Do they really like women?

Upstairs_Worry · 2020-08-12T15:28:08+00:00

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manisfestationqueen · 2020-08-12T15:17:42+00:00

That's my go to for men who hate on women. I tell them if you hate us so much, date a dude we don't judge it's 2020. Shuts them up really quick

eveninghope · 2020-08-12T17:15:57+00:00

No, they don't actually like women. Ideally, they'd date men with vaginas. They don't care about understanding female communication styles, interests, needs, etc. bc we're all socialized to value/respect maleness.

Hipster-Aurora · 2020-08-12T19:07:16+00:00

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sanguine_duality · 2020-08-12T15:26:50+00:00

"Isn't obsessed with her looks." Bet tf he'll be more obsessed and judging than she will be.

"Can play video games." Most people can play video games. It's about whether they enjoy them or not. Women are not programmable life applications in the form of a human.

"Likes to workout." Vague as fuck statement. She's likely NOT to enjoy dick swinging and weight lifting with your bros at the gym tho. You gonna go to ballet or zumba with her? Probably not.

"Watches sports." Anyone can watch sports. Again enjoyment and personal pleasure is completely forgotten here. You gonna watch women's tennis volleyball with her? Doubt

"And will drink with me." Bro. BRO. Most ppl will have drinks with their partners and enjoy a wild night even once in a while with a trusted loved one.

It goes even further than he wants a girl that's a homie. He wants a passive programmable piece of eye candy that he can show off to his dudes. If he wanted an actual woman who actively enjoyed these things, she'd be tomboyish like me. And even we don't want him. Or his boys. Or their toxicity.

Woman_on_Pause · 2020-08-12T16:06:28+00:00

I understand wanting to be with someone with similar interests, but this checklist that has been formulated is not only misguided it is very presumptuous. Let's say they found "that girl" what makes them think "she" wants to be with them?? The dude who won't like a girl based off of a checklist...

localgirlcult · 2020-08-12T16:25:33+00:00

I think a lot of them like what women can do for them and expect to go from the care of their mother to the care of the girlfriend/wife.

2020-08-12T17:30:36+00:00

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zecountess · 2020-08-12T18:10:41+00:00

Don’t forget the ‘she can eat a thousand garbage plates and still look v sexy and hot and stuff cuz she’s a coooooooool chick’

Lavender_flow · 2020-08-12T17:29:34+00:00

"isnt obsessed with her looks" "but likes to work out" ahhhhh. Oh yes. She can eat food like there is no tomorrow, but will not get fat. Totally reasonable........... just, fuck off Brian.

uselesssdata · 2020-08-12T19:07:24+00:00

No, they don't.

There was a fucking amazing post on here a couple weeks ago with a quote that broke down how homoerotic male friendships really are. Many men only really can care about other men, can only learn from other men, can only respect or love other men. The rest is just window dressing for them.

sesilyber · 2020-08-12T16:10:48+00:00

they just want a homie with a coochie

warinmymind94 · 2020-08-12T16:23:30+00:00

They need to just hangout with their bros and take their bros to the bar. Tbh Shrek was the first thing that came to mind with their description inside a neckbeard nest.

RedRetrograde · 2020-08-12T20:01:20+00:00

This reminds me of this:

Heterosexuality Is A Misleading Term For “No Homo” Men. Men Do Not Feel Attracted To Women, They Do Not Like Women, And They Do Not Love Women.

1.) Men are not attracted to women.

Men constantly talk about how disgusting vaginas look, smell, taste, and how much they hate the idea of going down on women. If they have the choice, they prefer female genitals that are mutilated: either via “old-fashioned” techniques like in some African and Islamic communities or via “modern” cosmetic surgeries that some women in porn have performed on them. The goal of this is always a kind of sexless, “genitalless”, pedophilic look of a pink little slit.

Men also hate any amount of natural body hair on women although (or because!) it is a sign of sexual maturity. Men hate normal amounts of body fat on women although (or because) it is a sign of sexual maturity and fertility as well.

Men want babies with big tits.

And what do they want to sexually do to these babies with big tits? Fuck them in the ass, fuck them in the throat, beat, rape, torture, and humiliate them until they cry.

Male sexuality is nothing but fetishized violence against women. They love anal sex because it is hurtful to women and doesn’t give women a chance to orgasm themselves. And the moment they realized that some women actually enjoy giving blowjobs have they come up with “throat fucking” and “deep throat”: they HATE women, they HATE female bodies, and they HATE the idea that a woman could enjoy sex.

It is often said that “Porn tells lies about women, but it tells the truth about men”. And the truth is that if you take the brutal anal/throat penetration out of male sexuality, what’s left is men casually beating, hurting, whipping women. The distinction between “vanilla” and “kink” doesn’t make sense in the case of men. It’s just a matter of degree. “Vanilla” men want to rape women and beat them - “kinky” men want to rape women and beat them and electroshock and water torture and mutilate them.

Men are not attracted to actual female bodies. Men only enjoy the idea of DESTROYING female bodies: both through absurd beauty norms that effectively destroy these bodies and turn them into absurd dolls and through sexual practices that are always about hurting, beating, whipping, raping, anal fucking, throat fucking female bodies.

2.) Men do not like women.

Men do not feel attracted to real women. And men do obviously not LIKE women. They hate women so much that the moment women like something, men hate it: if women like flavored-coffee drinks from Starbucks, men hate it BECAUSE women like it. (As if bacon and bacon memes are funnier or better than women making memes about pizza or enjoying pumpkin-spice lattes!) If women join a fandom, men leave because the moment women like it, they start hating it.

