As a twice divorced man, I must say, that in the MAJORITY of cases, the reason why men feel that the court system is against them is because they are simply not as prepared as women.

Not all of them. But the majority.

Too often, they ignore the signs of unhappiness from their wives and continue to believe that everything is ok.

When a woman says that she is unhappy, she starts envisioning life without her husband.
Men don't read too much into this since the woman is still at home and doesn't believe she will leave.

Then the crap continues.
Men stay blind.
Women plan.

Then, when the woman has had enough, she drops the bomb.
The man, still thinking everything was kinda ok, feels blindsided and is then behind the 8 ball and needs to catch up.

Women, if you are unhappy, good on you for doing your research and evaluating your options.
Men, if your wife talks about being unhappy, take it seriously. Either fix or start planning yourself.

The law doesn't take pity out for the unprepared.