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Straight facts

riverofdenali

October 3, 2021
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Title Straight facts
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riverofdenali

Upvotes 1255
Comments 58
Date October 3, 2021 7:55 AM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/q0dcia/straight_facts/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/straight-facts.1078069
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Ladies, yet another manipulation tactic we should be aware of! This one is more subtle and absolutely terrifying.

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Ladies, if FDS has taught me anything, it’s that LVM always come crawling back.

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Comments

[–]pureFLsugarFDS Newbie 427 points428 points429 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

“Emotionally wounded community penis”. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[–]seraphinelysionFDS Apprentice 161 points162 points163 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Most men never grow up from this or move out of this phase in life because they lack the self awareness. Sorry, not sorry.

[–]pureFLsugarFDS Newbie 77 points78 points79 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Fair point. Also, we have to care for our health. Nobody wants to put the town bike in her mouth. 😉

[–]swaylynFDS Newbie 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I used to think it was a lack of self awareness until I realized my ex KNEW all (if not most) of his issues. He would lowkey bring them up just a casual mention tied to his action (for example: posting on social media an old beater car telling everyone it’s his new ride when that isn’t his car and he leased a new year model car to keep up appearances. He received soooo many comments from people congratulating him and a few asking Qs because they know he was driving a new car. ALL I did was give a wtf this is a waste of time “okay” in response when he told me about it and he goes “i know I know I’m attention seeking right now, but it’s sooo funny look at this comment telling me congratulations”)

I never once used the phrase attention seeking or called him out in such behavior just quietly noted it.

He taught me that men KNOW their problem areas they CHOOSE not to do anything about it. Because it’s too much work and they don’t think it’s worth it.

An abuser is tuned into their surroundings, how they are perceived and their actions as well as others reactions. I would argue they are VERY aware.

I love seeing posts on fds about the bumbling man because I didn’t know how overwhelmingly common that strategy was but now I see it soooo clearly

[–]catenablerFDS Newbie 37 points38 points39 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why do I feel like some men would consider that a compliment

[–]otroniveI 113 points114 points115 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If women said this about men, they would be crying about their mental health and how women ruin it especially if studies confirmed the fact that they’re more likely to be lonely, they would be playing victim and seeking sympathy but because it’s about women, it’s all good.

[–]cheezbrodFDS Newbie 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But we do already say this about men and this is precisely the position they take - again proclaiming that the responsibility for their emotional intelligence and maintenance is on women.

The unsaid message in these tweets is that men need to start this journey to emotional maturity with other men.

Leave us out if it. Shit.

[–]europoor24Pickmeisha™️ 287 points288 points289 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Why do some men act like being a single mother (by choice or not), adoption and fostering children isn't a thing.

[–]DontAskTwice-A-RoniFDS Newbie 304 points305 points306 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I also don’t understand the “you’ll be old and alone” thing because women tend to outlive their husbands anyway. Most 80 year old women are widowers… so, how is that any different from a woman who never married? They’re both going to “die alone” because that’s literally the only way that most people die. The argument doesn’t even make sense.

[–]katiekat0214FDS Newbie 188 points189 points190 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep, and as a 50something widow, I'm living proof of that. I can't tell you how many men who try to tell me, but you could marry againnnnnn. Nope, done with that. Been there done that twice. They don't need to know I have assets to protect. I don't want to marry someone else's shitty credit score. I won't be a bangmaid. No extra cooking or cleaning, and absolutely no caregiving, having done that until death did us part. Thanks, let's just live apart, keep money separate, and just be fun companions. Works for me at this stage of my life. I have no fear of death, having seen it close up from childhood, growing out in the country. WHEN I die, let it be doing what I love: traveling, hiking, kayaking, whatever.

[–]slayeroftruthFDS Apprentice 78 points79 points80 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Men say all the time women divorce men more. It makes no sense for men to threaten women with being single when women choose to be legally single and has less interest in another marriage than divorced men lol ..

[–]otroniveI 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The logical gender is lacking logic once again.

[–]Throwaways_4_dais 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fucking right?! Like, don’t threaten me with a good time! Lol Why can’t they just grow up and act like people instead of asshole Neanderthals??

