How to give off a sexual vibe?

bulldog_in_the_dream · 2018-11-22T20:48:45+00:00

Eye-contact is fundamental. When you look a woman in the eye, don't hide the fact that you want her. Maintain eye-contact. This is a very clear signal you are interested in a woman sexually.

buttgoogler · 2018-11-22T19:16:12+00:00

Strong eye-contact, slow movements and masculine body language.

suckymeh · 2018-11-22T21:57:52+00:00

Dress better and get a better haircut. Be playful and flirt, tease a little. Throw in a sexual joke or comment once in a while.

Look at her like your want to fuck her. Small smiles, "smirk" raising just one side of your mouth. It looks a little mysterious and devious which raises her interest and tension (excitement).

Don't talk too much, again raises mystery and interest, plus forces her to put in some effort.

BaconMeTimbers · 2018-11-22T23:52:36+00:00

Quit porn. Jerk it only once a week

p1243 · 2018-11-22T22:49:41+00:00

Walk, think, and deal with women like you just came out of a sex chamber. This means you will be giving 0 fucks. The less fucks you give, the more fucks you will get. And thats all im going to say. Best Luck m8.

broswins · 2018-11-22T19:49:05+00:00

Lift heavy at the gym, get hot, look at yourself in the mirror, listen to music that makes you feel like a threat. Feel yourself. Hold eye contact one second too long. Give a general impression that you are toying with people in conversation. Make it seem like it feels very good to be you.

lalalalafu · 2018-11-22T22:53:55+00:00

Other users already made some good points with eye contact, confidence and body language, I may add choosing CAREFULLY the words in your sentences, try using words that have a sexual tone. The trick is being very very subtle and don't over use it, if you can manage to get her thinking what you meant to say your good. Give yourself room to play dumb when she doesn't response well, if you can manage to get her doing the same thing you made it

ImJustSo · 2018-11-22T21:54:22+00:00

Sex should be something that's comfortable to you. You do it, you think it, you talk about it, and it's comfortable for you to do. Maintain eye contact, smirk about things that can be misconstrued as sexual, or just make a comment about how it can be misconstrued as sexual. Anytime you can hint at sex, or sexual topics, then you do that. You can also just talk about sex topics, it doesn't have to be about you and her, she'll think about sex. You just put sex in the mind of that woman.

Eventually, you'll be natural about it and anytime a woman you think is sexy, then it'll just happen.

There's this bartender chick I always flirt with, here's an example from the other night. She's constantly shaking her head and exasperated with me, she'll blush and say, "I can't with you!" then walk away laughing. Well, it was time to go, so I signed my check and left a tip. I tipped a tiny bit over twenty percent, which brought the total to $69.

I said to her, "I gave you a big tip." while maintaining eye contact and she wiggled her eye brows at me, "Oooh, a big tip huh?" She thinks she's being the sly one, looks at the bill and says, "Oh my god! I can't with you!" and I said, "You can't what? 69 with me?"

"Oh my god, get outta here!" shaking her head and laughing again.

Shit sounds cringey, right? But if the chick digs you, it doesn't matter. Your confidence and comfort with sex is attractive.

WHADOYAKNOWIMALIVE · 2018-11-23T02:07:40+00:00

Stop masturbating

davegoldblatt · 2018-11-23T06:17:21+00:00

You're not radiating niceness & friendzone, you're radiating inner instability and insecurity. This leads to neediness and seeking of approval. Women see a man as being sexy when that man is ambitious and confident. Women see you as a friend because they see you not as a man but as a boy - unsure, and needing to be led.

Work on your inner self to grow your confidence - meditate, see a therapist, and most of all do NOT base your self worth on if a woman likes you or not.

Quick test: Ask a girl out. Gauge your feelings before, during, and after. Regardless of the outcome, were you unconcerned with what she said? Is your life completely unaffected by her answer?

If the answer is no, then there's your answer. Everything else in this thread is great, but they are solving the symptoms, and not the root cause.

BayesianBits · 2018-11-23T00:37:30+00:00

Get aroused.

theforgetfulbuddha · 2018-11-23T07:00:20+00:00

Just that open-ended question makes me think of creepy ass dudes trying to be sexy inappropriately with women that don't want them to be.

A friend of mine once said that a good way to piss off a woman is to objectify a woman that doesn't want to be objectified by you, and another way to piss off a woman is to not objectify a woman that wants you to objectify her.

Go back to step 1, you got to know she likes you before you get all sexy pants on her otherwise you just going to drive her ass away.

