CMV: Women are attracted to masculine energy more than anything

owta_this_world · 2021-06-30T08:50:11+00:00

Sure but this implies that masculine energy is all you need. Which maybe is true.

But, what type of guys have this masculine energy? Guys who have been pre-selected by women since they were like 13 years old. That Indian guy you talked about was probably that extroverted popular guy in school who would have been dating since he was 13 years old. His confidence only grew with age because success is all he has ever known.

In contrast a guy who's never had a date will have zero confidence around women because he's had... zero success. No success means no confidence with women which means no masculine energy. The same works for average guys, average results means only a bit of masculine energy.

You can't really fake this shit despite what PUAs try to sell you. This is why PUAs only really get laid by approaching 1000s of women and taking anything you can get. They have little confidence because they have to stoop to the desperation of a crack whore to get some. Your average woman is not a genius but she can tell how at ease you are with attracting women.

reluctantly_red · 2021-06-30T08:30:15+00:00

I know this one guy

Don't they always.

Chefbraidy · 2021-06-30T05:45:10+00:00

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CantBonkThis · 2021-06-30T07:36:38+00:00

I know this one guy who has a body count of nearly 50.

And you know this how?

Cedo_Alteram · 2021-06-30T07:16:16+00:00

Do we have no good examples of masculinity?

I'd nominate Gordon Ramsay.

Findol272 · 2021-06-30T07:10:32+00:00

People don't get it because the discourse keeps being centered on extremely vague concepts like "masculine energy".

kinkornkarn99 · 2021-06-30T08:34:34+00:00

No good examples? I don’t think you’re trying very hard. Jason Statham, The Rock, Jason Momoa, Don Draper….

You’re right…a masculine man with confidence radiates energy that attracts the polar opposite feminine energy. But there are a growing number of women with equal feminine/masculine energy that aren’t as attracted to very masculine men.

killjoi97 · 2021-06-30T11:33:13+00:00

Honestly I find it hard to believe that modern women can recognize what being masculine is, in my experience what modern women describe as masculinity is for example one I hear allot is a mans ability to be strong enough to cry and be vulnerable/open in front of women being that way is no way masculine and if anything shows your inability to control your emotions as a man you should rarely cry or complain to anyone, most “confidence” that women think is confidence and charm is just the mans high level of arrogance that most women mistake for confidence, being masculine isn’t being a monkey to impress women you as a man just are! But some of it is the way you act which is being stoic and disciplined and real confidence isnt just something you are, for the most part you build confidence through acts and struggle a mans body count is not the measure of his “masculine energy” its just his capacity to be what ever women want him to be so he’ll get sex, believe me when I tell I’ve had great people in my life who displayed true masculine energy and built lives, families and stayed happily married to the same person for a lifetime, modern women complaining about toxic masculinity and the amount of single mothers back up the fact that modern women do not know what masculinity is and if the men they were with truly had these positive traits such as masculine energy the amount of single moms and complaining would be non existent.stay mentally strong and unmoved and motivated and ready for struggle that is real masculinity

ToLiveandDieinL8 · 2021-06-30T20:12:20+00:00

These stories are pointless because we have no idea what any of these people look like. He could be slaying Moby Dick’s for all we know. Or he could be lying about his success rate. Or he could genuinely be an exception to very well established rules.

a-difficult-person · 2021-06-30T10:09:27+00:00

confidence, charm, charisma, ethic for hard work, humor

None of those are "masculine" traits. All of these are considered attractive traits in women as well, except maybe work ethic since I doubt most men would care about that.

Slipthe · 2021-06-30T09:31:14+00:00

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wtknight · 2021-06-30T14:18:23+00:00

I mostly agree with this. I think that most women have a looks threshold that men need to pass, though (or a status threshold if he is high enough status). If a man can’t pass it, then no amount of masculine energy is going to help him out. But that threshold is lower than what many men assume that it is.

