Don't get excited until after you sleep with her. She can vanish as soon as she appears.

Last Thursday, I (35M) met a group of girls. All four of them (late twenties) got my contact. I really had my eye on one... exactly my type, huge tits, latina, heart-shaped lips.

We introduced ourselves. A long, lingering handshake while she looked deep into my eyes. She asked me for my instagram right before I was going to get hers... she said "I'm not shy."

She told me she hopes we see each other again.

A day or two later, I try to set up a time and place. She gets all slow to respond, ignoring some of my messages.

I got pretty bummed out. I was really excited to have huge tits bouncing in my face. But nothing happened. Her friend, who is also cute, was texting me a lot, and we've got something scheduled for tomorrow night.

From now on, it's all ephemeral games until she's got her hands on me. I'll be charming, flirty, but expect it all to vanish until she REALLY proves otherwise.

I think this attitude will lend itself to girls chasing me a little more, if they feel like it's not in the bag, a done deal. Who knows why this happened, maybe she hit on 4 other guys and picked her favorite. Maybe her friend I'm going out with asked her to let her have me. I could analyze endlessly, but the lesson I hope sticks with me is:

Don't let early flirting mean a damn thing. Make her prove herself.