So I was sitting in the gym sauna when this kid that I used to talk to occasionally at the previous gym I went years ago came in. He asked me if I remembered him and I said yes, and we started talking.

Things escalated uncomfortably for me very quick. He immediately jumped into telling me that he's bi and he always thought that I was bi. Then he asked if I've been with guys.

Then he started talking about how he gained weight and the problem is stretch marks in the groin area. Then he rolled up his underwear to show me his groin.

So I'm pretty much like wtffffff, because this was just really unexpected. Then he came and sat down next to me, put his foot next to mine and asked me what size shoes I wear.

Then a couple of people came in and then we all talked about random stuff. When one of them left, the kid once again rolled up his underwear to point out the stretch marks to me.

And then I decided to get out to get dressed. He followed me, and told me that I should use the lockers in the back. He then waited until I got dressed and told me I should come with him to the back to talk. I said nah I gotta go and took off.

So that's pretty much the condensed version of what happened. Btw, I did tell him that I haven't been with any guys and that I am straight.

It was very creepy and uncomfortable, and I couldn't exactly tell why. Then I wondered if this is what women feel whenever they get hit on by guys, which made me feel like shit. I even went as far as to think that maybe girls don't want guys to come on strongly.

However, after having some time to think to myself, I realized what the problem was. He WAS creepy. It wasn't so much someone coming on to me, or a guy coming on to me, but rather how he did it. During the conversation, it was clear that he had absolutely no interest in all the things that I had to say. I told him bunch of shit about working out and etc but he just was not interested and kept trying to steer the conversation into something sexual.

It's like he was wanting to fuck me so bad in the sauna and in the locker room, that he just didn't care about anything else. That reminded me of what Tyler Durden says in one of his videos. The interaction wasn't authentic, human to human, fun, or even interesting.

This is probably the same thing that I have done to the girls that I tried so hard to fuck in the past. It's funny how only after having an experience like this, do I fully realize how much of a creep I must have been in the past.