Have any of you ever pulled an influencer? How did you do it?

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UnkemptGoose339 · 2025-04-30T22:50:32+00:00

Get very good at game
Get in the best shape you can physically, mentally, emotionally, spritually, etc.
Approach influencer girls in places like LA, San Diego, New York, etc
Repeat until you have an influencer girlfriend.
Dump her and forget about this post, because it's a stupid goal and having an influencer girlfriend probably isn't that great.

jjjjjjamesbaxter · 2025-05-01T04:40:13+00:00

Yes- 250k+

She tried out a niche sport that I happen to be like top 1% in.

Status is a helluva drug for women.

Fellas, become competent and then strive to become good af at things. It will pay insane dividends.

Visual-Investment · 2025-04-30T22:51:17+00:00

Yah, I snagged her when she had a little over 6k followers. I pulled her easy one day, she was taking selfies at an amusement park i used to work at and asked her if she needed me to take a pic she said "yes" and made small talk and eventually got her number. We dated for less than a year but sex was great.

ericisatwork · 2025-05-01T05:17:20+00:00

my ex-wife has something like 24k followers. not only did i "pull" her, but i managed to marry her and have a kid with her. then she cheated on me and now we're divorced. but hey, i pulled an influencer.

Common_Comedian2242 · 2025-04-30T22:54:44+00:00

I don't think I could stomach being around a person that does shit like that. I'm a low key individual and do not like to be in front of a camera and tend to look down on people like that, ergo we will invariably be incompatible.

aharwelclick · 2025-04-30T23:33:40+00:00

Why would you invite someone that's going to not listen to shit and be peeled to there phone 24/7

therealwoujo · 2025-04-30T22:57:22+00:00

Wanting to bang a girl because she's an "influencer" is gay. Women are supposed to be obsessed with status, not men. You are already putting these girls on pedestals. Just focus on getting somebody you actually like.

Milmoney43 · 2025-04-30T23:59:06+00:00

She has like 30k on tiktok, my toes still haven’t recovered.

Squallvash · 2025-05-01T02:08:13+00:00

Is 20k an influencer? Wow.

I guess my wife pulled an influencer. I'd better tell her how amazing I am again

GaryOak7 · 2025-04-30T23:44:08+00:00

Yes and most of them were boring. Just pretty faces with no soul.

I wouldn’t say there’s a secret method. Either they’re attracted to you or not. Yes you can raise attraction but there needs to be a baseline there. Influencer being < 20K+ followers.

Treat them all the same.

Excellent-Archer-238 · 2025-05-01T04:01:44+00:00

I did she was a South American beauty queen with like 40k followers. I hosted her at my apartment for like 5 days and in the last day we finally had sex, after flirting a lot.

How did I do it? I treated her like she was a normal girl. Was even a little mean at times, like joking that she had some belly fat and asking how did she win the pageant like that and shit talk like that lol. Women like her are used to men giving them everything in silver plate and treating them like queens. So by being indifferent and a bit disrespectful, she seeked my validation.

Necessary_Fortune_60 · 2025-05-01T01:02:58+00:00

Yes I have. I am from a small-ish Scandinavian country, so probably a bit easier here because of the population. But what I did was that I participated in a reality tv show. A dating show. Only like a total of 10 min of tv time. I kinda came across as a bit of a douche (unintentionally), and received a lot of hate on Tiktok, Insta etc.

So, the first influencer I pulled was very shortly after my tv appearence. We matched on Tinder. We both recognised each other and made some jokes about it. This girl is like a famous reality tv contestant/influencer (Ex On The Beach, The Bachelor etc) in my country. Everybody aged 15 - 35 knows her name. Very loud and obnoxious girl - but good looking. Around 50K followers. Anyway, through talking on Tinder she invited me to this summer party. We got drunk, flirted, kissed. Then went back home to my place at the end of the night and had s*x. Haven’t met her after that, tho we talked a little bit more here and there.