Some sociologist has coined the term “gender pollution”: it is a sexist term itself but it describes a real phenomenon: the more women enter a particular space (e.g. a profession or a hobby), the more it is “polluted”, the less it is valued and the less people in this job get paid. I think in some Eastern European countries this is actually the case with doctors even: but as there are many women in this field - both among nurses as well as among doctors - doctors are also not valued anymore.

The moment women became good in school was the moment boys increasingly dropped out. Men now associate doing your homework and reading books with women - and they rather ruin their lives than to be engaged with something women like! So instead of doing their homework are they now playing video games 24/7. But now women have obviously started playing video games as well. So now they become mass shooters because they hate the idea of female video game characters.

3.) Men do not love women.

Winston Churchill famously said that you have the Germans either at your feet or at your throat.

Now, I’m not sure about the Germans, but I think that this is definitely true for males: they are always either at your throat or at your feet. Males fall in “love” with e-girls...but the moment they find out that those women already have boyfriends they want to kill them. (I’m not even sure if I have to put “love” in quotation marks here because the idea of a REAL love in contrast to quotation-marks-love feels a bit like the idea that only “men” in quotation marks are toxic and shitty while REAL men are all these heroes and these supermen…)

...Consider how many males murder others and/or end their own lives because of love. Just like being pornsick makes it hard for males - and for women - to develop a realistic understanding of human sexuality with its possibilities and limitations, being “lovesick” makes it hard for males - and for women - to develop a realistic understanding of human relationships. People these days expect love to do what previous generations expected miracles and gods to do. “All you need is love” vs “All you need is Jesus”.

There are also studies that show that males fall in love easier and earlier than women. And they surely fall out of love easier as well. Males are like the flickering flame of a candle that burns brightly for a second and then goes out again. This is why it’s so super common for women to think that they do not know their husbands anymore because they feel that these males are completely different persons suddenly.

Males can be lovesick and pornsick at the same time. They masturbate to torture porn in one moment, and the next moment they write a 20-page love letter to some e-girl and emotionally vomit all over them, confessing their undying love. (Many women receive as many rape threats as they receive cringe love letters in which males emotionally vomit all over them.) And one moment later do they already want to kill those terrible “e-thots” again: males are always either at your throat or at your feet: the romantic concept of “love” is a literary construct at best and a religious tool at worst but it’s simply not true that men are able to “love” women in the sense women dream about being loved.

Men are not attracted to actual women.

Men do not like actual women.

Men do not love actual women.

—u/ConsidertheHorses

Edit: Just decided to repost this here since it fit. Hope everyone enjoyed the nightmare fuel.

cutsforluck · 2020-08-12T15:07:22+00:00

No joke! I don't know which is worse: the guys who think this, who are emotionally immature (at best...), or the women who think they need to morph into 'one of the guys' to be loved.

ItsFreezen · 2020-08-12T17:32:38+00:00

He should date his friends.

heladosky · 2020-08-12T22:45:45+00:00

Men are weird af, I love video games but legit every time a guy knows that they test me like legit they be asking “if you like that game then what’s the birthday of that character” “what’s the deepest meaning of that game?” Dude I’m just playing the game I don’t want you to give me an exam, one time I was playing cod with a friend and end up 3rd place in the match and then he was like “haha I thought you would be 1st because you said you liked the game” wtf it’s not a competition.

luvmyvulvaxoxo · 2020-08-12T15:42:36+00:00

I would argue they hate women if they need women to be 'treated' with makeup, hair spray, nail polish, etc. for hours before being attracted to them. That's really why I think most men don't actually like women. They don't like our natural breasts, they want us to trim our labia, they want us to have insane diets to have as little fat as possible even though women naturally have more fat than men.

They expect us to have flat tummies like there's when we have A WHOLE EXTRA ORGAN there! How can you expect women to have a flat tummy when we have more stuff there AND more fat to keep it safe?

shakethat_milkshake · 2020-08-12T20:31:31+00:00

“Not obsessed with her looks” vs. “likes to work out” though?

Cool.

janeaustenfan99 · 2020-08-12T17:43:43+00:00

A guy I was seeing straight up told me his therapist recommended he have other male friends for emotional connections and women for like, dating, (sexual?) purposes.

2020-08-13T09:08:18+00:00

She isn't obsessed with her looks is code for she is naturally and effortlessly super hot

Because for a woman, acting masculine is deemed cool only when you look feminine

jomofomo · 2020-08-12T23:47:58+00:00

LMFAOOOO I almost spit my drink out reading this

rosey434 · 2020-08-12T21:46:41+00:00

this is why I try to date guys who have female friends,

or who grew up with older sisters and gets along with them.

Invisiblescars_123 · 2020-08-13T05:48:02+00:00

They just want a homie with a vagina, a homie they can fuck.

Sweetlikecream · 2020-08-13T18:16:54+00:00

Men just need to be honest and say they want to date other men 😂

Sweetlikecream · 2020-08-13T18:24:58+00:00

'isnt obsessed with their looks' lol I'm sorry men are trash. If you were to let yourself go they will call you a pig, ugly, lazy and every bad name in the book. F them.

sadcello · 2020-08-13T13:14:56+00:00

They believe they love women and it's women who don't like men.

Men are delusional.

Title	Do they really like women?
Author	ThatOneShyGirl
Upvotes	1063
Comments	75
Date	August 12, 2020 2:20 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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