Don’t Read This…....... Unless You are Serious.

ImKumarYo · 2011-08-30T16:44:54+00:00

“I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.” ~Bruce Lee

Yes, absolutely start with the basics, the foundation, and build from there. People always ignore the basics because it seems "too simple" and they want to skip ahead to the more interesting advanced stuff.

Kino_PuA · 2011-08-30T16:50:54+00:00

This post has inspired me ^{.^} Today at school I WILL approach a female and will have an engaging conversation. I WILL build attraction through my confidence. I WILL get her name and # close.

Ghili · 2011-08-31T01:50:18+00:00

heres my 'fashion' tips:

'fashion' puts off a lot of nerds, but it doesnt need to. i just refer to TI who said it best; "always super clean when you see me on the block." new is clean and clean looks new. toss anything that doesnt look new, or use it as a rag or something.

rule number 2 is buy clothes that fit and fit well. if your fat, all you need are exercise shorts and running shoes. dont go out till you look and feel fantastic. [some may disagree, but i stress the 'feel fantastic' aspect.] no one should be bigger than XL unless you play football, or look like you could play football.

shave your bullshit facial hair. use a hair razor, giving you that always 5 oclock look. no goatees, or douche bag soul patches, or hitler stashes, or pork chop side burns, or any of that shit. your straggly facial hair shoots off warning sirens to any HB. remember super clean? super clean. learn to cut your own hair. its easy. stop being a pussy. u can grow it back after you get some action.

match colors for fucks sake! even if its just hue, match, match match! if all else fails, go gray scale. clean white is like coke up my nose. it makes you REALLY stand out. if its dingy, bleach it back to sparkling. and if you find your color in an LLBean catalog, so does your grandma. stop it. STOP IT! STOP WEARING THAT SHIT. nothing says turnoff like 'my mom dresses me!" you want to peacock; so get out the 80s pastels or whatever looks like its from the future. burn the 90s plaid. [this might be personal again, but fuck i hate that 90s grunge look.]

http://www.phoenixnewtimes.com/slideshow/phoenix-comicon-2011-in-photos-33427500/

searching for a 'nerds' in google image didnt work, so i did the next best thing. comicon 2011. right there, image 1, dude wearing shorts, white socks, mid-tops, and some god-aweful print shirt. /facepalm. shorts? no socks, or minimal socks. no hi-tops unless youre rockin some sweetass limited edition nikes or some shit. low tops. the lower the better. sandals are also awesome. nothing says, "i don't give a fuck." better than not wearing anything. and i do mean anything. timex watch? really? its better to wear nothing than wear a timex, which is why i dont wear watches anymore. nothing says, 'judge me!' more than a wrist watch. all this guy really needs to do is ditch the horrible shirt hes got on for a simple white button down, throw some low tops with super low cut black socks (black hides everything, and if they are worn properly are/can-be invisible with the shadow of a shoe ect ect.)

for the love of god, jeans are jeans, and jeans do NOT MAKE SHORTS! too skinny and you look like a hipster. no one wants to look like a hipster and if you do, kill yourself for me. levis are classics, but make sure they are the right color. those hyper blue things you got in the 90s need to be discarded, and refreshed with a new pair. Diesel changed the game with their ruined denim look - so hop on board the choochoo bandwagon and look like you bought some clothes in the 21st century. boot-cut? boot-into-the-trash. 511s - 514s are my favs. anything too skinny and you just look like a douche trying to hard. you want straight cut. straight! remember how we buy clothes that fit? and we ditched the hi-top hiking boots you found at payless? go to a skate store and pick up some thing, anything else. running shoes are for running. hiking shoes are for hiking. for everything else, theres some classy looking nikes or whatever. i love my nikes, but i also regular addidas, pumas, vibram FFs [nothing says nerdy like ninja shoes], but i also have a large collection of skate shoes [es, globe, ect. i do skate but not in all of them] they are in the 'casual' section for a reason.