Serg885 · 2018-11-23T08:19:03+00:00

I get never friendzoned, so Here are my tips. Please take note that you need social skills to use some of the techniques, otherwise you may seem weird or creepy:

first things first: relax. Even if you are desperate, there is nothing more off putting than being clingy as a guy. Relax your body language, be rather leaned back. Don't mirror her body language. You're not selling used cars. Also don't be outcome oriented. Even if you are attracted, she is just a human being that buys toilet paper and watches Netflix. See it as a fun learning experience.

Seduction in a nutshell:

good eye contact. Let her break eye contact first. Don't stare all the time however (creepy). Don't look down at all. Looking down implies insecurity. Your eye contact should not be extremely intense or serious, but rather relaxed and sensual. Like you have a slight smirk.
physical contact. To illustrate the importance: There is a study that a handshake brings people closer than 5 hours on the phone (or something like that). Even if you just touch somebody's hands "accidentally" it is more sexual than not touching at all. No physical contact means you are strangers. Touch where it is allowed first and escalate slowly. It is acceptable to touch hands or shoulders, later other areas. Never touch private areas in public. Don't look at your hands when you touch somebody. If you are a beginner, it seems like you are asking for permission. If you are confident it doesn't matter if you look at your hands or not however.
get closer over time. You can't kiss or escalate if you are miles away. Get a feeling for this. Also learn what distances are ok in your country and find ways to close the distance. Being interested in her jewelry, asking her questions about it and touching her while she shows it to you is a way to get a bit closer for example. If somebody seems uncomfortable, slow down, go a step back and retry with something else.
speak like you are lovers. Speak rather slow, relax your voice as it sounds deeper. Don't verbalize sexual stuff, but make implications where the girl can interpret it as sexual. This needs some seduction or social skills obviously and takes some time to learn.

Stv51 · 2018-11-23T07:31:30+00:00

I was the opposite. When I talked to a girl I was interested in, I left no doubt as to what I was interested in. I never made friends with girls unless I was in a relationship with them first.

What I see happening is that guys settle for the friend zone because it is safer and easier to go there since there is no fear of rejection. I never allowed myself to even hint at wanting to be a friend. If you want to avoid your problem, do not act like a friend with girls you want a relationship with. Let them know that you think they are hot/nice/interesting/etc. and are interested in going on a date or doing something together; just the two of you.

Your solution is easy if you overcome your fear of rejection. Simply refuse to act like a friend with girls you want to date. Accept the fact that most girls are not going to feel the same as you feel about them. What if they say no? The result of their “NO" will be the same as entering the friend zone or never asking them in the first place for a date. So you have nothing to lose and all to gain. Do not take rejection personally. As with many things in life, we all have preferences. Just because I like vanilla ice cream does not mean other flavors suck. Tip: When you want a yes answer, act as you expect a yes answer. Lots of Psychological tricks like slightly nodding your head yes a few times when you ask. I let my eyes widen, smile and arch my eyebrows in anticipation of a positive response.

If they suggest friendship just tell them that you would need more than that, then say goodbye and try another girl. It is all a numbers game anyway. I get sick when I see guys pursuing girls who I can see have no romantic interest in them. They seem to think that by being friendly the friendship would grow into romance, Rarely does that happen. Once viewed as a friend it is more difficult to go from that to romantic than from zero to romance.

Dress well, speak well, try to be funny. Show self confidence. Don’t act scared or agreeing with everything she says and leaving everything up to her out of desperation for a date. Take charge a little. I have found that girls seem to prefer if I suggest the place to go on a date rather than ask them. That only leaves them trying to figure out how much money you can afford, what foods you like, etc.. Far better to suggest a good place and then ask them if it is OK with them. If they are into your, they will go anywhere just to be with you.

There is a lot more but too much to write about here. Just do not present your intentions as friendship. If a girl asks you to join her and a few other guys and girls, just politely say that you rather just take her out to dinner, lunch, anywhere to get to get to know her better one on one, If she says no, then you just saved yourself from wasting a few months of your life chasing a dream.

MrSaiyan_333_ · 2018-11-22T21:49:44+00:00

Having sex a lot can help.

goodgodgoodgod · 2018-11-22T21:44:05+00:00

Geese dude you're going about it the wrong way if you listen to this advice. You can't just make strong eye contact, girls will think you're creepy, you can't just make body contact without the right context.

My suggestion. Read The Game, then go out and start approaching people on the street, guys and girls. Get comfortable socialising and reading social q's. Once you do this, you will naturally be able to be more sexual in the right context at the right time.

Unfortunately reading something online won't change this. It takes time and effort.

Good luck.

