If women like bad guys, who don’t men….

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Unhappy_Offer_1822 · 2024-11-14T14:04:21+00:00

i dont know

why dont you test out this theory and wrack up a few felonies and report back with the results

MongoBobalossus · 2024-11-14T14:00:56+00:00

This take is borderline mentally handicapped.

Most women aren’t looking for psychopathic serial killers. “Bad boy” = has tattoos and a motorcycle and access to party drugs, not “I chop people into pieces and wear their skin as a suit.”

_weedkiller_ · 2024-11-14T14:18:31+00:00

The start of your message about TV & social media portraying men as “the most evil oppressors” is objectively untrue.

That said - “bad guys” (and girls) cheat. I don’t mean romantically, I mean if dating was a game they are cheating at it by misrepresenting themselves. They lie about accomplishments, personality traits jobs etc. So of course they will do better. Additionally women in particular are attracted to confidence, which these people have bucketloads of. These people act like they’ve got everything under control, always know what to do and can deal with any situation they face. This is the bit that’s so attractive to women.

ThatGuyFromThisPlace · 2024-11-14T13:59:56+00:00

They don't, because your premise is wrong. Most women do not like bad guys. And definitely not bad guys that actually try to harm them.

Suspicious_Glove7365 · 2024-11-14T14:27:03+00:00

Did you know that women can not like serial killers AND not like trump supporters at the same time?

Fab_Glam_Obsidiam · 2024-11-14T13:59:47+00:00

Fantasy doesn't translate to real life.

Jord-an_ · 2024-11-14T14:24:14+00:00

Women don't like bad guys. They like the confidence and leadership abilities. The assholes you speak of tend to have these qualities in some capacity or are willing to fake it to attract her. It's all a kind of pretense by the guy. They do it and succeed and then make that mentality a part of their dating philosophy, because they saw success.

That kind of thinking brings a dilemma to young men nowadays. "Do I have to be an asshole to get with my crush?" That's very very demotivating so they just opt to play video games and jerk off.

flipsidetroll · 2024-11-14T14:25:21+00:00

Since we all know? Ooooh. You mean, redpillers know because they’ve been told this by trp grifters. That’s very different to “we all know”. So let’s just get our words right.

Before you do anything, how about defining a “bad boy”?

Bubbly_Pension4020 · 2024-11-14T14:35:27+00:00

I thought from the title you were asking why don't men like bad girls, which I was about write an answer to, but then I read the actual post.

Come on, dude. You can do better than this.

PracticalControl2179 · 2024-11-14T14:48:37+00:00

“Criminals have more sex”

Ok? Go date a bunch of women with severe issues, then. Go date prostitutes, women with addiction and mental health issues, women with multiple baby daddies, drug addictions, and women who struggle with severe poverty and any other issues that come with it that I missed. If having relationships and sex with severely hurt and broken women is considered high value and successful to you, then do it.

Because that’s who these criminals are dating.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2024-11-14T14:03:00+00:00

the thing about that: most “women only like bad boys” complainers are also cowards.

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KoleSekor · 2024-11-14T14:22:46+00:00

Women get turned on by "bad boys" because at least bad boys lean into their masculinity. They're bold, unapologetic, dominant, confident, polarizing, don't give af about the opinions of others, among other things, which is why women are drawn to them.

But the way bad boys act is not sustainable for a relationship. Men need to be like bad boys but less egocentric, narcissistic, and rude.

rustlerhuskyjeans · 2024-11-14T14:31:59+00:00

Women are attracted to dark triads, they can look sweet and innocent or like tattooed criminals. It’s not personality traits you can just change into.

woodclip · 2024-11-14T15:01:46+00:00

If women like bad guys

Only if they're good looking.

GrandpaDallas · 2024-11-14T15:02:29+00:00

Because of two things:

1) In my life/observations, the women who I've been attracted to have liked nice dudes (me), so I haven't felt the need to change my behavior

2) I don't want to be a villain. I don't want to be a horrible human being as some play to get with more women.

And since we all know that women are turned on by bad boys, psychopaths, serial killers and the like

In my experience, this isn't the case

James_M_Croft · 2024-11-14T14:25:37+00:00

Most women are bored so they desire drama and dangerous men to compensate for that.

We, men, were like this as children and knew it was just naiveté, that we in fact liked very much the easy and "boring" life of a child.

Most women are the same eventually. They eventually notice that living life is hard and drop this preference. Just as much as we men dropped our preference for "bad girls" as boys. It just takes longer for women.

abaxeron · 2024-11-14T14:06:48+00:00

There is no reason to think women will just "distribute themselves" equally among "bad men" in this scenario, rather than flock to the small subset of the worst among the bad.

gudinn · 2024-11-14T14:30:27+00:00

Girls don't actually like BAD guys. They like "bad" guys. There is a difference between being nonchalant and being a horrible person

fredwester · 2024-11-14T14:00:48+00:00

Choosing to be "bad" isn't an option for them, because they view themselves as inherently and unchangeably good and moral.

Which they kind of are. How many people who complain about nice guys finishing last can you honestly imagine even engaging in minor "bad" things like drinking, smoking, shoplifting, lying, cheating, fighting?

They couldn't do it. So there's no point in telling them that.

Title	If women like bad guys, who don’t men….
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Date	November 14, 2024 1:55 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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