I’ve followed this sub for a minute. Noticed lots of women saying they never get approached in the wild. Well today, I thought I’d give it a try. Here’s how it went.

I’m sitting on the train, and a really stylish woman gets on board and stands close-ish next to me. I glance at her a couple times and at one point we made really quick, nervous eye contact.

So I take my headphones off and say “hey, your leather jacket is really cool”. She thanks me, compliments my outfit. I introduce myself and ask her name. We chat for a minute or two in this packed train car until her stop comes up. She asks me to exchange Instagrams, but the doors only open for a few seconds so she’s panicking lol. I run out of the train with her to type my IG handle into her phone even though it wasn’t my stop.

She leaves and I wait for the next train to arrive so I can get where I’m going. While I wait, I DM her saying I thought she was cute and if she wanted to get drinks tomorrow night. The date is set, I’m excited :)