This sub is delusional.

froze_gold · 2022-04-25T17:39:14+00:00

If 99% of the worlds population thought you were unattractive, that 1% contains over 75,000,000 who would fuck you.

Approach. Girls. No matter what.

LimitlessHarmony · 2022-04-25T16:15:35+00:00

Seen too much guys, who transformed theirs lives by learning game to believe you ...

And there’s no such thing as (game) if an ugly guy and an attractive guy both say the same thing to a female it will always be taken better from an attractive guy, and it never yields the same results.

The ugly and the super attractive guy are both outliers. For the average guy his willingness to be proactive and improve his social skills will determine his sucess.

Everyone with expierience in the field can tell, that your words are based on theory, instead of chalenging the world, by getting active on your own ...

Improving social skill and getting better with women is not a walk in the park, yes, but it is possible ...

nofapban · 2022-04-25T16:27:24+00:00

This is a quote from Elon Musk: "If something is important to you, you should do it regardless of the odds." So yeah if finding a partner is important for you, give it your best shot regardless of the odds.

Codi_Banks · 2022-04-25T16:34:15+00:00

You might not realize this but there is comfort in telling yourself things are futile. If you can convince yourself things are truly hopeless it means you don't have to try, and you don't have to bear the burden of responsibility.

But what if things aren't hopeless? What if the only thing standing between you and your greatest dreams is your lack of action? Common sense might see that as an inspiring scenario but for a lot of people its actually a very intimidating one. And why wouldn't it be? You have to summon the hero inside of you. You need to be bold, vulnerable, and willingly expose yourself to some of your deepest fears. That's what it really means to take responsibility. It's not an easy road but it is the most rewarding one you will ever follow. Would you walk through hell to get to heaven? It might sound corny to you but try to think about it for real.

Life is a gamble my friend, when you're losing you can either tell yourself the game is rigged or you can learn to play with the cards you were dealt.

Calamity__Bane · 2022-04-25T16:53:34+00:00

No offense buddy, but you’re talking out of your ass. If this shit didn’t work anymore, we’d all be talking like you instead of applying it and getting laid. It is no harder to get laid today than it was ten years ago - in fact, if anything it’s way easier now that we have dating apps and omnipresent social media telling you where to go and who’s gonna be around you. Women haven’t changed a bit, the exact same principles people have been pointing to for decades still work today.

Here’s a life tip for you and everyone else reading this; when things aren’t going your way, the least productive response is almost always to throw your hands up in the air and blame things you don’t control for it. There is always something you can change to produce a better response from the world around you, and if you’re not getting the results you want, there is, by definition, something wrong with what you’re doing. Telling yourself you’re okay as you are and shaking your fist at the clouds is for losers who never make shit happen, ever. Never settle for bullshit outcomes, seize the universe by the balls and steer that bitch like a rodeo horse until you’re satisfied.

Outrageous_Pride6017 · 2022-04-25T16:40:42+00:00

OP, you call this sub delusional and then immediately go into some incel red-pill shit about how girls only care about your looks. You are literally the epitome of what most guys in this sub are trying to not be.

You are absolutely right that times have changed, and game has changed with the internet and dating apps and shit. There are a lot of toxic traps out there, especially for men. The world has made it easy to believe the exact shit you rant about.

How many girls have you even spoken to? What do you say when you approach? What does your body language say? Instead of looking at what you can change, you sit there and blame women and technology and all this other shit as to why you suck at talking to girls. Yes, a lot has changed, and what your grandpa did sure as hell won’t work today. But you can either adapt and learn or go belly up and do nothing. If this is your actual mindset and how you think, then most girls can probably figure it out off the rip and that’s why they don’t want to talk to you.

Ineedanswers6789 · 2022-04-25T15:59:30+00:00

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CocoBabeNYC · 2022-04-25T16:49:32+00:00

Go back into whatever black pill hole you crawled out of.

LongHairedKraut · 2022-04-25T15:58:11+00:00

fondlemysausage · 2022-04-25T16:14:05+00:00

Have you ever met a boring, attractive dude? I have. They're duds with no depth. They might get laid, sure, but no girl will ever take him seriously or have anything nice to say about him other than his looks. Virtually, the same way attractive women feel when they're bombarded with DM's from weirdos.

I have seen some crazy relationship combos out there. Guys you would think have no shot walking around, arm in arm with absolute smokes. Why? Because women like men for OTHER things. Almost every girl in this scenario has said "because of how he makes me feel" when I asked them "what's kept you two together?"

If you think learning about a woman's intuition and how to read a room is a drastic change, then you're lost. These are skills that help in every aspect of life, not just in seduction.

