It feels like many women believe they're better than men in general.

EulenWatcher · 2023-12-13T03:37:48+00:00

Because they can. These women don't want to split the bill because they know they can get a guy to pay for them and they don't feel any moral obligation to split the bill. And most likely they will find men willing to entertain them and their preferences. They might bring enough to make it worth it or guys might be desperate enough to get any dates, company sex.

I like that in the 3d video there are 3 women saying they split the bill - I'm in this camp too. When my husband and I started dating, we usually paid in turns without any issues. I wouldn't date a guy who couldn't accept me paying for my or our food/tickets, as I'm egalitarian and I think if a man needs to pay for me, we might not be compatible. Another caveat here is that I wouldn't go on a date unless I already felt at least some interest in this person, so no dates from cold approaches and no dating apps for me. For me a date is an opportunity to spend time with a person I'm already interested in.

MyLastBestChance · 2023-12-13T03:20:22+00:00

Today’s daily reminder re/ TikTok content creators motivations and how algorithms work…🙄

Sad_and_grossed_out · 2023-12-13T03:57:44+00:00

If men are gonna consistently remind us that our only worth is the sex we can provide, it's only fair that women get a free meal while we try and hopelessly decode whether or not you're just trying to use us for a quick fuck or whether you actually like us.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-13T03:58:14+00:00

I dont understand why you guys take these tiktok women seriously. "Oh she thinks she's better than me????" Like who gives a shit.

I miss my old mentally ill social circle more and more every day. The men didn't care about what some random idiot on tiktok thinks. They just got into fist fights with people over minor traffic violations and ended up in jail. You really think guys like that give a shit about anything? Other than getting their car tapped ofc

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-12-13T03:59:00+00:00

I do think there is a section of women who fundamentally believe the average woman and the average man are not equal

ilike18yoblackpussy · 2023-12-13T03:15:37+00:00

Women can think whatever they like.

2023-12-13T03:30:07+00:00

I find it hard to take TikToks seriously, maybe because I don't use it much. First video seems staged, like who the fuck talks like that? Second video is from an "influencer" who makes click bait to generate views. Third is the only believable. Older women have more of their shit together and want to avoid going through dumb ass pressuring from men who think they are entitled because they paid for an overpriced salad.

What is the point? Neither of these videos, or any video will represent women as a whole. Some women live on their high horse, as do some men. Some women are horrible people, same as men.

The beauty of these days is that we have freedom of choice. Guys, if you don't like these type of women, don't date them. The first one sounds so fucking boring. She is pretty, even with those silly ass cat ears. Second woman sounds like a bitch. First group sound like your average early 20s woman and the latter seem like the most interesting. In the end, date who you think you are more compatible with.

Ppdebatesomental · 2023-12-13T04:48:54+00:00

>What do women bring to a relationship that a man doesn't bring?

Vagina.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-12-13T05:15:38+00:00

First of all, in your third video, you have a woman who is 31 saying she wants to split the bill. But men here hate 31 year old women and say stuff like “they are simply invisible to us”. Which is apparent in the fact that she was invisible to you.

Second of all, all of these women are young, and hot. I don’t see any mid chubby weird nerdy girls who are into anime and making memes here. I see hot, young, socially well adjusted, dolled up to the nines women.

Third of all, even as a mid chubby weird nerdy girl, any time a man was truly into me, he would pay for the first few dates. My first boyfriend ever paid for every meal and would drive me everywhere. My current boyfriend paid for the first several dates and we now split the bills. I want a man who can and will financially support me and our kids if we get married. Not a guy who freaks out about paying for dinner. This isn’t a feminist concept. This is just being feminine. I risk rape, being harassed, etc. And I am allocating my precious youth, beauty, and fertility to a man. I will never get my youth, beauty, and fertility back. I am essentially giving a man my SMV when I spend time with him. The least he can do is pay for a meal as a token of his appreciation.

illusoryfindings · 2023-12-13T03:28:23+00:00

It's not a women thing, some people just believe they're better than others. Even if they have 0 evidence for it.

The reason why it feels like women do it more, is because it's more socially acceptable for women to express disdain for men, than it is the other way around.

hannahg000 · 2023-12-13T03:43:07+00:00

lucky for you, that not all women act this way

OtPayOkerSmay · 2023-12-13T03:44:03+00:00

Teach them from a young age that "girls rule, boys drool," and what the hell do you expect? Then give them advantages in the educational system, hiring processes, and, hell..., even the legal system...

It's really no wonder why they think this.

AceOfSpadesGymBro3 · 2023-12-13T03:28:37+00:00

Actually, the real problem is too many men who think they are worse than they are.

Financial_Leave4411 · 2023-12-13T04:06:25+00:00

A big reason that type of woman requires the guy to pay for the dates is usually because she plans to pay via sex early into the relationship and the only thing worse than being a hoe is being a cheap or free hoe. Thus the man has to purchase dinner and gifts to make the exchange worth it because sex doesn’t hold the save value for women as it does for men. A sex for sex trade is skewed to men’s favor thus women push in that way to balance the scale.

