outside of it for long enough you wouldn’t even entertain the idea

idiskfla · 2023-06-11T19:51:41+00:00

Yup. I don’t regret the actual act since it was great (esp compared to the last time we hooked up when we were still together). I do regret that I kind of got my hopes back up after it happened and then had to reheal from step 1 all over again after she said it was a mistake a few days later.

It was admittedly the most enjoyable sex I’d had with her in years since I kind of knew there was a real possibility it would be the very last time it would happen with someone I had been intimate with for over a decade. I felt 10 years younger during and immediately afterwards.

I’m glad I went out with a bang if you catch my drift.

I don’t regret the breakup sex. I regret everything else around it.

Any-Dare-7261 · 2023-06-11T21:47:10+00:00

If my ex offered, while she is with the guy she is with I would jump on it. Then video it and send it to him so they would fight for weeks.

RevolutionaryLaw8854 · 2023-06-12T00:02:20+00:00

Nope. Not once.

Tired of fucking her. I’m out

DocHolliday80 · 2023-06-11T19:30:53+00:00

Hard no for me. It would mess my head up

Diablo_Canyon2 · 2023-06-12T04:37:32+00:00

And be disappointed again? No thanks. She was not exactly generous in the bedroom.

upfnothing · 2023-06-11T19:43:21+00:00

You care too much about her and what she thinks. About how she would feel. All women are dead to me just don’t trust any of them at this point. When you reach that point you are ready to rizz your ex. To string her along with a smile that conveys you could care less whether she likes you or not but that you will use her the way a blacksmith uses an anvil. Something you will aggressively and confidently pound with no concern for its existence. It’s replaceable at that point. That’s when you are ready.

NohoTwoPointOh · 2023-06-11T19:01:01+00:00

TheBoyBand · 2023-06-11T20:19:51+00:00

Nooooo… and you are entertaining it and its sad no offense.

Luxtaposition · 2023-06-11T21:01:42+00:00

Nope

mrk177 · 2023-06-11T21:21:10+00:00

My ex continued to live with me for a couple months after we were officially divorced. Housing market was a mess. I was keeping the house and she was going to find a new house. We are amicable. During that period we continued to sleep together even though we were divorced. We essentially lived like a married couple but without the fighting.

When she moved out it was hard. It hit me all at once and regretted not addressing the emotion earlier. It was nice having that time with her but made it harder to move on overall.

We haven’t had sex since she moved out over two years ago. I wouldn’t do it again even if she out right offered. Not worth it.

Adorable_FecalSpray · 2023-06-12T05:45:18+00:00

No. I have not been given the outright chance and even if I was, I would definitely not take it.

There was a time she was insinuating something but I quickly cut that down. I am not at all interested.

Brian-OBlivion · 2023-06-12T10:52:04+00:00

We lived together for four months post separation amicably despite her blowing it up for no good reason. We walked the dogs together and even ate many meals together. We talked a lot and were basically like friends or roommates. I had absolutely no desire to sleep with her and would have turned down any advances. Sexual and romantic feelings were dead for me the moment we separated.

-NukeX- · 2023-06-12T14:05:29+00:00

Mine actually tried to kiss me 3 times in front of the kids. I just sort of froze up because I didn't know what to do in front of them. She later texted me about giving me a bj and later on, asked me if I was going to invite her over for a romantic fire in my new LED fireplace I built. I said no on all accounts.

notaburner14 · 2023-06-12T15:33:32+00:00

Absolutely not! No telling what kind of diseases she has from being the town whore

Illustrious_Ad6484 · 2023-06-12T15:53:14+00:00

My ex dropped by my place unannounced while I was in bed with my present girlfriend. Can you say threesome. Lol.

Mountain_Collar_7620 · 2023-06-11T21:05:27+00:00

Hard No you lost your benefits when you got yourself Fired. I like New things and I lost all interest in Wet Fish 🎣

Brilliant-Delay1410 · 2023-06-11T19:03:28+00:00

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Neversexsit · 2023-06-11T21:22:06+00:00

For a while, yea. In the end, not worth it at all. The time was fun and better then when we were married, but overall it wasn't worth it.

Mentally it keeps you behind where you need to be.

Alatornio · 2023-06-11T23:55:20+00:00

I have done it. A few times. I gotta admit it was pretty damn good.

I dunno what to think about it. Doubt it will happen again now.

1Cobbler · 2023-06-12T00:01:30+00:00

I probably would now because I've completely lost all feelings for her. The only thing I'd worry about is the kids getting false hope if they found out.

Spodee5 · 2023-06-12T03:01:38+00:00

Hell no she’s a lesbian

OPs_Mom_and_Dad · 2023-06-12T20:20:05+00:00

I literally gagged thinking about sex with my ex. Just...no.

MadeBale · 2023-06-13T00:57:07+00:00

I did once. It wasn't worth it. To be honest, I saw myself as weak having sex with the woman who ruined my life. Yeah okay it was good like it's always been. But to be honest it took a big hit on my word and my integrity. It was an attempt to get me back, And it was a step back in progress trying to get away from her.

You need to make your own decision based on your knowledge of who she is. And she's manipulative and cunning, I would absolutely stay the f*** away.

smooth-vegetable-936 · 2023-06-13T04:03:02+00:00

I’m still having sex with my x

Accomplished-Toe5220 · 2023-06-14T00:20:01+00:00

The pictures and video taken post divorce was my shining light both into charges and out of a plea deal. I'd rail her like you never even knew her but don't leave bruises cuz that going to cost you 15k.

Title	Sex with ex?
Author	Brilliant-Delay1410
Upvotes	10
Comments	46
Date	June 11, 2023 6:56 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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