Dug up court records. She is indeed legally separated. Everything lines up with what she says as far as career and kids. She says it's over over. Her husband cheated on her for quite a while. Everything seems credible.

This is Oregon. I think legally separated means terms are on paper and those are pretty close to the final terms. So she is "kind of" divorced for whatever that's worth. But she is still in the thick of it.

I was initially a "nope" and ready to cut her loose when I learned about it. We talked. For all the baggage divorce carries, she's still more put together and healthier than other girls on the apps. I've seen all sorts of crazy on Match. And she's honestly pretty solid.

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