After 6 months of no contact The wild narcissist appears. 5 years of nothing but sacrifice for a man. It feels good to know he’s upset his power is gone. “You deserve, but I probably can’t” lmao I know. Always that making a negative seem positive. (You ladies have done wonders showing me the light)

turquoiseblues · 2020-02-15T06:01:40+00:00

“most sweetest”

“female”

“I need you”

Yikes!

Parking-Act · 2020-02-15T05:58:50+00:00

Did my ex write this? This looks like exactlllllly like how he wrote and its eerily similar to things he's sent me before when we were together and I was being devalued and discarded.

All narcs are cut from the same dingy grimy demonic cloth. They follow the same script!

I laugh out loud in shock almost when I read narc stuff and feel deja vu!

I'm so proud of you for your 6 months of NC! No more power to the demon. Let him shrivel up from lack of supply. Let him deal with his empty hollow insides and his evil abusive agendas. He's not your problem anymore.

Make sure to block him on whatever platform he has accessed you on in that message too!

Also gag at calling you a female instead of woman.

ThinkTofu · 2020-02-15T05:51:15+00:00

They always come slithering back.

Paaaaaaaaaathetic.

Blondejobs · 2020-02-15T06:37:49+00:00

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Littlebunny080 · 2020-02-15T05:54:51+00:00

Wooooow are we supposed to feel bad for him orrr ughhh so annoying. Not related but I hate the word ”female” when referring to a woman.

hadapurpura · 2020-02-15T06:58:21+00:00

I’m not asking you to apologize

Wow

SourceInHerEyes · 2020-02-15T09:11:23+00:00

"You deserve everything in the world and I probably can't give it to you but I damn sure will try."

I can't offer anything of value to your life, but I still feel entitled to your time and energy. Please pay attention to me. I need supply.

jewdy09 · 2020-02-15T06:45:56+00:00

“New phone, who dis?”

SarcasmSlide · 2020-02-15T09:50:09+00:00

🐍

Sea_Soil · 2020-02-15T13:30:55+00:00

"female" 🤮

youre a human being not a dog.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-02-15T14:08:41+00:00

Does this one go back and forth between being sweet to get what he wants and losing his ever lovin shit when he doesn't?

I hope you have him blocked everywhere you can. I was in a relationship with an untreated borderline who was super narcissistic. Fun times. I used a lot of self love to get over that.

ivy176 · 2020-02-15T09:39:38+00:00

He'll move along once he finds a chick to bang and/or accidentally impregnate. Must be between women atm

2020-02-15T09:09:52+00:00

ROFL, what a steaming pile of bullshit.

masterofthebarkarts · 2020-02-15T14:00:34+00:00

Please tell me you sent him the poop emoji and then blocked him

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-02-15T16:55:08+00:00

I believe this technique is called narcissistic hoovering.

7_0f_9 · 2020-02-15T07:35:04+00:00

But then why didn't he "wanna be a better man" before?

Soulsalts · 2020-02-15T06:52:32+00:00

When talking about women, he can only bring himself to use the words 'girl' and 'female'. That's a subtle but pervasive show of contempt.

Fuck this belly-crawling vampiric creature. Having dealt with my own narc in the past, I can tell you, OP, that you deserve ten thousand times better than this, as do all WOMEN.

fightevilbymoonlight · 2020-02-15T15:22:43+00:00

The first part of this is almost word for word what my own narcissistic ex messaged me after we broke up. They're all reading from the same playbook. Yikes.

GraveyardH2020 · 2020-02-15T16:28:16+00:00

Omg I used to get messages like this from my ex narc too! It’s so validating to see other’s stories on here. He tells me “I need you” too. This man is 37 with three children...I’m 27, bro you don’t need me. This last time I refused to recommit to our relationship until we built trust back up (I don’t trust him). He thought I should commit now and we can work on trust later. Someone here told me “trust doesn’t work like credit, there’s no advances.” So I held firm in saying no. He asked me not to contact him, so I didn’t. The IMMEDIATE next day I got like a five page long message from him while I was at work (after he said he didn’t want contact and I respected that) about how I don’t value him and don’t value the relationship and he’s been dating other people. They are apparently all the same. This sub has really taught me that.

grimreapersdtr · 2020-02-15T16:49:24+00:00

SIRENS BLARING! Abuser love-bomb incoming! Duck and cover! Block and delete!

QueenOfSwords1313 · 2020-02-15T16:33:40+00:00

Called you a female. NEXT. Lol.

Good for you!

2020-02-15T16:44:28+00:00

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MagicAte_8 · 2020-02-15T19:15:54+00:00

I love how there are ZERO explicit examples to back up what he's saying. What exactly are you sorry for, sir? Name three things you did wrong and vow to never do again.

This reads like a copypasta. 😂😂

PurblWasp · 2020-02-15T17:15:10+00:00

That's a lot to unpack, but let's just throw away the whole man.

SmolestSmol · 2020-02-15T22:57:49+00:00

I think any man who wants to actually send a meaningful message would at least proofread it first 🤷🏻‍♀️

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