With that being said if you want to date women with different values then the ones in the videos you posted then you will have to narrow your search to women willing to split the bill and that comes with not just the disadvantage of having less women to date but also that those women aren’t big into dressing overly sexy/feminine, they usually don’t give out sex early and they are more independent due to needing to do more for themselves since they are use to not having a man around. So decided on the type of woman that works best for your goals and go after them. Every type of woman has pros and cons. Decide what you want and what you are willing to trade to get that relationship.

Agreeable-Moment-760 · 2023-12-13T03:38:46+00:00

The upside to the internet is women are now exposing themselves and how they view men. The sane men will walk away and go their own way.

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Lovers691 · 2023-12-13T04:00:26+00:00

JFL her name is Stacey. Don't think you should use TikTok considering the point is for the most polarizing thing to go viral. That say the reason why this happens is because men will accept it for sex, if men had higher standards women will go 50/50

nytnaltx · 2023-12-13T04:14:08+00:00

Everyone has value as a person, let’s just get that out of the way. I think a lot of the problems in our society stem from people not respecting their own inherent dignity and the dignity of others.

Second, vocal and provocative people on the internet do not speak for the majority. I suspect they are either actual outliers or just rage baiting, like little children who know that behaving inappropriately will generate attention and engagement on their platform.

I’m a younger millennial with a traditional mindset. In a partner, I look for similar traditional yet moderate values. What doesn’t work is for women to live with a “no rules” mindset and still expect to be the type of woman who will attract a disciplined, orderly, responsible type of man.

If you (as a guy) live from the same “no rules” mentality of taking everything you can from women sexually and lying as needed to manipulate situations in your favor, like a lot of PUAs and similar minded men in these spaces encourage.. you are equally matched with “no rules” type women, who are coincidentally the type so often brought up and complained about, as though they represent all women. They don’t.

Anyone who thinks all people/men/women are alike needs to get off the internet and live a little. Don’t go after people with different values, even if you find them physically attractive. You will attract people of the moral caliber you demonstrate, so focus on becoming a genuinely good person, and good people will gravitate towards you. They may not be supermodels, in fact they probably won’t be the type of women who obsess over appearance. So ultimately, men need to decide what quality of character they require in a spouse/partner, match that themselves, and then hold themselves to a standard of only dating said upstanding women.

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thetruthishere_ · 2023-12-13T04:23:31+00:00

If we want to use social media should I believe all men are 'trash' because of some of the woman hater men in the 'man space', their stories/Tocs, etc?

I know darn well its a minority of men that are complete crap. Sorry I dont think a whole gender of people do x over social media posts/content.

I think most people over all are good people and at least try to be.

fakingandnotmakingit · 2023-12-13T04:27:42+00:00

Because y'all let them

Why are you dating women who want you to pay for all their dates? Why are you all skimping for entititled women?

Like if what they're offering isnt what you want, just say no. Don't go on a second date with a woman who didn't offer to cover her half.

Have better boundaries.

It's like women complaining their men don't pull their weight at home or don't clean. Break up with them then.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2023-12-13T04:33:33+00:00

If the only evidence you have for your argument is tiktok then maybe get off tiktok.

grown_folks_talkin · 2023-12-13T04:40:16+00:00

In the early stages of dating, women do usually have the upper hand in the sense that men have to win them over behaviorally. We’re usually more attracted and earlier. It is what it is.

I say that with only North American experience. Understanding this dynamic is not the case in Scandinavian countries, I wonder how that came to be.

Icequeen343 · 2023-12-13T04:41:12+00:00

Men are valued for money+looks and women are valued for looks, youth, fertility etc.

It’s really not that’s hard to understand

HighestTierMaslow · 2023-12-13T04:51:24+00:00

Please dont let women on Tik Tok color your views on the average woman.

Young people on this forum really need to stop looking at social media so much.

KissCutMe · 2023-12-13T04:57:17+00:00

Yall say it yourselves. Women bring status. Hotter woman? More status.

Why would a woman who values herself as someone who doesn’t need to pay for anything spend any time entertaining someone who doesn’t value her the same way? Dumb. This whole topic is dumb. Why does it matter? Are you dating them? Are you paying their bills?

microchipgirl · 2023-12-13T12:32:48+00:00

I mean, I've never raped a man, so yeah. And I don't think a man who doesn't like me owes me sex just because I was nice to him. I don't feel entitled to a man's body and emotional labor.

It's hard not to feel like men are somewhat "less than" 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♂️

Fully recognize this is the mood I woke up in and someone's gonna come after me for this, but fuggit

Title	It feels like many women believe they're better than men in general.
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Date	December 13, 2023 3:03 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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