TRP seems like basically an outlet for unrequited attraction, and also a community that gives people connection around their common experience of unrequited attraction, with the common enemy being “women.”

I don’t really get what FDS is / what draws people to it / what the past experience of people who like it is that drives them to it / etc — would love an explanation if anyone has one. Is it just the same thing for women? Some of the content seems different though, like more upset about past relationships. I spent some time in the subreddit but it’s just podcast episodes

And I guess the broader question is what is the “debate” in this subreddit — what are the two sides of the continuum of perspectives in summary?

Mods told me to flair this question for women but interested in anyone’s thoughts