Started talking with someone and was scheduling a meeting for the upcoming weekend ~4 days away. My schedule is tight. I work crazy hours, I’m up at 2am near daily.

He suggests Friday evening, which I can’t do at all. I tell him I can do Saturday afternoon. He says he’s sick right now, but hopefully by Saturday he will feel better! (Like wtf?? You just said Friday evening???) My response was that we should wait until he feels better to schedule it then.

And he says “Ok do you want to play Saturday by ear?”

Like

BRO

I’m not going to waste my fucking Saturday after working and being up from 2am to be your goddamn back up!!!! I have other things to schedule in my life. I’m not going to put my Saturday on hold for your “maybe”.

Fuck “play by ear”. You want to set something up with me, let’s schedule it. Don’t waste my time!! Ugh!