Married for 18 years with two kids 11 and 15 Wife starting fights more and more. I couldn't take much longer and have been planning to divorce her soon.

So today I woke yup got ready and tried to get the kids up while the wife saw to the dogs and started on the kitchen. I walk into the kitchen and she starts immediatley that the counters were still dirty. She is yelling at me and is angry. I tried to defend the verbal onslaught . Till I asked for a divorce. She agreed and said I can leave. I started to pack and quickly told the children and away I went.

Now I am sitting in an extended stay hotel 30 miles away. She sent a text saying I can return but if I am sure then don't return.

I am not as far along into the divorce paperwork but I am sure this needs to happen.

So begins it all.