[–]kycakeFDS Newbie 386 points387 points388 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

finally a man saying something of value. we love to see it.

[–]XRozeFDS Newbie 169 points170 points171 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lmao has Solomon been reading FDS? He’s literally just listing off our talking points

[–]eveloeFDS Apprentice 64 points65 points66 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The tweets are from 2 years ago

[–]qualitylampsFDS Newbie 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And he’s fine? Ooof!

[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist 134 points135 points136 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

Lmfao we can adopt at any time, also the sperm bank

And studies show child free single women are consistently the happiest group

Many women don’t children with porn sick losers obsessed with incest porn and gaming

Whereas men are happier married than we are

Projection much

I ended 95% of my relationships, rest was mutual

If I was fearful about being alone & was better off with them longterm - I wouldn’t end them would I?

Men are SCARED of being alone cos they don’t like their own company

Not to mention these ‘lonely’ poor men soon find women to cheat with when in a relationship. Funny that.

Would men put up with a woman cheating?

I think tf not.

These unremarkable manchildren think we’re their trophies that they can expect king treatment from whilst they treat us like slaves.

They think they own rights to us and can treat us however behind our backs and we’ll stay.

Good riddance. Even the ‘better’ men I dated were not worth longterm commitment. Still not interesting or competent enough to spend a lifetime with.

[–]seraphinelysionFDS Apprentice 54 points55 points56 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

These unremarkable manchildren think we’re their trophies that they can expect king treatment from whilst they treat us like slaves.

I think treating us like slaves is what makes them feel like kings. 😬

[–]ironglaciersFDS Newbie 28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There it is.

[–]GlitterLoveAngelFDS Newbie 293 points294 points295 points 4 years ago2 (16 children) | Copy Link

A little unrelated but it’s annoying to see male lurkers constantly downvote our posts. Like do you have any better to do? You say we’re the ones miserable yet we’re not the ones harassing men!sts, !ncels, mr4s, mgt0w(Using numbers and ! To avoid censorship) and being obsessed with them. Lmao get a life.

It’s nice to finally see men standing up for us though and going against s!mp culture. Especially moc.

And unpopular opinion:Men need women but women don’t need men.

Men live off the free labor of women and stoop to manipulation tactics, red p!ll tactics, etc. just to literally EAT, take care of his kids, clean his house and allow him to afford things because male gold diggers are the norm and it’s socially acceptable.

Whereas women literally have life skills, know how to cook, how to clean, have a degree, make 6 figures, has a skincare routine and has good hygiene, looks gorgeous, etc. and they legitimately try to manipulate and guilt trip women into thinking that they need a man just to be happy and to lower her standards.

Only pick me's with low self esteem and no self respect fall for that. I speak from experience.

It’s also proven that even if you do pay for half of his shit, do the majority or all of the chores along with childcare and be his bngmaid that men won’t appreciate it AT ALL.

There was a post about how men literally don’t value LTR and are laughing at how pathetic their girlfriends are for doing so much stuff for them. That’s how they truly feel when you insist on going 50/50 on bills and dates yet do all the chores because “He can’t do it right! Don’t blame him!” All while the only skin to skin contact you have is during sex and he pays no attention or any affection to you and literally seems embarrassed to be anywhere near you.

And then after years of him leeching of you, you building him up, doing free labor and being his free therapist, he immediately leaves you for a woman who he seems so in love with and does so many things he wouldn’t even think of doing with you. Such as holding her HAND and being affectionate(Not inappropriate) in public and standing up for her even against his friends and is even willing to break off friendships just for her. It sucks because that’s the bare minimum and should be the norm. This is how society and the world is like nowadays and teen girls are falling into this thinking that this is what a healthy relationship is. Especially with how kdramas, animes, films, etc. are like(Sailor moon, boys over flowers, pretty little liars, vampire diaries and true beauty come to mind)

They convince girls that if you’re nice, patient and caring enough and tolerate his bs, you’ll eventually soften him up, heal his trauma and he’ll change from a disrespectful straight up toxic guy into a loving and caring gentleman. It’s so backwards and sad and straight up wrong. This is what gets women k!lled.

