How do you perceive big d*ck energy?

thanarealnobody · 2022-04-06T16:13:32+00:00

It’s a level of self assurance that feels like they’re not trying to overcompensate in other areas of their life.

Being calm and patient of others who are maybe slower or weaker than him.

He shows that he doesn’t feel the need to prove some kind of masculinity - he knows he is masculine and doesn’t need external approval.

Being able to handle jokes about himself with ease.

Not gaining resentment for others. “Girls never liked me growing up, I hate them all” “that guy didn’t invite me to his drinks night, fuck that guy” “there’s no point trying to date these days, society only rewards men who look like Thor”. This defeatist and immature attitude is the smallest dick energy of them all.

Disclaimer : “Big Dick Energy” is not necessarily about penis size. You can have the biggest dick and still have “Small Dick Energy”. It’s more of a attitude and aura than a genitals competition

FineDeliciousSnakes · 2022-04-06T13:50:44+00:00

How do I perceive “big dick energy” or how do I tell if a man has an actual big dick?

Big dick energy: he has nothing to prove. He isn’t clingy. Doesn’t beg or neg. Comfortable relaxed energy. Does not get upset if he is challenged and can admit fault and correct himself while still being charming and kind. Has nothing to do with actual penis size.
Has a big dick: his penis is above average in length and girth and honestly I have nothing of substance to advise on how to peg big dicked men other than observing their large member

oscine23 · 2022-04-06T11:29:25+00:00

Quiet confidence. They are not afraid of anything. They attract women; never thirsty. They know how to handle themselves in every situation. Healthy ego. Great in bed.

LevellingUpTime · 2022-04-06T13:33:52+00:00

Men who are able to explain in depth about their career and what they're working on to a layman, without purposely bloating it with jargon to make themselves seem more important

Eg. A doctor talking about treating a patient, but says something like "she had leg pain that turned out to be ankle swelling so we treated her with antibiotics" instead of "idiopathic lower limb pain due to peripheral oedema treated with Cephalosporins" (I have no idea about medicine but you get my drift)

There are way more big d*ck energy stuff but this one immediately comes to mind because it happens ALL THE TIME. Especially in my male-dominated field - it's so embarrassing

hilariouslystated · 2022-04-06T11:40:29+00:00

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_bbears_ · 2022-04-06T14:06:54+00:00

I prefer big dad energy. Men who appear, confident, stable, safe, responsible, empathetic, anticipating the needs of others, getting shit done.

fuckbeingautobanned · 2022-04-06T11:42:37+00:00

I've never had any hint towards the penis size of a man other than how much space his genitals took up in his jeans. My favourite experience so far was with a guy who looked like he packed a good average dick. He acted like what you are calling 'small dick energy', but boy was I wrong. It was beautiful and had a girth to DROOL over once it popped out of hiding. It's haunted my standards ever since.

Girls: all you can find out is whether he's too small for your taste, and you can find out by sitting on their lap. There are opportunities to find out before you sleep with someone. The rest is pseudoscience and an embarrassment to this subreddit, like that one mlm advert in the podcast.

__kamikaze__ · 2022-04-06T12:29:52+00:00

From my experience they tend to be calm, laid back and confident with nothing to prove.

Men are obsessed with their ducks, so the ones who have big ducks feel like they’ve already won in life, while the ones who don’t are oozing with insecurity and hatred because they feel like they’ve been shortchanged. Hence small ducked men have the urge to prove themselves and overcompensate with toxic behaviours.

I also saw a comment about hand size here, and while there’s no scientific proof I feel like there’s some truth to it. There tends to be a correlation… look for the men with big, strong masculine hands 👀

her-vagesty · 2022-04-06T12:53:46+00:00

If he's very chill/relaxed and confident, with a deep voice. Small dick energy is a bit more hyperactive and you can pick up on some insecurities.

ImpatientMudcrab · 2022-04-06T19:47:45+00:00

Not trying too hard to impress you, is simply confident he will impress you when you observe the evidence. Doesn't take it to heart when criticized or laughed at because he's self assured.

ASeaOfQuotes · 2022-04-06T06:19:11+00:00

This is the post you want:

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f8ou3s/how_to_sniff_if_hes_sexually_competent_the_quiet/

ButterfliesHurricane · 2022-04-06T07:09:02+00:00

This is going to sound absurd (and it probably is) but I've noticed that men's fingers tend to be similar to their dicks LOL. If they are short and stubby, he is probably short and stubby down below. If he has long and thick fingers you're probably in for a good time. If he has average length fingers with a slight curve to them...you get the picture.

This is based on no science whatsoever and is strictly my own observation. I'm curious any one else's thoughts, if you know of any instances where this is false please feel free to let me know.

(Come to think of it, I knew one guy with a literal micropenis and his fingers were stubby, but not tiny enough to be comparable to his dick. Still I'd say it gives a general idea more times than not)

Reasonable-Slice-827 · 2022-04-06T07:10:57+00:00

Good energy+attentive+generous+confident-arrogance=BDE

KindredMaximus · 2022-04-06T06:51:22+00:00

My experience is they usually try to show you their d**k in any way they possibly can. Or will tell you in some way. Also, all their friends always know. I knew one guy whose friends all told me he had a PHD. a Pretty huge d**k. They are never secret. You know the friends and if he has one, they'll tell you. I've never known an owner of one who didn't let everyone around him know, in some way.
Edited to add - I had a gf who kept getting micro peens - in her experience when the dude was chatting her up and she was thinking of taking it further, his friends were always either laughing or making faces at each other. So, yeah they also know all he micro peens, as well.

evezinto · 2022-04-06T08:21:24+00:00

Thats a very pick me term to use.

ccro7 · 2022-04-07T09:03:10+00:00

The strong silent type. A chatty guy always gives out very 🤏 vibes

eudaimonia268 · 2022-04-06T08:04:07+00:00

they tend to have narrow shoulders

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