Don't let it get you down. It only holds power over you if you let it.

Best wishes.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-04-25T17:02:47+00:00

The Internet is delusional in general, hombre.

EstablishmentLimp477 · 2022-04-25T16:33:13+00:00

I agree with you this sub is unrealistic for sure at times. And that they ignore basic parts of seduction ironically. But do I think this is all bullshit and it's hopeless nope. Good seduction is finding women who are interested in you and then not fucking it up. It's that simple nothing more nothing less. All these pua tips and tricks that do not help you do that are snake oli. Really only two factors matter social skills and effective numbers game if you master both you got "game".

shadyalex1 · 2022-04-25T16:58:30+00:00

If that is true, then what about the cases of objectively good looking women who are in a relationship with below average/average looking guys ? I know those cases are pretty rare, but still, how does that happen ?

I don't disagree nor agree with your post, I'm just asking a question.

Ineedanswers6789 · 2022-04-25T17:26:33+00:00

Change NOTHING!!

Insert_ACoolUsername · 2022-04-25T17:51:31+00:00

The bigger issue is everyone's standards are too high. Average Joe out here trying to bag a 9 when he should be looking for a 5 who can cook a 3 course meal and suck the chrome off a ball hitch. Then the two of you grow together, get better together, hotter together, etc. These guys are good enough, but not for what they want. If they're trying to get with 9's and 10's who are loyal, then they are not good enough without doing a metric shit ton of personal work.

Plupert · 2022-04-25T18:02:51+00:00

I think it’s a combination of shyness and low confidence and lack of experience for most of us. Like I have a fair amount of female friends I was just not interested in anything more than platonic bc of low confidence until very recently

TricksyTrampoline · 2022-04-25T18:39:03+00:00

Curious. What have you tried and what didn’t work?

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VDKay · 2022-04-25T16:36:04+00:00

... And that kids is a pristine exhibit of a "Homo Black-Pillus AFCicus", found almost untouched in the dark corners of Reddit.

modidlee · 2022-04-25T17:04:07+00:00

I disagree. "Game" is just another way of saying a man knows how to talk to a woman he's attracted to without coming across as desperate. And knowing how to talk in a way that raises her interest and attraction to you. Simple. Some guys naturally have it, but some need some guidance. And then some guys will have topnotch game with one woman and be a nervous wreck with another. Learning "game" is a way a man can keep that confident demeanor and frame of mind women are attracted to no matter who she is.

Lon4reddit · 2022-04-25T17:31:47+00:00

I honestly see OP as someone without the will to put the effort on himself to grow and change and the way to compensate that is to say that the game is rigged. If he's happy, well, we can't change that. But I think he's terribly wrong.

This sub is about self development aimed to increase your chances to beat the game. No one said it would be easy. And of course, you have to have fun on the path, you want to really love what you do, like hit the gym because it makes you happy etc.

But just saying that one is hopeless and without any chance to have a saying on your life is delusional, not the other way around.

And honestly people with social issues can really benefit for what's recommended here. Read models. To me it's quite a good book

Ineedanswers6789 · 2022-04-25T17:37:47+00:00

Congrats ladies and gents. We have out first case of extreme emotional vomiting on the sub.

Ineedanswers6789 · 2022-04-25T18:03:41+00:00

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Ineedanswers6789 · 2022-04-25T16:24:50+00:00

It’s not delusional to think you deserve quality women. All this negative post does is reinforce a belief system that a lot of guys on here have. That women have all the options and that we should be glad with whatever we can get.

FUCK THAT.

If you actually believe this, then of course the self-fulfilling prophecy of believing it will make it true. You may be right about women having a lot of options, but thinking those options are better than you is the actual delusion. It’s insecure af.

Stop projecting your own shortcomings and be the guy that women aren’t getting.

LimitlessHarmony · 2022-04-25T17:05:48+00:00

Interesting observation about pre-internet days. Approaching a girl who only has a small circle is definitely more effective before
Most of the guys online also have no communication skills. They say the same things "hey hows it going" and "you're gorgeous". Ask any decently looking female friend and you'll see.
Cold approaching is tough but it gives you the skill set to learn proper communication within a dating context which will help on a date / in a relationship
You have to be more selective about where and who you approach these days to get a ROI on your time, as online dating with a proper profile is also very efficient
This idea that there's something wrong. What if it's just improving what's already great so the world can see it?
How effective do you think your message will be when you open with "this sub is delusional"?
Last weekend, I approached 5 girls as practice to I can help my clients. In one of the approaches I sat down with her at a cafe and we chatted for 30 min. You just never know until you say hi. 2 of my loves came from cold approaching. IMHO, anyone who says cold approach doesnt work havent seen it done or hasnt done it properly. Your ability to connect with someone you dont know is a skill set that will benefit you the rest of your life.
While the internet / technology has made it easier to "go for the top" (We see data showing top 20% of men get 79% of the women on dating apps), it's important to note that most men have no skills online. They say the same things and get away with a high margin of error due to looks. But you talk to these girls and they get bored of these guys very quickly. Proper communication within a dating context is a skill set. Learning how to market, attract and connect with your ideal partner online and offline is a skillet. There's nothing wrong with wanting to improve that.