The next one were some time later. This girl is a singer with around 130K followers on Insta and around 300K on Tiktok. We have some mutual friends (girls only). I met her at a small party hosted by our mutual friend. I knew who she was, and I thought to myself that there’s no way in hell I could pull a girl like her. She is very pretty, very fit, talented, the same height as me and have that urban cool swagger (she’s mixed race). So I just completely ignored her, out of low self esteem. It was funny, because later when we went out to the clubs - she got hit on by a dude every third minute. Even a lot of girls came up to her because they recogniced her and such. But not me. I was still ignoring her and acted indifferent to all the attention she got. So, at the after party - she out of the blue and to my big surprise was all over me. We kissed a lot and snuggled the rest of the night. We ended up sleeping on the couch at our mutual girl friends house. We didn’t have s*x, but did a lot of other stuff. I got to see her naked at least, which was nice! I met her once more in a very similiar setting - basically a repeat scenario from the first time.

I have also been with a few other reality contestants and actresses/artists, but not well known enough to pass as influencers due to not enough followers on social media.

For context: I’m 5’9, somewhat good looking (around a 6 or a 7), very average body type and a very average income/job. In these two instances, I think it boils down to social proof (tv appearance, mutual girl friends) and ignoring (coming across as high value, tho unintentionally). These girls are not used to being ignored, and that makes me stand out from the rest. Besides that, I am also quite funny, not afraid to be loud and crack jokes at parties, laugh a lot and tease and flirt with everybody around me. But deep down I also have a looot of insecurities, so I guess what I do the most is just fake it til I make it.

morphinetango · 2025-04-30T23:46:21+00:00

Yes, I pulled a sex therapist influencer, a real estate influencer, and a twitch streamer. I live in LA, so there's plenty of them. I'm 5'9" on a good day, regular job, drive an economy car, but I have a very well-groomed beard.

The sex therapist (100k+ following) was married/poly, and I took her to a nice restaurant. I asked her lots of deep questions about herself (not really her job or marriage or being poly), and she talked away. I slid one leg towards her, and after a few minutes, she wrapped her leg around mine. From then on, it was cake.

The real estate influencer (50k+) I took to fancy, quiet prohibition-style speakeasy. I asked her similar questions, but more playfully. We had great banter and teased each other. Early on, I slid one leg towards her and she immediately leaned a leg on mine. By the time the check came, I had one hand behind her thigh, and other on her calf.

The twitch streamer (100k+)... was boring... We video chatted and she had a sour puss face, seemingly unimpressed at everything, yet she never stopped responding. We went out, had terrible conversation, and at the end I offered to walk her to her car. When we got there, I told her I found her attractive, but couldn't read if there was any chemistry. She said most people can't read her blah blah. Then I shoot my shot: "hmm, well, so either I'm never going to see you again or we can make out right now. Which sounds better?" She said "I'd make out with you," and I went in. Turns out she was thought she was being bratty.

dasitmane85 · 2025-04-30T23:10:29+00:00

Define influencer. I’ve pulled one with 100k followers and another one with 50k. I look pretty average, maybe slightly above average thanks to beard game

neatpotatoes · 2025-05-01T01:57:18+00:00

Lmao. How old are you?

35512711940419001794 · 2025-05-01T04:16:34+00:00

dont put them on a pedastool

barryg123 · 2025-04-30T22:34:26+00:00

Yes, via insta DMs. Just follow rules 1 and 2

MadCritic · 2025-04-30T22:59:11+00:00

Met her in college bar and cold approached her table with my friends. Didn’t know she was influencer though

RadiantTry9442 · 2025-04-30T23:59:14+00:00

Ive pulled a couple of these “influencer types” (around 20k followers) but I never really noticed or cared for the follower count. I think I did once when I was like 16 and I ended up pedestalizing her. after that I never really cared ab the followers.

the only thing that Id note about it is it’d be harder for her to see my follow or DM. But once you’re noticed and she takes interest, she’ll respond the same as anyone else. All women I date have options so those followers aren’t really much different in my mind

RadiantTry9442 · 2025-05-01T00:00:41+00:00

dawg learn to get your point across. I reread your post and its the exact same context 😆

nordik1 · 2025-05-01T03:30:02+00:00

The absolute best way is to be an influencer yourself (you don’t need a massive following either) and network. You’ll get in front of female influencers you would’ve never had a chance with otherwise and they view you entirely different than a random trying to hit on them

Otherwise, you can run into them through dating apps sometimes or by approaching in major metro areas, but you better look good. By looking good i mean you better look like you COULD be an influencer if you wanted to

Chicks who rely on their appearance aren’t going to be giving you the time of day if you roll up with a pot belly and a patchy beard no matter how good your game is

Niklaus9 · 2025-05-01T05:03:15+00:00

And what so special about being an influencer if I may ask?