if all else fails or you just feel like it, business casual always always ALWAYS looks classy when you DO IT RIGHT. you want straight slacks. if you have pleated, deplete them into the good-will bins and buy yourself some flat front slacks. tapered, or sport fitted button downs. you want that shit to snug your body, because clothes that fit, are clean, will always look good. get yourself some comfy ass clarks, or whatever you fancy, or hell, be like me and have a little of everything.

also: glasses. they can be an awesome bonus. go to goggles4u or where ever and get yourself a pair or 5. in many different colors. usually to match. and get yourself some cheap-ass plastic white sunglasses too. [fantastic ice breaker. thank you GQ for that tip!]. i have a shit ton of glasses, and i still wear contacts too. showing up to date #2 with a different pair of matching glasses will shoot arrows into your HB partners heart. she doesn't need to know you you got your frames for 20 bucks shipped, all she sees is your matching eye ware, fitted shirt, and classy jeans or that laid-back business casual that smells like success with a cock. people associate fancy glasses with money, so take advantage of it.

heres my take: business casual is actually extremely comfortable when you do it right. i took a page from the barney book of bros, and have had pretty good success just rockin the button down, slacks, clarks, and a wool jacket [if winter.] i also go the exact opposite route and deck myself out in nike crap or sports stuff with levis, or guess denim down south and flagrant nikes. the sports stuff is generally bright, flashy, comfortable, and well made. dont be afraid to flip through a gentleman's magazine and go straight to the male models - its not gay if your improving your look, and improving your look goes straight to improving your game.

final edit: just because you dont want the clothes anymore doesnt mean you should throw it out. donate it to a charity or those good will bins if you have any sense of decency in you. people could use your old clothes more than you know. besides, maybe you see that HB that brushed you off before with your new look, and throw in a little "yeah i needed new clothes, so i donated my old closet and got some new stuff." key words for women, donate. also "rescue" like dogs. but thats another topic =] enjoy

more edits: some people hate on printed t-shirts but they can suck it. theres nothing wrong with a printed tshirt: theres everything wrong with tshirts that say stupid bullshit, or have something equally retarded on it like a those walmart airbrushed wolves. uniqlo has fresh designs but full frontal disclamer: i learned everything i know about fashion from people in fashion, in tokyo, so of course im a huge uniqlo fanboy. they are considered the gap of japan, and for good reason: they make a huge selection of colors, sizes, classic shapes and apparels and a boatload of accessories. if your confused http://www.uniqlo.com/us/ go there and look around. not that u should wear it all the time, but it wont hurt, and should give you some ideas as to whats good, and what you got.

[noder edit] oh god they have flannel. do me a favor and never wear flannel. it makes the bounty man cry when you do.

TofuTofu · 2011-08-30T16:54:17+00:00

Hell yeah.

For every one hour you spend reading material/browsing seddit, you should be spending 10 in the field. I firmly believe that.

Great advice, Mayson!

wolfsktaag · 2011-08-30T22:14:20+00:00

im not serious, but i read it anyway. five minutes later, my testicles shriveled and i am unable to achieve an erection

BitchesLove · 2011-08-31T01:27:31+00:00

Male Fashion Advice From Reddit

eScheeee · 2011-08-30T21:20:15+00:00

ok... even though i'm shy as shit, I take your advice and post what i've achieved in 1 month from now on. wish me luck...

theubernoob · 2011-08-30T20:43:46+00:00

I think I've spent just about my entire life learning about women. I hope you're just referring to the 5 years as being a coach or whatever. I agree with step two and the last point you make about "game" becoming second nature. However, I believe your look and the people you go out with only determine the amount of difficulty you're going to have in picking up girls. Looking good and being surrounded by good people only make things easier, like it would be very difficult to not get girls under those circumstances. If you look bad and go out by yourself, it's going to be more difficult, but it is entirely possible to get as many women as before and this is accomplished solely based on your behavior and personality. I look at not dressing well and going out by myself as training with a weight vest on; it's more difficult, but it will make me much better over time. I have always been poor, but I have always had women. I pick up women entirely based on my personality and it works without everything else.

