It's Not Rocket Science.

SerenaFit · 2021-03-12T16:16:06+00:00

Yes exactly ! That’s why we take our time. That’s why we want to talk. That’s why we wait for things. That’s why we don’t jump right in. Because we have learned the hard way that we need to vet properly.

SailorMoon1999 · 2021-03-12T17:10:47+00:00

Obviously it's not all men. But it's too many.

Repulsive-Ad1092 · 2021-03-12T19:50:46+00:00

Not all men are abusers, but many of them ignore it when their friends are acting like shit.

BombiniCan · 2021-03-12T17:19:10+00:00

I'm fucking sick of all these men commenting not all men on everything. Obviously not all men are abusers but I guarantee almost all men know one and will stand by him or look the other way when they misbehave.

OrangeyPanda · 2021-03-12T18:26:44+00:00

Women's safety>male feelings

fdssavedmylife · 2021-03-12T17:09:31+00:00

Men are completely welcome to assume the worst about ALL women before they meet us. Thing is, most men’s biggest fear when it comes to women is that we’re fat. Our concerns aren’t equally valid.

RecentSprinkles5997 · 2021-03-12T22:41:20+00:00

It’s totally within men’s control to fix this too if they stopped making excuses for and defending predators and abusers . If whenever they came across one they cut him off/warned women / called the police. If they held each other accountable Women would be able to trust men. But they won’t I haven’t had one “ good “male friend yet who didn’t have that one friend they knew hated women and they didn’t care . So not only do they actively shield abusers they then have the audacity to be upset we don’t trust them for it

MissDesignDiva · 2021-03-12T19:59:14+00:00

Exactly! to use an analogy, "you're given a bag of skittles and told 2 are poisoned but not which 2, you're not gonna just go ahead and eat a handful" that's what we mean when we say "all men, because sure only a smaller % are probably actually terrible, but I'm not sticking myself into the mix and accidentally ending up with a poison one, I'd much prefer to live.

dancedance_83 · 2021-03-12T17:44:38+00:00

Prince said it — “until I find the righteous one, computer blue.”

For me, it’s all men until a HVM appears. Vet, vet, vet.

berryberrykicks · 2021-03-12T20:33:55+00:00

When men say, “Not all men,” my first thought is, “So?”

So what if it’s not all men? Whatever conversation about women’s pain was taking place is no less substantive because of a man’s whiny, uninvited interjection.

In contrast, “Not all men,” has no substance or insight. It’s not even commentary. The objection is just superfluous squawking from a man with hurt fee fees. And to that I say:

SO?

terrn1981 · 2021-03-13T01:01:05+00:00

The "Not all men" bunch are just as dangerous as the perps in crimes. To be more upset over generalizations than rape, violence and murder of women, just shows their lack of empathy for women, shows they see men as more human and than women, and says they value men's feelings over the safety and lives of women. Lack of empathy will cause violence towards us that they will not regret.

A_Fishstick · 2021-03-12T21:42:43+00:00

Not all men, but an alarming number of them. Not all men, but you ptobably cross paths with, work with, socialize with several male predators/abusers every single day.

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2021-03-12T18:40:14+00:00

Same advice all men, yes, ALL MEN, would give their daughters and sisters.

didsome1saybacon · 2021-03-13T01:00:01+00:00

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMekS6qHf/

breadandbunny · 2021-03-13T01:58:50+00:00

Especially when you have been mistreated before, it stands to reason to assume everyone might try to hurt you or deceive you. Protecting our hearts doesn't make us evil. All the good men should blame the bad ones for why women feel so wary of them all.

carlther · 2021-03-12T21:42:57+00:00

Every man and any man can cross boundaries in the bedroom. Aggressiveness, smacking, more forceful bj's, "BDSM". It's a short, short trip from that to rape.

FluffandRainclouds · 2021-03-13T14:03:47+00:00

Someone commented "it's like Russian roulette, but he knows where the bullet is.' Chilled me to the core. 🥶

EveSerpent · 2021-03-12T18:31:07+00:00

All men are potential rapists. It’s up to them which ones act on it.

Protoetype · 2021-03-12T23:58:36+00:00

We can do the scrotes a curtesy and instead of just saying men we can say 99% of all men when we reference them so they don't feel the need to remind us. If they still complain about this then we'll have to start demanding to know percentages.

2021-03-12T22:28:26+00:00

Exactly

RikaRikaw · 2021-03-13T11:57:49+00:00

I would never rape/murder someone. You would never rape/murder someone. But we cant ignore the fact that a lot of people out there would.

2021-03-12T18:06:17+00:00

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Mystro_22 · 2022-08-08T19:05:40+00:00

Same logic as racists lmao

Title	It's Not Rocket Science.
Author	oscine23
Upvotes	4587
Comments	52
Date	March 12, 2021 4:15 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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SO?