[–]shinyjewelsFDS Apprentice 155 points156 points157 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I get messages from men calling me all kinds of names cuz I posted a pic of a gift my bf gave me on FDS to remind ladies that they should expect more. Like it’s truly pathetic lmao

[–]ExistentialJellyFDS Newbie 82 points83 points84 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I get random messages from pick mes and men. It's also funny to see the downvotes on my posts. It's fake internet points... Like come on, grow up. Reddit points make no difference in my life and losing them doesn't wound me like they hope.

[–]lilac-hiraethPickmeisha™️ 52 points53 points54 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I get such a mixed bag of messages from men because of my comments here. The large majority of the messages are polite, understanding and curious but there are rare odd ones are looking to instigate negative attention. I just wanted to throw it out that for every negative comment, I get a dozen more that aren’t, so, even men know men are up to bullshit because overwhelmingly I’ve gotten very kind messages. Guys that have nothing better to do than to go out of their way to put down women are so triggered and small and just add to our resolve as women to keep pushing to improve our standards!

Generally ignore them all the same unless they’re asking specific questions about culture which I love chatting about to anyone interested but yeah, even men know men are up to crazy amounts of bullshit and are embarrassed by their counterparts. Lol

[–]XRozeFDS Newbie 35 points36 points37 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I posted in a couple of threads in FDS about big dicks like 6 months ago and I still get messages every couple of weeks from guys asking me what qualifies as big. I have all of my messages turned off so I don’t understand how these slip through

[–]DivineGoddess1111111FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I get asked to be their domme. Where are my nice, kind messages? 😂😂😂

[–]ilovewinniethepoohFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

By the by I saw your earlier post and I am putting the blue bag on my vision board because I want to be able to afford it comfortably myself someday

[–]cheezbrodFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Username checks out

[–]ironglaciersFDS Newbie 35 points36 points37 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"Men need women but women don't need men."

LOUDER. 👏🏻

[–]Davina33FDS Disciple 30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

I had a male lurker comment on a post I made for help from doctors to understand why my 33 year old cousin died. He said "fucking scrotes probably gave her a heart attack, fucking scrotes". The piece of shit. I deleted it because I had a reply from a doctor already. They can't inbox me or follow me. So they comment on my post instead, losers.

[–]GlitterLoveAngelFDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Jesus Christ. Men are so insensitive and disgusting. I’ve had cops show up to my door a couple of weeks ago. Stated that the person who called them claimed that they were a relative but after checking in with my family and friends, I highly doubt it. Males are known for stalking women and doxxing them so I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if that was the case. I’ve also seen radfems delete their account due to violent men doxxing, harassing and sending them threats. Even when I started to become a radfem and abandon my lbfem beliefs, I still tried to have hope for the Y chromosome and was behind the whole “Not all males and women do it too!”.

But after seeing their response, behavior, hatred and straight up inhumane and violent acts towards women only groups, women having legit SELF RESPECT, HIGH SELF ESTEEM AND CONFIDENCE and opinions of her own that go against the patriarchy and l!bfem agenda, I literally lost pretty much all the faith, respect and care I had for men.

I genuinely don’t understand why men think it’s okay to treat women who are literal human beings this way just because she doesn’t want to settle for a guy who’s just going to make her miserable and bring her down and reject a ‘nice’ guy but then go on to rant about how feminists are the worst, so dangerous, selfish and are nzis.

God forbid a woman dares to have self respect but if a man was treating his daughter, sister, mother, wife, any woman he cares about the way he treats women, he would k!ll the guy and would do literally EVERYTHING in his power to make sure that his daughter knows to value herself and know her worth and don’t settle for a guy who thinks that it’s okay to hit women and treat them like a roommate. Make it make sense.

You also never see women doing this shit. Even when they hate men, they don’t constantly send death and rpe threats to males and their families and stalk them. They go their own fucking way and leave men alone and I’m so sick of how male behavior and violence towards women(Fem!cide) is so acceptable and not even acknowledged because the blame is always put on women. No matter what and how bad the issue that a man was responsible for, people are always going to find a way to make the woman the bad guy. Name the problem.

