What is Something you Like/Admire in both Sexes?

officerkondo · 2018-10-23T14:08:23+00:00

I like that men are more direct about holding the people around them accountable and communicate more bluntly. Higher risk tolerance is also fun, but that ties in with your point about pushing each other.

I like that women tend to have more practice processing and analysing their own feelings and those of others, resulting in really good conversations and new perspectives I hadn't thought of.

Bonus: I dislike that men are taught to disengage from their emotions to the extent that some of them don't have the tools to identify how they feel or how to fix it.

I dislike that women as a whole are not pushed by society to challenge themselves to the same extent men are.

What I admire in both men and women is introspection, self respect, and continual emphasis on personal growth.

Whodunnit88 · 2018-10-23T15:19:02+00:00

I admire individuals not genders.

SmurfESmurferson · 2018-10-23T15:30:03+00:00

Men: The don't carry grudges; they speak their minds (maybe have a fight), then sling their arms around each other and go grab a beer. They're adventurous, enjoy physical activity, and love sports in general. Their sense of humor is more direct and edgy

Women: We're very collaborative, and often are at our best working together/bouncing ideas off each other and refining said ideas. We tend to spearhead nonprofit/charity volunteering and giving. We're also stronger than many give us credit for (both other women and men) - there are more women than men involved in endurance races (marathons, half marathons), for example

321PK · 2018-10-23T14:18:46+00:00

I like how men can be intrepid, fearless, strong, and are mostly very easy to please. I like how women are funny, sweet, and are good at being a friend. I especially like the ones that don’t wear a size 7 shoe. Lol

dylanrockz2002 · 2018-10-23T13:33:30+00:00

Lads- fun to lad about with, top bant, I can wank with them and it's not gay

Birds- wet clunge, tits, usually nicer than lads, my nan is a woman so she automatically makes all women better in my book bc my nan is bloody wicked

Texastentialism · 2018-10-23T15:20:35+00:00

I appreciate men's sense of humor. I appreciate women's nurturing nature.

beachredwhine · 2018-10-23T14:18:14+00:00

I admire men's ability to overcome obstacles and push through difficult times, often alone.

I admire women's caring nature and willingness to put others needs before their own.

bonusfruit · 2018-10-23T15:17:33+00:00

Women can be pleasant and maternal in a way that's refreshing. Usually older women, ones already established and not sorting men into their sexual castes anymore

panzershark · 2018-10-23T15:36:19+00:00

I like how men can be more outspoken and often less worried about what people think of them (at least my male friends). A lot of them are more spontaneous and easy going. I always know that they'd do anything to protect me and care for me.

My lady friends are so reliable and ready to be there for you. I can open up to them emotionally and they're so goofy and fun to be with. All very intelligent and open to deeper conversations without tearing at each others' throats.

[deleted] · 2018-10-23T15:55:38+00:00

I like that men can reach the top shelf and open jars. I like that women can make me feel like not a total alien.

ThrashSurf · 2018-10-23T17:04:38+00:00

"Muh challenge, muh competition, muh risk taking!"

Something that is admirable about both sexes? Not being 'murican.

tictacti1 · 2018-10-23T21:39:30+00:00

I like that women are so humble, they are so gracious when it comes to kindness, and often brush off rudeness. I like how they are often caregivers at heart.

I like that men are so strong, physically and emotionally. I like how they often have a very sweet, simple, and caring heart inside of a tough exterior. I also like their penises.

belletaco · 2018-10-23T13:18:16+00:00

I admire how intuitive most women are. I admire their ability to read social situations and their empathy for those they care about.

sternje · 2018-10-24T00:04:19+00:00

I like that women can be so connected to another's emotions, read people's language beyond words, and have the ability to empathize with people that are unlike themselves. Also, they're soft, usually smell good, and in my experience, exceptionally kind hearted. Which doesn't hurt, at all.

