If you were the opposite sex, but the same attractiveness level, how would you navigate your new SMV?

katiesaysthings · 2020-01-27T19:59:19+00:00

I’d probably be an incel because I’m terrible at flirting.

loke2dabrain · 2020-01-27T19:22:49+00:00

If I became a straight woman I don't think I'd have to do nothing. There's no skill to it. I'd just go with the flow.

WIA20XX · 2020-01-27T19:25:53+00:00

Modified FDS. Get meaningful investment, not the weird ones they want.

Eastuss · 2020-01-28T09:10:38+00:00

My sister is basically female me but uglier.

She always had a more easy and successful romantic life despite being more picky than I am.

jax006 · 2020-01-27T20:07:01+00:00

I woulda gotten all the engineer dick 😈

Pontifex_Lucious-II · 2020-01-27T23:21:29+00:00

Be the biggest hoe on earth. Gym Instagram Thot who would fuck for money.

goatismycopilot · 2020-01-27T19:33:04+00:00

I am short so if I was goat man person maybe move to a short population shithole country?

Sigma1979 · 2020-01-27T19:43:54+00:00

Probably look for a 7/10 looking betabux provider to settle down with in my early 20's. LOL @ chasing after bad boys.

rus9384 · 2020-01-27T19:17:22+00:00

I mean... if my attraction by this thought experiment has to change, how am I gonna know HOW it is gonna change? Maybe I would be attracted to pretty boys? Or maybe I would be attracted to Chad? Or maybe I would not feel attraction to men at all?

For a woman of my level of attractiveness it is not a problem at all to find an attractive guy to have sex. But again, if my body is gonna change, HOW is it gonna change? Will I get orgasms from PIV? Will I get them at all? How will they feel?

As long as we don't (and can't because this is an incomplete hypothetical) know that, any answer is not gonna be precise.

blue_trains_ · 2020-01-27T20:50:08+00:00

It's not possible for a female to have as low of SMV as I do. Not even the deformed or morbidly obese.

Karmanger · 2020-01-27T21:06:26+00:00

I would run for political office, and marry the person who could help me achieve and maintain my goal as a government official. Networking would be easy as hell since Society is kinder and less assuming to women in social situations due to this I'd get invited to all the parties/networking events.

As a female I wouldn't care too much about the vocal minority as I would be in different social circles than them. Eventually I'd have enough political clout to even run for presidency down the line.

wtknight · 2020-01-27T21:07:30+00:00

I would not have sex with someone unless I was in love with the person and I was convinced that he was in love with me, just like how I currently am as a man. Not liking casual sex makes this type of question easy to answer.

saladfingers4141 · 2020-01-27T22:21:10+00:00

Id probably use my SMV in the same way that pisses so many men off on here.

I'm optimistically an 8/10, I'd use dating apps to have casual relationships and sex with men more attractive than me then settle down with someone more in my league for A LTR.

cohost3 · 2020-01-28T01:58:29+00:00

This very question is the reason I am so happy to be female.

extrachromozomes · 2020-01-28T07:10:58+00:00

I’d probably hookup with my friend who puts out easy lmao

parahacker · 2020-01-27T19:16:03+00:00

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acron5n5 · 2020-01-27T19:58:20+00:00

Being a zero SMV girl is a bit scary of a situation, it must involve some very severe disability or god even knows what.

No strategy can fix it, zero is always zero. I think of strategies as something like a multiplier, yes they might increase your value a bit, or considerably if you're a woman.

nemma88 · 2020-01-27T23:23:01+00:00

Find a girl, settle down. If I want I can marry.

GreenSatyr · 2020-01-27T23:31:10+00:00

I would do precisely the same as what I do now but with a bit more risk aversion.

atlantisasalover · 2020-01-27T23:46:16+00:00

I already get called a fuckboy in a girl's body... imagine how bad I would be as a man. I'd probably be as toxic as future. I made myself as a man in the sims 4 once and I looked hot, I'd be set. I'd just be a fuckboy until I met a girl that I felt was worth being a simp over. If she breaks my heart, I'd just use it as fuel to be even more toxic and use it to guilt trip unsuspecting victims. I know ALL the lines, I'd be manipulating bitches left and right.

Barely-moral · 2020-01-28T01:15:11+00:00

If I was a woman I would take all of the time I spent into building my career and would use it to improve my looks, social and domestic skills, and looking for/vetting a potential partner.

I would bet it all on being a SAH partner/parent.

Men would you be the virgin some of you demand and give your youth to a good person and trust they won’t fuck you over for the next 70 years as you age?

Absolutely. The thing you women don't get is that a lot of women on earth are horrible partners, just some of them are decent. There are very few women that you see how they are and behave and you can identify as great partners. And those women are so above the competition that they might as well not have any.

I get it, most women don't want to bend over backwards to be femenin and support a man's life project when they are free to build their own. Well that is not and would not be me.

