When a man has a high n count it’s because he sees sex as a cheap form of validation and his life revolves around his penis. Don’t put yourself in the position of coming second to someone’s genitals. Do not waste your time with someone whose central motivation in life is ejaculating.

Men like this have guaranteed self esteem issues, are incapable of seeing sex as something meaningful, and think women are objects designed to please him rather than human beings. Ironically he himself lives a life more on level with an ape than a person.

RP men will lie and tell you that sex doesn’t hurt male pair bonding, only women’s. This is comically false and blatantly self serving. (You moids have hormones too you know.) His high partner count will absolutely have negative consequences in any long term relationship he enters into. You will not find happiness with this creature.

In summation, find a man who doesn’t pursue casual sex or watch porn. These are actually huge red flags that you’ve been socialized to see as normal. In reality these behaviors are very unhealthy and you will be much happier if you stay away from such men.