Sorry if that's a little confusing. My point is all this stuff helps, but the only thing you actually need is step 2.

2011-08-30T20:15:04+00:00

Step 3: Get help…

I'd recommend this for anything that you intend to learn, not just seduction.

You want to learn how to program? Hang out with programmers. You want to learn how to play music? Join a music group. Drawing? Find some artists to give you feedback.

You'll never learn anything if you're trying to figure everything out yourself.

sparklyteenvampire · 2011-08-30T20:19:35+00:00

In like every chick flick, the lead female is just your ordinary woman. Working her job, hanging out with friends, etc. One day, the lead male comes in and just sweeps her off her feet. Sweet, charming, handsome motherfucker who she just falls in love with.

YOU ARE THAT FUCKING SUAVE FELLA WHO SWEEPS WOMEN OFF THEIR FEET, FUCK YEAH.

frogma · 2011-08-31T03:17:51+00:00

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2011-08-31T05:56:22+00:00

I agree fashion is important, but you have a very narrow idea of what fashion is and therefore, what women will be attracted to that. For example, if I wanted to pick up women with dreadlocks and Birkenstocks, I would dress similarly. Thank God I don't, but anyhow. I'm personally more attracted to hipster-ish girls and not the kind of women that generally go for suits and dressy-casual and that kind of thing. That said, I still feel there was some things to learn from the fashion links you posted, so thank you.

analord · 2011-08-31T06:43:39+00:00

I'm not serious but I read it anyway.

notlurkinganymoar · 2011-08-30T18:16:25+00:00

Thanks, dude. Seddit needs more posts like this which, unfortunately, it is lacking. Glad to have you as part of our community.

jntwn · 2011-08-30T18:42:13+00:00

Got the style, got the hard date tonight to crack, lets see how it goes.

bradtwo · 2011-08-31T09:19:26+00:00

Great post, keep them coming.

whatwhywhy · 2011-08-31T20:05:41+00:00

Shpuld i go for the most attractive one? Or the ok looking one? If i go for ok looking one, they're great but i dun find myself interested in them But the attractive one usually ignore and play the hard to get game... How do i break the ice?

wizdum · 2011-08-31T01:17:08+00:00

Another tip: never let a woman dress you. Ever.

2011-08-31T08:40:48+00:00

Wtf is with the dramatic marketing title and tone? Are you David Deangelo 5 years ago? Can't believe seddit is upvoting this.

Don't go there seddit, please, this is a place for sensible discussion - not promoting yourself by rephrasing basic stuff in a 'marketing' way.

ehbeeseedee · 2011-08-31T20:24:52+00:00

Nailed it.

BigRock83 · 2011-08-31T01:53:22+00:00

Sneaky Self Promotion/Advertisement

2011-08-31T07:54:44+00:00

As far as fashion goes, I'd do whatever feels right. I hardly pay any attention to it and I'm doing ok. Same with how you speak with women.

Really, the key is pretty basic. Just be yourself, but don't be afraid of meeting new people.

Don't hire a coach. Just go out and do things you like to do. Don't even worry about women. Let them pick you out. Just be social, and be yourself and you'll be fine. Both take practice, but if you're confident and social, you'll be fine. If you're kind to everyone, regardless of gender, you'll get laid soon enough, and you're likely to find someone you'd be willing to spend some time with.

It is important not to "put the pussy on a pedastol." Just go out and have fun. Don't overthink it. If you have fun, people around you will have fun. If they happen to be females.......

hans1193 · 2011-08-31T13:46:08+00:00

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2, women's fashion =/= male fashion.

Title	Don’t Read This…....... Unless You are Serious.
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Date	August 30, 2011 3:42 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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