-says the Pickme or Pickme therapist or your mom 😬 who goads you into dating a man you are not attracted to.

Look at her partner. 95% of the time she is with a man that is balding or she has to beg him to brush his teeth. Of course sex isn’t important to her!

Also, be careful who you share your standards with and recognize that your married friend needs to “communicate”, accept things and behave differently because she is in a committed legal contract. Many times we are encouraged to take advice from married people because that is what we want or it is suggested that they know more about how to be in relationships. But marriage dynamics are very different than courtship/dating dynamics.

I think many of us have had the one friend who felt she was a relationship guru once she got married. (Even if we were too polite to point out to her that her marriage isn’t goals for us.)

Anyway, don’t date men you aren’t attracted to and don’t take advice from Pickmes married or single😘