Vast_Path · 2018-11-22T22:49:40+00:00

Not gonna say I have a video on body language but... also everyone is right in the comments. It’s about maintaining that eye contact and also paying attention to your tone of voice to make sure it doesn’t waiver and remains assured

goodgodgoodgod · 2018-11-23T00:09:23+00:00

What is a sexual vibe anyway? What you're asking is, how do I make myself more attractive to females so they want to be intimate with me?

Or,

How do I know if a girl is interested in me so I can escalate.

CollectedData · 2018-11-23T01:51:25+00:00

Most of the answers talk more about how to look like you have a sexual vibe. But you cannot simply copy a behavior. To actually give off a sexual vibe, you first got to want to have sex with her and be aggressive enough of a person to act like it. Otherwise, you would look creepy trying to reproduce top comments lol.

BonvivantNamedDom · 2018-11-23T11:47:24+00:00

Strong eye contact, slow and relaxed movements, dont be surprised by anything and make sexual advances of any kind. Verbally, physically.. Just dont rape please

SinistarGrin · 2018-11-23T00:20:27+00:00

Best tip?

Stop fapping for a few days before you see her. Then your sexual energy will exude from your every pore.

MrFornication · 2018-11-23T00:53:53+00:00

Okay so eye contact has been covered and so hase physical touch... But especially with physical touch you need to be careful. Too much, or inappropriate timing will have seriously bad effects.

Mr-Cali · 2018-11-23T02:35:34+00:00

Don’t always be nice Give off a pinch of asshole and a ton of confidence

stabahookernrun · 2018-11-23T02:48:19+00:00

Everybody has great info here. Just remember that if you’re interested in women, you have it in you. If you desire women this is part of who you are. Less about doing, more about being. It’s natural to your core. And when you let that part of you naturally come to the surface, it naturally brings that part out of the girl as well.

Just let your imagination with the girl go a little wild in your head. I often naturally start imagining the girl naked, or us having a laugh together as I feel her body and turn her on, or desiring her and making her feel turned on. This is getting a bit graphic, but you have your own turn ons in your psyche, touch upon them. They’ll bring out who you are.

trinity2187 · 2018-11-23T03:08:38+00:00

When you with someone hold the small of their back, it’s a smile gesture that shows you want to be more than friends. Maintain eye contact and be confident

CH705-807 · 2018-11-23T04:38:58+00:00

Assume they like you.

TheOriginalJZ · 2018-11-23T05:51:45+00:00

So.. easy way to remember. Imagine she's a family member. HOW would you act physically toward her? Is she treating you like a family member? If not..she likes you.. THEN..Do what these guys said and show her. But u gotta know whether it's game on or not first. GOOD LUCK

Alex_O7 · 2018-11-23T10:10:38+00:00

Use kino my friend, touch the girl your talking with, hug her and (if you can or feel confortable with) dance with her (also for no reason e with no music, at least she should find it funny). Also you have to make strong eye contact and talk with her about sex related stuff (also if sex is not explicit in the argument).

YesIamALizard · 2018-11-23T02:05:14+00:00

Step 1: Be Attractive Step 2: Don't be not attractive Step 3: ??? Step 4: Sexy Times

hellayaked · 2018-11-23T02:27:18+00:00

Honestly I've been in the game in 2012. I joined a frat and half this shit came naturally. But this top advice here is really good. Best stuff I have seen in a while. Good pickup doesn't look like pickup. Like good acting. I talk to as many people as possible and today was one of the best days. I met a lot of girls where I went to eat and at home in the neighborhood. Capitalize on this. This weekend should be easy. I have 3 girls coming over on the weekend. I teach rotation game mainly. For NYE i am inviting everyone i know over because ill have the best view of the fireworks. Other girls will be there and some of them I will have fucked. Oh well. Ill tell them to bring their friends and try to pull a threesome. But this is a really good thread. Keep a masculine frame as much as possible and basically the rest will come over time.

lavahot · 2018-11-23T06:53:54+00:00

You have to vibrate at exactly 440 Hz.

Morgenos · 2018-11-22T22:54:09+00:00

Fermented cod liver oil... yes really

dailymanup · 2018-11-27T18:37:35+00:00

Check out this article called The Sexual Frame. Sounds like what you're looking for.

FINDTHESUN · 2018-11-23T07:53:11+00:00

Visualize sex when you look at her. Do this all the time and the vibe will increase over time.

theforgetfulbuddha · 2018-11-23T06:58:51+00:00

Mark your territory and piss on her leg women love it when you piss on them.

lerule · 2018-11-23T02:29:29+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xQh61uqt79s

Title	How to give off a sexual vibe?
Author	Super_Nova_19
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Date	November 22, 2018 6:43 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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