I've found, much to my shock and chagrin back decades ago when I was a young man, that women often associated pain with pleasure during sex. Discovering and then exploring this lead me on many great bedroom adventures.

Over time, with many wild ideas (such as ALL women find pain sexually pleasurable) and many other awalty ideas, I discovered that awalt is wrong and that while some women associate pain, and various levels for each women, and in various circumstances as well, with sexual pleasure, some women don't.

In my old age I currently think that women don't actually enjoy pain, but enjoy submission. And that submission is an incredibly difficult and terrifying experience for a woman. But something that many women fantasize about. Even if they don't want those fantasies to be real. Perhaps they want some of them, they want to submit, but submit to a man who is madly in love with them basically. As men are tricksters and liars this can be tricky for a lass.

But it's got me thinking today and how pain, experienced pain, is related to this desire (that I personally have) for submission (in context). Say like grabbing a girl's hair during sex, pulling it back, hard, so that you have control over her head, then pulling her forward to smother her with a then very tender and long kiss. There's the domination aspect, amplified by the pain, quickly followed by her feeling good by submitting, to a sweet and long kiss. I can think of many more examples but I think that will due.

So women of ppd. Do you associate pain with sexual pleasure? And if so how much?

For the latter of that question let's just make up a 1-10 scale. On the 1 level the guy would never do anything that hurts you and say he's bent your leg wrong so you're getting a cramp, he quickly apologizes and let's you move back to missionary. For the 10 let's just go all out and say he ties you up quite painfully to the point you can't move at all, whips you, shoves things in places they don't belong, degrades you, and then masterbates on you at the end.