AutoModerator · 2018-10-23T13:14:19+00:00

Attention!

You can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message.
For "CMV" and "Question for X" Threads: Parent comments that aren't from the target group will be removed, along with their child replies.
If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view or if the question is not targeted at you, post it as an answer to this comment.
OP you can choose your own flair according to these guidelines., just press Flair under your post!

Thanks for your cooperation and enjoy the discussion!

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

dylang92 · 2018-10-23T14:03:00+00:00

I think both sexes will at many times push themselves to be more if they want it enough. Maybe that could be just being a human, but I like that both women and men have similar views about it, and tend to not like to settle with what they have but to strive for more.

[deleted] · 2018-10-23T15:29:50+00:00

Like most groups and individuals, the best qualities are also great weaknesses.

I admire men's willingness to charge forth into danger, and I admire women's natural desire to connect with others on a deep level.

Of course, both of these tendencies can lead to a great deal of trouble as well.

ThisIsJustATr1bute · 2018-10-23T17:08:45+00:00

I love men’s humor and how they can all mock each other as good friends. I feel lucky when I get to be a part of that.

I love how women will listen to me vent and also girl talk about clothes etc without being judged.

yasee · 2018-10-23T17:56:06+00:00

I admire competition in sports and video games, and that's something that more men seem to seriously engage in than women. I admire women's tendency to empathize with weaker and/or disadvantaged members of society

as a caveat there are a lot of competitive women and empathetic men

rogicar · 2018-10-23T23:19:37+00:00

Men: i like how they pretty much built a society in where im not considered middle age right now. I also like how I don't have to be walking on eggshells when I'm bantering, joking around and hanging out with peers. The few times I caught myself crossing the line they're quick to authentically accept my authentic apology and it's all left right there.

Women: Their breasts. Also, the more feminine they are the more soothing and relaxing they magically make the environment if I'm not trying to fuck them.

[deleted] · 2018-10-24T00:50:36+00:00

Men: have an incredibly high tolerance for suffering

Women: are beautiful

Kittennoodle · 2018-10-24T04:03:30+00:00

I think the way men seem to handle their friendships is something admirable. They are great at talking about subjects that go beyond small talk. For women, I'd say the kindness they tend to show to others, especially in awkward moments. As for both men and women, everyone is awesome when they smile.

ratsparadedarapstar · 2018-10-24T10:57:04+00:00

I don’t really think of admirable qualities in a person based on their gender at all. I hold everyone to the same standard when it comes to things I respect in another human.

P-o-o-b · 2018-10-27T04:05:00+00:00

For men. I can be myself and joke about things without being lectured on it and have huh talk.

For women. I like hearing gossip and I like having a break from guys and it’s kind of a mellow mood.

Gravel_Roads · 2018-10-23T13:20:20+00:00

I like that men are simple. I like that women are complicated.

oftheinfinite · 2018-10-23T20:00:51+00:00

There is a lot to admire about men: genius, intelligence, wisdom, strength, honor, loyalty, industriousness, wittiness, creativity, culture. All of my role models as a child and those whom I listen and follow today are men. Men as people, as human beings are extremely interesting.

Aside from sometimes being sexy, there is nothing to like about women. I don't see them as nurturing, funny, creative, wise, because that has not been my experience. I can't find interesting women--not even one, in real life or online.

Kwangira · 2018-10-23T14:10:14+00:00

There is nothing positively admirable about women. Negatively, I'd say they are great at dissimulation, manipulation and lying to others, including themselves.

The more learn about them, the more I interact with them, the more I come to definitely despise them.

Title	What is Something you Like/Admire in both Sexes?
Author	Here4thebeer3232
Upvotes	26
Comments	97
Date	October 23, 2018 1:14 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/9qoug6/what_is_something_you_likeadmire_in_both_sexes/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/what-is-something-you-likeadmire-in-both-sexes.259323 https://theredarchive.com/post/259323

Comments