How would you improve your dating life, if you had some money?

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-01-11T15:57:07+00:00

If your social skills are sub par, I’d invest some money in joining an improv class. Seriously, I think it’s better value-wise than a random dating coach.

great_account · 2025-01-11T17:49:56+00:00

Clothes, trips, nice dinners, nice cocktail bars, nice set of bed sheets, nice pillows(you should have 4 pillows), nice apartment in a cool area. Go see a doctor, a dentist and an optometrist. Gym membership. Sign up for fun classes like improv, or play a in rec league for pickleball or basketball. Invest the money. Tickets to concerts or festivals.

My real take home point is if you build a life you enjoy living, you won't have to worry about finding someone who wants to be in your life.

StrikingImportance39 · 2025-01-11T15:33:47+00:00

Clothes tailored to u.

Stock clothes usually are shit. Even branded ones. A good tailor can make you look dapper.

Also. Haircut. A good stylist can make you look way better. They understand what works and what does not.

Lastly, jewellery. At minimum u should have a good watch.

Also I suggest couple of rings as well.

entitledwank · 2025-01-11T15:59:21+00:00

Hard to say without knowing your baselines.

Dating isn’t always Pay to Win, sex can be, but not the type of girls you probably want.

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-01-11T23:57:07+00:00

Buy better clothes

Get a better vehicle

live in a nicer aprtment

Get a gym membership and start working out

Clean up your house/paint it/organize it

you kind of have to think like a woman and think what would a woman want from me.

Particular_Air_296 · 2025-01-11T15:55:17+00:00

I'll get some hygiene, new clothes, deal with my body as well so just exercise and all that.

TripleDigitNomad · 2025-01-11T17:56:51+00:00

Focus on maximizing your attractiveness, both physically and not. Buy clothes that look good, take improv and dance classes, hire a professional photographer to take good pictures of you, get a decent car/place if that's an option, and hell, hire a dating coach to improve your game too.

liftingnstuff · 2025-01-11T21:23:17+00:00

Moving near your city's downtown/nightlife district would have a larger impact than anything else listed in this thread. Next would be paying a professional photographer to optimize your online dating profile - there are even photographers who advertise this service, and paying for boosts etc when your profile is optimized. In terms of actual self improvement: stylist, dentist, dermatologist, improv, dance class, gym membership if you don't have one.

roakmamba · 2025-01-11T23:33:30+00:00

Clothes, fitness equipment to work out at home because the gym is a waiting game to use a machine, fix up my place, get a better car or improve the one i already have, get some dance classes/boxing, and see where that takes me.

pelican_likes_horse · 2025-01-12T01:06:06+00:00

Take time off work to only practice game for a few months, like it’s your full time job

Intelligent-Roll-763 · 2025-01-12T09:18:17+00:00

I would 100% put it on a good mentor .

I lost 2 years of my life trying to do things by myself, until I randomly found a mentor that really delivered. I spent some money from him but what I got back was priceless:

I finally lost my virginity to a complete stranger a few hours after I met her during the daytime
I can now get instant dates pretty much anytime I go out to talk to girls .
I have no difficulty talking to women in public, even in crowded places, no issues talking to groups of women even .
Women now pay for my stuff and give me gifts , I also spend less on dates , which is a real ROI on the money I paid for the mentoring.

100% look for someone who has proof of having or teaching the results you are looking for and learn from them. No regrets. Would do it again if I had more money.

Basic-Parfait3122 · 2025-01-12T14:43:56+00:00

Become as physically attractive as you can, improve wardrobe and maybe a speech coach if necessary.

Don't spend on a ridiculous dating coach.

Jean1337 · 2025-01-12T18:35:51+00:00

Gym, therapy and dance class

siwatanejo · 2025-01-13T11:36:21+00:00

There's a business that swipes and msgs chicks for you, about 900 a month. A bit stuck but saves time and removes all the frustration about online-game I guess (never tried).

shathecomedian · 2025-01-11T16:10:07+00:00

Id start with the basics

Professional haircut, tailored clothes, personal trainer full time if I'm not in shape, professional skin care treatment

AimlesslWander · 2025-01-11T17:42:57+00:00

It's not money that's the issue it's going on just talking to people that's going to be your main problem the way I see it is you're wasting your time if you only think about talking to a girl or a guy, what you really need to do is just go and talk to them talk about anything talk about what they're doing where you're at or about anything around you guys make a comment on the music or talk about grocery shopping where you guys are at grocery shopping or what kind of music they normally listen to you if you're at a concert a club or just somewhere where music is playing in general

Or if somebody's looking for something and needing help getting something off the shelf go and help them out and just strike up a conversation.

Title	How would you improve your dating life, if you had some money?
Author	Durden93
Upvotes	30
Comments	47
Date	January 11, 2025 3:28 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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