I would love the chance to be femenine and a complement to my partner's life and be appreciated for it. I don't have it. I was born as a man. But if I was a woman I would absolutely jump at the chance.

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2020-01-28T02:15:29+00:00

Get buff, get a style, wear a watch, beard fraud and get a good job. I'd have plenty of game.

Workaholiconew · 2020-01-28T02:19:22+00:00

I would use my red pill knowledge to find a good man. Probably a top 20% as I presume I would not be able to remember any other in the body of a woman.

My political and sexual policies would not change.

I already know where to find good men, and how to attract them, so it would be easy, heck, some friends of mine would be quite happy.

I think I could find a man to marry me by the end of 2021, maybe 2022.

My only problem is my own age. I am quite old, I would be long past my prime. But I know where the rare gems dwell, so it would be just... harder.

Older than now however? I don't think it would be possible, I wouldn't have the RMV or SMV necessary

gunbusterxl · 2020-01-28T02:39:40+00:00

I'd become a professional carpet muncher. Get an LLC, and open up a storefront. 1 hour sessions, with different priced packages. I'd put advertisements out on Tumblr, Jezebel, and r/FDS. Come on down to Crotch Cleaners, and get yourself sorted out!

It'd probably have revenue in the millions by the end of the 2nd year.

SkookumTree · 2020-01-28T03:43:44+00:00

Hmm. IDK. Probably the same thing I'm doing now. Be a somewhat prudish blunt weird queer and stay active and social. Lift weights occasionally and run or boulder or something.

JaJammerJan · 2020-01-28T03:48:41+00:00

String multiple short term relationships(~1-3 years) from age 13 on, maybe with a fwb in between here and there but not much of the like. Experience many different guys that way untill you find something you really like, probably somewhere in your early-mid twenties whilst finishing university, starting in the work-force and having done your fair-share of traveling and wild adventures. Have children and the family life with him. Always try to stay working at least part-time for financial independance (no sahm). Divorce if the relationship becomes boring/there's too much argueing. Absolutely try to keep a decent relationship with this ex to keep children out of harms way and to not have to raise your kids entirely by yourself (and with your new boyfriends, who probably also have some kids and are divorced by now). Continue having a decent relationship with the biological father of your children, with your children, whilst enjoying life and new boyfriends.

nosynobody · 2020-01-28T06:50:38+00:00

My cousin looks pretty much like me in a gender filter. He's very popular and has been in a relationship with his highschool sweetheart for almost a decade. I think i would do the same and also am tall for a woman i would be taller as a man. I would be killing it as a man

ohheyhi99 · 2020-01-28T13:10:41+00:00

I have decent game, so I’d ramp up the cold approaches and game the hell out of OLD with my extra matches. I’d be assertive but not pushy about checking for my dates’ intentions. I’d withhold sex until commitment because I don’t want to catch anything and I’d figure that anyone who couldn’t wait wasn’t actually that interested in me. If I liked them, I’d make sure they knew despite my stance against having sex earlier. That would be a legitimate concern for them to have these days.

2020-01-28T20:03:43+00:00

Lol get loads of sugar daddies

grand_tiremaster · 2020-01-29T10:05:53+00:00

If I were a guy I’d first go to school then make money then find a lady. Being attractive as a man doesn’t mean shit if I still live at home. It’s acceptable as a young woman (apparently) when we date, but not as a man.

stranglethebars · 2020-03-28T15:20:10+00:00

This is an interesting thought experiment, but I'm curious about how exactly you think about it. For instance, would a short woman in your scenario become a short man? Probably not, since short men are relatively unpopular, which would mess with the value conversion I think you have in mind. Another example: would a woman with a big-ish, sexy ass become a man with a big ass? Or a man with broad shoulders or whatever?

Gravel_Roads · 2020-01-27T19:33:26+00:00

Been there, done that. TRP works on men as easily as women.

diffdedbed · 2020-01-27T19:35:11+00:00

These questions are always... weird.

Despite current year neo-marxisim I know men and women are different in how they think about things, especially sex and relationships. Some men are more feminine in this, some women more masculine, but you can't just say "if you were gender swapped what would you do!".

The gender swapped me would be a successful lesbian. This isn't helpful to the debate.

My SMV as a man comes from my moderately good looks and even better status. This wouldn't be helpful as a woman. My female equivalent would be better looking then I am as the status is less important.

And I suppose if I were hetero I'd be looking for the highest status man with acceptable looks I could find, but thats my male mind talking, but thats how I view women on looks and personality.

If I were single, I'd want a hot, sweet, but adventurous woman. Maybe if I were gender swapped I'd want the same but maybe I'd worry about their job and how men see them more.

I don't know what makes women really get wet as I can't really relate. I don't get why sometimes a woman just really wants me, as I wouldn't want me (being a straight male), I just know she does and I'm good with that.

Title	If you were the opposite sex, but the same attractiveness level, how would you navigate your new SMV?
Author	jigglypuff__0
Upvotes	6
Comments	61
Date	January 27, 2020 7:06 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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