People don’t even believe that men can falsely accuse women of rpe and abxse but it’s been happening forever and is actually happening a lot more frequently. And it sucks because men can easily get away with it due to the fact that it’s never acknowledged and people always find a way to defend and sympathize with the guy whereas women who do the same thing don’t even get a chance to explain her side of the story and has her life ruined by what could’ve been the literal truth if someone just bothered to care about her just as much as they would care about the guy and his future.

[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Psychotic manchildren

They’re SO emotional

[–]ello-mottoFDS Apprentice 58 points59 points60 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Someone posted a link to some Korean manhwas yesterday saying the guys in the stories are HV, but they've got the same LV trope of being emotionally cold and stunted, and the woman has to soften them up. I fell for that in my early 20s and tried to soften up my cold ex, whilst ignoring many red flags.

We need more stories with men who are genuine HV leads. Not just the Sasuke brooding emo types.

[–]missaskia 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ohhhhh shiiiiiiit 👌

[–]xfelugirlxFDS Newbie 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Period, finally someone critical and no just cry babies

[–]throwawayaway388FDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao, I love this so much!

I'm going to have to figure out a way to save this 👀

[–]i-wasted-my-twenties 30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

At least there’s some men who are aware

[–]EffectiveHoneydew422FDS Newbie 27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is fucking devine

[–]blackmetalbettyFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

u/savevideo

[–]fugopannacottaFDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Very true. It's classic male projection. They're the ones afraid of dying alone.

[–]hotnbothereddFDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We need more men giving serious life advice to other men.

Men care more about what other men think of them than women, so if you’re an LVM and other men think bad about your behavior and tell you what you’re doing isn’t right, you’re more likely to work on yourself. Idk I could be wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️ I just feel like low value behavior is praised too much.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am now getting pathetic "hate" messages just for commenting on this sub and advising women not to date men with LV behavior lmao

[–]Big_Illustrious_Vag 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All of this concern over women and singledom when women do a great job at building a social safety net. You know who’s really at risk of ending up alone with nobody to care?

MEN

[–]Noemie_MathildeFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love that he called out the inevitable "simping" comments

[–]all_or_nothing_betFDS Apprentice 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Emotionally wounded community penis. Somebody, call the fire department! 😂😂😂😂🤡🤡🤡💀💀💀💀💀🔥🔥🔥

[–]spidertonic 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I like this guy

[–]janedoeautopsy 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

finally a man with common sense

[–]Jezebel143FDS Newbie 49 points50 points51 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Who knew you could make a Tik Tok just reading other people’s tweets?! (No offense OP but this kind of content isn’t my fave, I don’t need boys telling me what I already know.)

[–]blueboobs-FDS Disciple 37 points38 points39 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yup! As much as “it’s about time” for men to come and gather their fucking bros finally 🙄. I’m still not falling over myself to worship him for riding women’s coattails and saying what we’ve been saying as if it’s ✨brand New✨.

[–]seraphinelysionFDS Apprentice 52 points53 points54 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I said this before and I will say it again. This kind of content is not for us. It is made by men for men. If women say these things, we're labeled as bitter old hags and misandrists. If men say these same things, they might get a discourse going. Good for them. I am all about men calling out other men and saying what needs to be said because men will not listen to other women, but they might listen to other men. So I'm all for content like this IF it gets men moving in the right direction.

[–]Jezebel143FDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I completely understand that and that’s why I don’t agree with it being posted here (again, no offense to OP, just my humble opinion).

[–]seraphinelysionFDS Apprentice 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree with you about how it shouldn't be posted here. We are not here to give validation or credit to men who "get" it. Let men have this one. I'd like to keep the FDS page free of men-content like this as well.

[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Second that.

[–]cherriesandmilkFDS Newbie 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Omg I hate the pandering they do for views. I couldn’t even watch this video.

[–]ironglaciersFDS Newbie 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It gets the message out and a lot of teens and young men are on tiktok following other men. This is a good thing.

[–]Platipus6FDS Apprentice 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This sub is a free megaphone to scrotes who can't clap back. At least 100 dudes hate-watched this 😂

[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly.

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