Matheusmeister · 2022-04-25T18:13:56+00:00

I also agree with the op, he's talking about pure reality, why would a woman want to be with you if there are several that they know, it's not necessarily that she didn't like you, maybe she would give more chance to someone she knows for safety and preference too. and before I forget the relationship needs both parties to happen

warrenrb1981 · 2022-04-25T17:01:12+00:00

This belongs in /WTF sub. This guy or girl is delusional and/or nutz.

If we were instead talking about playing soccer, or doing coding, he is essentially saying “we are all good at playing soccer and coding. The problem is soccer has more people playing soccer than before, and coding has more people coding than before. THATS why you don’t get picked to play soccer games. THATS why you don’t have a coding job. So if you just be confident that you are good enough, soccer and coding will come to you…” WTF???!!

BTW, PUA also teaches you how to keep your girl.

FeelingRisk89 · 2022-04-25T17:14:44+00:00

This kind of post is exactly why we need forums still. Because anyone can vomit a wordpuke without knowing what they are talking about.

I regularly cold approach girls. Sometimes dozens of girls a week. And it works. It's a numbers' game, sure. But it works enough that my life would basically look like a porn movie if you could film it.

Am I tall and attractive? Yes. Do I have other advantages? Yes. Do I have other discern-able disadvantages? Absolutely yes. But I am not going to let any of those disadvantages get in my way. My networth at this time is negative. Way less than the homeless guys. I drive a used Toyota SUV that I keep well-maintained.

Point is: I do the best I can. And I don't let what I don't have stop me from getting the girls I want.

If you are being overlooked, it's because you are not approaching. That is it.

LandscapeClear1630 · 2022-04-25T17:49:24+00:00

Lol this is black pill retarded shit haha

Beginning-Ad-8041 · 2022-04-25T17:59:55+00:00

Mods delete please before the incel hordes notice this post and jump us

Decent_Ad3564 · 2022-04-25T16:19:16+00:00

Well said my brother!!

Ineedanswers6789 · 2022-04-25T16:24:14+00:00

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LongHairedKraut · 2022-04-25T16:51:51+00:00

PUA is very much 2008's solution to the dating problem. It was in vogue back then and may have worked for some, but now that the dating world is in an even sorrier state PUA is obsolete. Most guys in this day and age will not get the sort of women or relationships they desire. It's a harsh truth but we as men need to understand this and move on. Lol @ all the butthurt guys attacking OP on here when he's telling it like it really is

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-04-25T16:59:23+00:00

There is nothing wrong with them… Well except for the fact that most are needy, insecure, boring, egocentric, entitled, sexist, superficial, dishonest with their intentions and have no personality…

But apart from that, I agree there is nothing wrong with them.

btrpb · 2022-04-25T17:23:47+00:00

Paragraphs.

Beginning-Ad-8041 · 2022-04-25T17:36:35+00:00

OP go take a bootcamp, this sub does the best it can but teaching game online is very difficult without seeing the person in action because of blind spots so the advice here can be pretty meh because of that, but the best way to learn game after reading a lot of books is to have a coach look at you through a boot camp and immersion program, I went to one and it made a HUGE difference, they can be pricy but can shave years of learning game off, do not say game does not work without actually putting in any attempts at it

Ok_Caterpillar2395 · 2022-04-25T19:18:40+00:00

Maybe your not a Dom?....

Ok_Caterpillar2395 · 2022-04-25T19:14:55+00:00

So are you creating reasons to rant about because of you?

itzReborn · 2022-04-25T16:18:29+00:00

Well I think that’s why people gravitate to this sub in the first place. We want to be a top option to these women despite them having so many options nowadays

higordemenezes · 2022-04-25T20:00:09+00:00

Lmaooo, Bro the world isn’t black or white there’s a HUGE gray area in between. We see everyday short guys, ugly guys, fat guys, even broke guys succeeding with women. Black pill shows you some truths but you’ll only see the bigger picture by going out there and see how things really are.

Title	This sub is delusional.
Author	Ineedanswers6789
Upvotes	0
Comments	216
Date	April 25, 2022 3:43 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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