This reminds me of the time when my ex made me fill foolish for wanting to be a baker

Softrito · 2020-12-22T18:14:45+00:00

I hate wannabe rappers so much. I saw a guy say that if a girl doesn't cook or clean what good is she for and my thought was to tell him shut up, you're just a broke rapper. Music industry seems saturated now with talentless buffoons who think they will make millions.

Pretend-Valuable · 2020-12-22T16:54:51+00:00

In a similar vein - Nicole Byer often talks about how men react when she tells them she's a comedian. They always ask "but what do you do for money?" and she's like "I do comedy" - men can't believe a woman would be funny enough to make a living from comedy.

Pahapan · 2020-12-22T18:39:24+00:00

These same type of guys are the ones who've wormed their way into living in their hairdresser girlfriend's apartment, not helping pay any bills and eating all her food.

Deadgirl1888 · 2020-12-22T19:01:31+00:00

My friends that graduated HS and went to cosmetology school right after already own homes and their own businesses.

berned-out · 2020-12-22T19:36:57+00:00

Clearly he is talking about Black women. And Black ladies' hair is not some hobby. They are routinely punished for the wrong hair, no matter what the style is. Getting professionally done hair is a necessity for them in this country. Soundcloud bars........it's nice work if you can get it I guess? Would not know.

Suspicious-Leg-1407 · 2020-12-22T16:40:08+00:00

So do guys... ??? I don't understand this one.

V0703 · 2020-12-22T20:12:43+00:00

What??? Does he not know how expensive it is to get a haircut at a salon????

RojavaLover · 2020-12-22T20:43:04+00:00

Imagine how thick he must be to not know that hair is one of the most lucrative businesses out there, esp if you're doing and selling weave. Those women make over 1k a day.

I'm judging his stupidity, esp as a black man lol

Novemberinthechair · 2020-12-22T20:21:13+00:00

Idiots. Stylists have to have some knowledge in chemistry and skin disorders. Men are so fucking condescending.

monatsiya · 2020-12-22T21:44:15+00:00

but would they say this about a barber? like dawg....this is weird asf

askmeifilikeanal · 2020-12-22T21:51:31+00:00

I pay my hair stylist 1400$ not including tip and I take up half her day so she has the potential to make $3000 in a day and I’m sure she does all the time. But ok sure it’s just like a failed rapper, men!!! /s

2020-12-22T19:26:38+00:00

Rap isn’t a gov regulated industry.

Platipus6 · 2020-12-23T02:02:13+00:00

Salons have also become a hub of empowerment, so that's probably why he hates it. Hairdressers have been approached to get training to spot domestic violence victims.

And of course it's a place filled with feminine energy, bubbling conversation, compliments, praise and support. Like kryptonite to superscrotes.

_effingamazing · 2020-12-23T02:47:57+00:00

I used to manage a salon and there were a few stylists that made six figures (and almost all full-timers made more than management). Doing hair is a great, flexible career so long as you take care of your hands.

Meadow97 · 2020-12-22T22:46:44+00:00

Yeah the difference is though, that women who do hair are actually talented and could make money from it if they choose to.

LOL.

Scrotes stay scroting, y'all be safe out here.

questionablequeef · 2020-12-22T20:00:45+00:00

As a hairdresser I just laugh at this shit. Don’t call me when you fuck up your own hair at home. Hair is so much more complicated than it ever has been before and people still disrespect the trade. 🙄

spicyspa · 2020-12-23T03:12:58+00:00

A childhood friend has a fabulously successful salon in a large metro area. I have never met an unemployed hairdresser. I've met a lot of unemployed people and other fields. In fact I know people in my field which is considered higher level that have been laid off but since they started out as stylist they went back to being a stylist. There's no lack of work in hard times for stylists though covid-19 might be an exception.

2020-12-23T03:39:05+00:00

Wtf if anything the female equivalent is models (Instagram models)or mlm but guys can do that too. This dude dumb as fuck, can't even think coherently just has a vendetta against women that do hair. Dude needs to go to therapy her job title had nothing to do with her leaving him, and everything to do with who he is as an individual.

Alybank · 2020-12-23T03:46:01+00:00

Any license cosmetologist in my city make at least $40/hr. Please child.

JSBachLove · 2020-12-22T23:48:14+00:00

I went to school for 1500 hours to get licensed to do hair ... it also cost $23,000. How does that make any sense even?!

wolf_town · 2020-12-23T05:41:03+00:00

In what world are these two the same? 🥸

HWR3057 · 2021-01-15T18:21:03+00:00

I hope you fulfill your dreams of becoming a baker :)

ivy176 · 2020-12-23T14:24:39+00:00

Uhh people can make millions off being colorists and hair stylists. What an ignorant thing for him to say. It's a really high demand service. That's like implying you can't make money from being a make up artist... have they stepped out into reality in the past 50 years?

Title	This reminds me of the time when my ex made me fill foolish for wanting to be a baker
Author	caramel_blondie
Upvotes	1564
Comments	70
Date	December 22, 2020 4:27 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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