Porn is blatant abuse

yog_yog · 2021-05-26T05:23:56+00:00

The sad thing is, people who are against porn still are a minority. I don't know one single person in my circle of friends, even women, who are against porn. Most people normalize the consumption porn and say to me, I can't expect men and women to negate porn. It's a man thing and every man watches it. If I discuss with them, they even don't get my arguments. What I miss are women with a clear attitude to this topic! I wish more women would support each other in favor for women rights a well being. I met a lot of porn sick men and sometimes I've talked about my experiences...and nobody believed me!! People can't imagine that you can get an ED! It's an awful feeling to know that someone is reenacting his favorite porn camera angle with you. Or that you are similar to his favorite porn star. A good thing is that more and more younger women are aware about the dangers of porn. Maybe sooner or later the mindset will shift!

Jingoboi · 2021-05-26T01:08:52+00:00

SOURCE OF PICTURE

The Feminist Press - Written by Gail Dines.

modernmedusaa · 2021-05-26T06:18:54+00:00

I dare a man try to slap me during sex he would have no eyeballs left

giggleomg · 2021-05-25T23:27:33+00:00

I’m pretty disgusted today. Was talking to a nice, attractive, well off guy who revealed he’s in therapy for porn addiction last night. I asked more questions about his attraction to women like me & found out it’s his favorite porn category.

He ultimately asked if he could jerk off to me then apologized for “regressing” 🤮

I blocked him. People may think FDS’ views on porn are extreme, but I learned 1st hand last night it’s true! Seemingly normal guys are abusing their dicks & minds to the point of needing professional help and asking random women for deviant sexual favors.

Jingoboi · 2021-05-25T23:51:44+00:00

It took me until I was 23ish to start feeling really uncomfortable with play-abuse. It's all abuse to your brain. And it's not romantic or sensual. It's disgusting and men just want to act out violent p-rn. I had early exposure at 14 to pron hub dot com (the biggest mainstream pron site) and they only started having age and consent verification literally this year because they were going to get destroyed by NYT and law enforcement

lansburysoda · 2021-05-26T01:04:37+00:00

Pickmes and Libfems (same difference) will tell you that violent abuse is empowering as long as the man abusing you has his dick out 🥴🙄

lapoesia · 2021-05-25T23:16:36+00:00

Hey OP where is this excerpted from? This is really well articulated, I’d like to do some further reading if it’s part of a larger document

Aggressive_Birthday4 · 2021-05-26T01:17:35+00:00

The number of times I’ve had to call out pornsick men for inappropriate comments towards other women and myself is too damn high. Fuck the porn industry.

_electrafire · 2021-05-25T23:33:54+00:00

This is why radical feminists need to infiltrate the cultural elite. We need to work more covertly, because that’s what we’re up against

MACMUA · 2021-05-25T22:11:32+00:00

Porn is a lose/lose for everyone. P

lostmillenia · 2021-05-25T22:53:10+00:00

I wanna post this on other socials SO BAD.

Gourmay · 2021-05-26T01:51:30+00:00

I used to be a "pro-porn feminist" (ha!): "Oh it's just fantasy!", "sexual freedom!"... I followed that movement to a degree, and even wrote something on pornography in art. I work in science now and honestly the evidence is overwhelming, and even I see how what I watched messed with me and how I experience sex.

One of the first men I dated when I moved to the US had ED at 29, I think he even told me it was from deathgrip from watching porn; I had never encountered that before. He was a decent guy too, it made me really sad.

MarieCurvy · 2021-05-26T00:01:44+00:00

Be aware of men who call themselves "feminism's supporters" who actually love hardcore, disgusting porn videos, and then be like "but the female artists absolutely love it".

Like come on dude. Wtf.

namasdating · 2021-05-26T04:51:10+00:00

You become what you consume

Meredeen · 2021-05-27T06:20:45+00:00

Shit you don't even need to Google porn, just Google 'school boy' and 'school girl' in Google images separately. I know you know the difference already. Like come on, that's fucked.

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Kalypso989 · 2021-05-26T23:36:15+00:00

I'm curious as to FDS' stance on companies like Bellesa, a woman owned and operated company who write scenes with actors who actually want to be together organically? I have seen several clips of their videos and see a huge difference in these vs PH, etc.

Title	Porn is blatant abuse
Author	Jingoboi
Upvotes	1115
Comments	50
Date	May 25, 2021 10:08 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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