Would you rather be with a man who raises kids that aren't his? Or one the has kids he doesn't raise?

Redpill jerks like to say the alpha thing is to have kids from multiple women that you then don't raise. And that the beta thing to do is to raise another man's kids. And that women would rather be with alphas than betas.

So which would you choose if you had to choose? An example of raising kids that aren't yours, is for instance taking care of the kids of your best friend who tragically passed away together with his wife at a young age. My late grandfather raised a child who moved in with him due to these circumstances. Also any man that takes in foster children or adopts would fall into this category. As for having kids you don't have any part in raising, there's countless examples and I think you can imagine how that occurs yourself.