Remember, “watch what they do, not what they say” goes both ways. A lot of guys think they have to explicitly say or think, “I DESERVE THIS”, but no. Especially since not every asshole is self-aware of being an asshole. Plenty of them think that they are misunderstood victims of society. Entitlement comes in when you act like it’s a societal problem or a moral failing of others when you’re not getting what you want.

For example, instead of a redpiller being disappointed his date didn’t want to hook up, he wants to be believe she was using him for his resources. A normal person would just shrug off the incompatibility. An entitled person tries to find a way to feel morally justified in hating that woman for not giving him what he thinks he deserves. Similar to the complaint on. Similarly, “Sex is a need” and “sex makes me feel loved” instead of just admitting you just really want sex. Why? Because you want to create some sort of sense of moral obligation from another person to give you sex and to make them feel bad when they don’t give you what you want. Also, comparing your minor problems to major problems. No, blaming you because you keep throwing money at women without vetting out gold diggers is not the same thing as blaming abuse victims for the abuse they endured.

Especially this feeling that you deserve special treatment despite having nothing special about you. Most people understand they are average and they get over it, so why can’t you?