Please please please stay safe out there. Seemingly "nice guys" can be predators. Never feel guilty for setting boundaries or telling people that make you uncomfortable to piss off.

taele1996 · 2020-06-16T10:54:41+00:00

Who the actual fuck doesn’t lock their doors when they’re home? 😱😱

nonchalantasian · 2020-06-16T13:35:26+00:00

This actually makes me angry vs scared. The fact that her neighbor thinks it’s okay to intrude in her space with no regards to her privacy. I don’t care if it was a man or a woman at that point.

I would legit have a ring doorbell installed or a security system installed to have activity be monitored or recorded at all points.

I don’t care, you’re not going to fuck with my sanity or privacy ever.

jeanneeebeanneee · 2020-06-16T14:23:09+00:00

My ex used to leave the house and leave the door unlocked while I was still home with our infant son. I asked him repeatedly to please remember to lock the door when he left, and he never understood why I wanted the door locked since "we have a gun." As if it were a better option for me to have to shoot someone than to just lock the fucking door. It's really obvious that men seldom consider the possibility of being raped, brutalized or murdered in their own home. (Even though women are much more vulnerable to it than men are, it can still happen to anyone.)

Goingforabounce · 2020-06-16T10:43:42+00:00

this sends a shiver down my spine.

loftycries · 2020-06-16T13:50:48+00:00

I lock my door the second I get inside my house. And I check it again and again and again to make sure it’s actually locked. I am TERRIFIED of this happening.

jucamonole · 2020-06-16T11:38:42+00:00

Oh, hell no! My door is ALWAYS locked. We just do not know nowadays. And I have two daughters! They know.

Neorago · 2020-06-16T16:43:08+00:00

My neighbour cross the hall has one of those cameras doorbells. He came to my house to tell me it's for his safety and he's "definitely not using it to spy on you haha". I wasn't thinking he was until he said that!

Deep-Blackberry · 2020-06-16T18:07:39+00:00

I'm extremely traumatized from being a kid, then coming home from school and finding the house burglarized. Its a scary thing as a child,then finding out as an adult that your father set that situation up. Whew. I always double check my doors at night, windows too. I also have a weapon of choice nearby in case someone breaks in. It's sometimes never enough. I've never met anyone who doesn't lock their doors at night.

Picaboo13 · 2020-06-16T19:42:04+00:00

Look up serial killers Adam Lane and Richard Chase and you will always lock your doors! Both picked their victims by if s house was unlocked. One if them would go house to house until he found one. Always be safe!

ineedanewname2 · 2020-06-16T17:14:28+00:00

I always lock the doors and I have these “sticks” that go under the doorknob so you can’t break in (or at least it will be harder). Some friends think I’m paranoid but we have to stay safe!

MACMUA · 2020-06-17T02:28:36+00:00

This exact thing happened to my sister.

She was drinking. And her neighborhood had a block party with all the parents. My sister was feeling tipsy so decided to go back to her house. She lived with her male friend who is gay. my sister didn’t flirt or talk to anyone at the party. She was mostly with the women at the party. So there was not any reason someone could possibly think she was giving them signals.

When she gets home she’s by herself. Her roommate was still drinking at the block party. She comes home washes her face, puts her pajamas, and starts setting alarms for work the next day. She hears like weird noises out side her room and she recognized her roommates voice talking. So she was surprised he was home.

He looked alarmed when she opened the door. I guess some man from the party followed her home. This guy is married with kids. My sister locked her room door and he was trying to ‘jiggle’ the lock open. My sisters roommate caught him red handed. He tried to play it off saying my sister invited him over. Fucken lies!!!!

Please be careful out there girls. There are predators everywhere. They don’t think of themselves as predators ..that’s the problem

N2Gen · 2020-06-16T14:23:42+00:00

What in the fuck

xosunnybunn · 2020-06-16T17:35:47+00:00

holy fuck

time to greet him with a body guard

_Atalanta_ · 2020-06-16T22:01:58+00:00

Trying to gaslight her into thinking that locking her doors is weird and unreasonable!? She should be glad to receive surprise strangers in the night, they can only have good intentions right?? 🤨

dazzle158 · 2020-06-16T18:01:50+00:00

Oh my gosh, report this! It's trespassing, as well as stalking and harassment. And the guy didnt even give it a second thought?!??!?!

sososonia · 2020-06-16T22:33:28+00:00

I remember this one serial killer (don't rem who) said that he would go around and see whose door is unlocked, bc that was them basically agreeing to be killed.

Keep your doors locked.

boxofficepoisonn · 2020-06-16T19:42:57+00:00

That is a one sentence horror story if I've ever seen one😱 le creep

waddamelone · 2020-06-16T11:14:46+00:00

What the fuuuuck?!

pissed_af · 2020-06-17T04:02:29+00:00

I would've started sleeping with a baseball bat next to me after that

Novemberinthechair · 2020-06-17T02:16:40+00:00

Whaaaaaaaaaat!?!?

pinklemon78 · 2020-06-17T03:28:47+00:00

Guys that play the “nice guy” trope are a dangerous breed. This one guy tried to court me for 4 months just to get my guard down and for me to like him. He went to very far extents for me to believe him when he said “I’m a nice guy”. A couple weeks into me giving him a chance he was disregarding every boundary I had and compulsively lying. When I called him out for being the nice guy trope he tried to use information I shared with him about having been sexually assaulted against me, saying that he “could’ve raped me on plenty of different occasions, yet didn’t” as his counter argument. Then when I rejected him for sex, he threatened to blackmail me. If a guy is constantly telling you how nice he is, run the hell away!

ChristianGirl93 · 2020-06-17T14:33:48+00:00

This is when you casually bring up your new security camera and the strong Uncle Joe who happens to live there that no one sees 😟

bey124 · 2020-06-18T06:21:30+00:00

Aaaaaand this is why I will now consider adding some sort of legal weapon to my habits for keeping myself safe (basic locking doors, windows, etc.). How do other women in Europe do this? I’m focussing on getting stronger but I feel I need something I can keep in the house.

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