Historical_Gain_805 · 2025-05-01T05:55:34+00:00

150k+ followers

Her parents and one of her friends hooked us up during pandemic.

I was 40 and she was like 23

Had fun but it didn’t last.

Actually ran into her parents last weekend

For context: I’m 6’3” but would not say that I have model looks

Alpha69er · 2025-05-01T08:39:52+00:00

I cold approached a girl on a beach, I didn’t know her obv. We talked for a bit about a common interest, I had to run so I asked for her phone number. I knew she had about 1mn followers during our first date when we had a casual “what type of work do you do” conversation. General guidelines, never let looks intimidate you, she’s just a human, with a facade like everyone else, strike regular conversations about mutual interests, don’t be surprised by the fact that she’s successful (I mean, it’s the objective to date someone successful), women fantasize about looks but they don’t really want you to be “pretty”, they really want someone to protect and provide (provide also means provide mental stimulation). For that to be true, a woman seeks to be with someone of a higher status than she is (hence, the don’t be surprised she’s successful)

Unknown295828389291 · 2025-05-01T10:18:49+00:00

Dated 3 influencers, with one if them I was in a relationship.

They are more difficult to get to a date. Insta pm wouldn't work. For me it was two cold approaches (club, cafe) and one tinder match (she used one fake pic without face, but was a top 10 national beauty peagan in reality, lmao).

But once they are on a date with you, it's simpler and more fun than with average girls if you have game. Their confidence is extremely high and they get attention through insta pms from hundreds of men daily. Don't treat her like all the other guys do, bring her down to earth, nag her more often than other girls and risk saying something that others are afraid to say. Basically, don't put her on a pedestal. Also, don't show off, which is what most men would do if they feel inferior.

Dating celebrities comes with ups e.g. free tickets for every event you wish to attend. But it also comes with downs, e.g. being observed in public at all times and not being able to be yourself because you cannot risk to harm the "persona" / "personal brand". For example, one girl never wanted to drink in public, while it was okay at home together. What's interesting though is that those I dated gave me full attention whenever we met. This stereotype of having to video shoot her at all times wasn't true. They also didn't use the phone more often than others

HumanContract · 2025-05-01T10:24:47+00:00

Gets ripped, gets girl, social media changes again...

coolwater85 · 2025-05-01T14:00:40+00:00

The majority of influencers are self-centered, lack self confidence, and have a buried doubt of their own self-worth. That’s why they seek out validation through social media followers, but are still insecure af.

My buddy was dating an influencer with around 300k on insta. She was also in top 10% OF creators. He has no game and never strayed, but she got psycho controlling and jealous af about everything. She had no personality, was boring to talk to, and not that hot in person.

Influencers are not worth the time or energy. Full stop.

YungE_Coli · 2025-05-01T15:28:49+00:00

We were friends before I knew who they were, but even after the fact I still treated her the way I would anyone. Maybe that's what stood out to her.

Anyways we don't talk anymore :(

Ancient_Staff5183 · 2025-05-01T18:54:36+00:00

yes, and i didnt realize they were one. but putting IG model on a pedestal like some legendary pokemon will prevent you getting with one

unfortunately_real · 2025-05-01T21:04:04+00:00

Lol you think being over six feet will help you pull a mf influencer SO MUCH that your experience wouldn’t even be considered a valuable knowledge in any way?

unfortunately_real · 2025-05-01T21:18:06+00:00

Had some influencers and OF girls through dating apps, I never knew until later on though so unknowingly didn’t do anything different, it worked.

Tribestar95 · 2025-05-01T23:54:21+00:00

Almost no influencer with be a quality girl to date and I’ve dated them. It is never long term and it generally sucks

FederalBlood · 2025-05-02T00:06:13+00:00

Gonna be real with you, most influencers are just normal chicks who wish they were celebs but they aren’t. They’re the same types of women you run into clubs and bars just terminally online.

As long as you’re not approaching them online you’ll have just as much chance with regular women. Most of them disable online DM’ing unless you are verified and shit.

strangway · 2025-05-02T06:31:21+00:00

It probably helps if you know how to hold a phone steady, or operate a mirrorless camera. Someone’s gotta take all those photos and videos!

Hot_Ad_407 · 2025-05-05T12:15:19+00:00

Closest i came is when i matched a girl on bumble or hinge 2 months ago. After some back and forth banter i asked her out.