The Indian guy in question probably was very successful because he attracted most of the women whose looks threshold he passed. I’m sure he got turned down plenty though from women who just weren’t into him appearance wise.

dangerous_pickled_b · 2021-06-30T17:30:37+00:00

Birth control makes women attracted to less masculine men.

TheDevilPutD · 2021-06-30T05:40:30+00:00

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Cimorene86 · 2021-06-30T06:10:44+00:00

I'm sure for the majority of women this is true. Probably moreso for straight women than bi, however. I'm bi and masculine gender roles come naturally to me, so I prefer partners who are more feminine. My guy is this way...not effeminate, that's very different, but he enjoys more feminine roles in our relationship.

I think it's accurate to say that women are attracted to opposite energy more than anything. So if she's feminine like the majority of women are she'll be attracted to masculinity, but if she's masculine like a small percentage of us are then we'll be attracted to femininity.

parabenprincess · 2021-06-30T14:10:46+00:00

As a woman, I agree. There are too many feminized, emasculated men out there which may correlate to the rise of sexlessness, especially among men. No one wants to fuck those kinds of guys unless they’re being paid to.

gimpgirl555 · 2021-06-30T06:24:32+00:00

Women are attracted to $$$. The guy himself is unimportant.

Proof: how often do you see women paying for "masculine energy"?

If you like something you will usually pay to have it.

Slipthe · 2021-06-30T06:53:33+00:00

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Marino4K · 2021-06-30T05:38:21+00:00

How in shape is this Indian guy you speak of? Wealth? Etc

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Artlovenbeauty · 2021-06-30T17:26:59+00:00

BDE is palpable and very attractive. I think it can be cultivated but not created

Glittering_Intern771 · 2021-06-30T21:47:04+00:00

but it can also manifest itself in the form of personality(confidence, charm, charisma, ethic for hard work, humor, etc.).

They are not particularly masculine, and would be attractive in both men and women. Having a charming personality starts from not using a guy with "50 body counts" to validate your theory..

flowerwoven · 2021-07-01T05:46:33+00:00

If he has a body count of 50 he doesn't have masculine energy. He has simp energy and women see him as a brainless dildo to use and discard.

Blushing is common isn't it? Every time a girl has a crush she blushes. I don't see what's the commotion around this simp you're describing.

chubbybutt22 · 2021-07-02T13:14:28+00:00

I went on a date and had sex a few times with this one man. He was quite a bit older than me, shorter than me, and not super great looking. We went out for one drink so it wasn’t a money thing. He was amazing and electric. He didn’t break eye contact for the whole date. He listen to every word I said but with somehow still completely in control of the conversation. We had a perfectly normal conversation that radiated sexual energy. We went back to his place and he said he didn’t want to fuck on the first date but he did things to me that I will not going to here. It was amazing. He was 100% confident he was 100% masculine and he wasn’t good looking but he was sexy. And I look back on that as some of the best sex of my life.

So I agree. If you’re short or not a good looking but you can have this kind of magnetic charisma I think you can do perfectly fine.

Turbo_superbike · 2021-07-06T09:42:31+00:00

small secret: He doesnot jerk off to porn...ever....That's the secret to Masculine energy...Read David Deida's The Way of the Superior Man

kinkornkarn99 · 2021-06-30T06:14:58+00:00

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TheDevilPutD · 2021-06-30T06:52:28+00:00

Even in lesbian relationships one girl is super butch. I've seen some that are more masculine than most guys I come across on a daily basis.

Eastuss · 2021-06-30T08:18:46+00:00

Even lesbian women are attracted to masculine energy + strong interest. I'm 5'5 and chubby, 3 lesbians in my life were into me when I had the right attitude.

I always say that improving your looks, getting fit, getting muscular, isn't the best effort men can do. Being assertive, approaching women, ect... Is the first and best effort, everything else is optimization that add up on top of it, not before it.

Title	CMV: Women are attracted to masculine energy more than anything
Author	ifwerty
Upvotes	12
Comments	93
Date	June 30, 2021 5:26 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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