If you're shallow, and put a girl on a pedestal bc of her looks, you will be nervous and try too hard to impress her, then get rejected. If you're not shallow, but judge a girl for what is inside and not outside, your behavior and energy will be different, and your results will be much better.

The guys who get the best results with girls are not shallow.

They are also the guys who don't treat girls like objects or trophies, but see girls as human beings. They don't want to be respected for their 'skill with girls' or have an identity as a 'player'. Often they will deny being good with girls because they respect girls and don't see them as objects to use to gain validation or respect from others. Because they don't use or need girls for their identity, they are more relaxed and give off a different energy around girls, which is attractive.

The guy who sees girls as trophies and uses them to impress others, will not be able to reach the full potential of his social life.

SUMMARY: - Don't be shallow. Judge girls (and guys) for their inner qualities, not outer appearances.

• Don't use girls to get validation from others. See girls as human being, not objects, and you will be better able to connect with them.