During the date i learned she has over 3 million followers on youtube and is a minor celebrity in Brazil.

I dont really care much about all that per se so I just treated her like any other human being. We joked around a lot and had a fun day together. In the end nothing romantic came of it

poly_nerdy_panda · 2025-05-05T13:57:12+00:00

I approached a few influncers i had no idea who they were/are. One girl told me i couldn't talk to her friend unless i had 25K followers LOL.. imo most aren't worth the headache but i did "date" a pretty famous MMA girl before she hit it big and just looked it up she has 90k followers... but she's married she was super cool but she had no business sense and i couldn't be with her because she rather fight then make money

TodayOrTmrw · 2025-05-05T22:35:30+00:00

Yes she actually came onto me lol in a bar. Even kissed me

KongWick · 2025-05-07T03:46:27+00:00

I was 32. pulled a 39 year old fitness MILF who owned her own brick and mortar business with 50 employees (CEO of company). She built the company from the ground up and was super hot and looked 29.

Wake up at 5am, get PRP therapy and Botox in face, hit gym, run 5 miles. Hire and fire people.

You could google her name and find 100 videos of her leading conferences in her field and doing fitness and shit. And find company website.

She would post daily fitness videos on Instagram to boost her brand.

When I first started seeing her, on our first hinge date, she told me she had just completed a previous date earlier in the afternoon with some”goof with dumb shoes.”

This woman was extremely hot, driven, and successful (in many ways).

I got invited to her employee outings as her boyfriend to go race go-karts, got invited to invite only high net worth enterpreur golf events, etc.

How did I do this?

I just acted confident on first date. Didn’t bang on first date (I tried). And then followed up and called her randomly to go to the pool with me a week later.

At second date at the pool, I didn’t come on to her at all, and she was all over me.

Ended up banging at my house.

During this time, I had 1 other hot 26 year old on my roster.

After 3 weeks, the CEO begged me to be her boyfriend and said she wanted to be official.

By having options, I exuded confidence and she was dying to serve me, and was kissing my feet and being super feminine and having sex all the time.

After 2 months, she began subtly and then more overly disrespecting me (now she had me).

So I left.

CallMeUntz · 2025-04-30T22:53:16+00:00

I've been out with a couple, but I found them through online dating. The issue with them is they kind of just want attention and don't really want to see you unless your their ideal person. Or you use psychology to manipulate them. I wasn't at good enough level where I could have pulled. I liked them too much to manipulate them.

ZEN-AF_Official · 2025-04-30T23:06:40+00:00

What do you mean "influencer"? The first girl I dated for multiple months from tinder was an Instagram model with almost 70k followers and was in the top rankings of onlyfans if that's what you mean

bmcapers · 2025-05-01T01:39:45+00:00

Bumble. She had 4 million followers.

uncorderdnole91 · 2025-05-01T02:26:44+00:00

This shit was crazy, I was at my retail job just doing my usual job. I was walking around and when I’m there I like to interact with the beautiful lady’s and I saw this one girl. She was from Latin America. We start talking and the convo is flowing nice. Asking where she’s from and all this jazz. The conversation moves to how she can speak a lot of languages. She said she could speak a little Russian French Italian Spanish Portuguese, so I asked her how do you say “you” in Russian. She gives me the whole history on how to say it then after ( because I know a little Russian) I told her she’s very beautiful in Russian. Then we started just speaking different languages to eachother. So I rizzed her because I knew how to speak a little bit in different languages. Futhermore, I get her instagram thinking this is some regular encounter, I check her IG, she had 2 million followers on IG😭😭🔥🔥 and she responded back too. Really cool girl. I just kept it smooth and was chill, showed my intelligence and she liked it

ExtraTerRedditstrial · 2025-05-01T05:10:16+00:00

I made some chick famous. If I gave more details, I’d dox her and me :)

lovinthevibe96 · 2025-05-01T06:10:10+00:00

Hooked up with a foreign influencer with 100k+ followers. They brought me to an F1 after party where their ex was and the ex was way more famous than them and I ended up in a foreign tabloid as the other woman. Funny story looking back on it and would do it again

Im a decently attractive blonde woman but I think what really interested them was weirdly enough my business connections

Title	Have any of you ever pulled an influencer? How did you do it?
Author	ImperialMajestyX02
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Date	April 30, 2025 10:32 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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