There are two types of affairs: Emotional and Physical.

I have had an ongoing physical affair with Shelly (Mormon mom) for the better part of four years. Since my divorce process has started, that physical affair has turned emotional over the past 3 months or so. She is clearly testing me as a branch. Just to give you an idea, for the past 6 months I have sex with Shelly at least once a week, sometimes multiple times a week.

I will go on record of saying that while both types of affairs are "game enders" in my book, the emotional affair is far more nefarious than the physical when you talk female -> male types of affairs. I would also argue that for any faggot noob who says his wife or LTR just had an emotional affair and it was never physical, you are sadly fucking mistaken.

Yesterday I had lunch with Shelly. We spent about two hours together eating seafood, have a few cocktails. She bought by they way, or should I say her husband did…Saw her later at school pickup…anyway I digress…

During our time together she revealed to me that over the past 6 months as we have spent more time together, fucking, etc. that she refuses to have oral sex with her husband anymore. They used to practice Shibari, and that has stopped as it disgusts her to submit to him like that now. She threw away all his ropes after she blamed their two dogs for chewing them up, which caused an argument in their home.

Shelly's husband works an 8-5 job. My job is remote, so we have all day to see each other if I want. She goes out of her way to let me know anytime he is going to be out of town overnight. We are very active sexual texters and we rarely go more than 24 hours w/o some form of communication.

Women want something to think about. If you are not giving your woman feelz and tingles, you can 100% be assured she is getting them somewhere else. Facebook, Buzzfeed, some guy like me…..SOMEWHERE.

The physical affair can be chalked up to so many things. A little hormones here some tequila there, but the emotional one, well that takes time, effort and commitment to keep that going. Which is why, if you want to be a cuck to a physical affair, whatever I suppose an argument can be made, but the emotional one you can never succumb to being a cuck to that kind.

Could a woman have a genuine physical only affair? Absolutely. I would say it is a snow balls chance in hell that she could have an emotional only one.

Yesterday Shelly told me things like:

I want to sleep with my head on your chest like the other day.

I want to curl up next to you where I feel safe and secure.

I treasure my time with you, all of it.

Shelly and I didn’t have sex yesterday, nor did we do anything very physical at all. But I decided to spend some time with her, which she and I greatly appreciated and I got some nice seafood and companionship.

Shelly is testing the branch, I can feel it. I can see it playing out in slow motion and it validates every single thing we talk about here.

So what is my point?

All I want to do with this post is show what it is like from the adulterer side of an affair, as so many of the people coming here for help are on the opposite (receiving) side.

All the men who come here, looking for answers on how to save their marriage, get their woman to love them, suck their dick and want to drain their balls…..

If you suspect or have proof of an affair, you have lost. Period, end of story. I can see it in her eyes. She hates being around her husband. She wants to vomit at the thought of making love to him, or even touching him. I have alpha widowed her and there is no going back. She is forever ruined and I forever ruined him.

Shelly asked me yesterday what I thought about her asking one of her friends to cover for her on a Saturday night so we could actually go out and do something like a "couple". I shot that idea down, and reminded her that as soon as other people know her risk exposure goes up, I am not officially and finally divorced, etc. What I didn’t tell her, was that I am not ready for that, I am not that stable of a branch. That’s the amoral part I suppose. I also don’t think I would want to LTR a cheater, but that is kind of hypocritical as I am a cheater as well I suppose…there is that hamster…..

When you call your wife/LTR - do you have your own ringtone? Shelly's husband does. That way she knows it is him, and she can either answer and lie as to what she is doing, or send him to VM. Shelly has incredible OPSEC on her phone. I should know, I set it up for her.

Shelly's BB husband doesn’t know her password, has no TouchID on her phone. Doesn’t know her FB password, nothing. Is it blind trust or stupidity? Trust but verify we say…

Is Shelly your wife? Is this story your wives? Do you think it is? How many of Shelly's behaviors does your wife have in common?

Her husband has his head so far deep in the sand. After our last sex encounter I sent Shelly home with a bruise on her ass from me slapping her ass so hard. A literal bruise in the shape of my index and middle finger. She wore it proudly and even told me when it was gone.

How in the fuck does her man not notice another mans handprint on his wives ass over the course of 3-4 days? What in the actual fuck?

Get your fucking head out of the sand. Everything you do, it has to be FOR YOU. NEVER FOR HER.

The game is over, and she has won when you start to live your life on her terms, and work to appease her.

I am an amoral fuck when it comes to this stuff. Red Pill is amoral. But I know what I want, and will not stop and never quit.

I hope this post pisses off some of you faggot noobs. For you vets, I hope it gives you a stark reminder as to why you have to always, 100% w/o question BE THE PRIZE.

I hope it feels like I hit you with a 2x4 in your face.

And let me tell you why.

I would rather get hit by a 2x4 in my face by a semi-anon internet stranger who gives half a single fuck about me, vs. be taken advantage of by an adulterer.