The state of Reddit.

Lavender_flow · 2020-09-07T10:05:50+00:00

AiTa/relationship advice:" my husband just punched me in the face and shat on the floor because I cooked him a meal he doesn't like- am I the asshole?" The fact that these women breed with these zero value men. 🤢 I would divorce a guy over this in a heartbeat. (Would never have married such a scrote in the first place) but still. It is not like this is his only toxic trait.

heleninthealps · 2020-09-07T11:44:38+00:00

"wHaT dO yUo bRiNg tO tHe TaBlE?!"

Soup. I bring soup motherfucker.

LittleBitchyBanana · 2020-09-07T08:39:34+00:00

This to me sounds like a good brainwashing. She basically apologises for having audacity to like what her husband doesn’t. 😂 crazy

Novemberinthechair · 2020-09-07T12:11:06+00:00

Sigh. He pouts? Grown men should never pout if they want to get laid, ever. So fucking unattractive.

fim_de_semana · 2020-09-07T12:19:08+00:00

I swear getting laid with a guy like that should count as pedophilia.

cupcakedreamz · 2020-09-07T09:46:49+00:00

What a whiney toddler! It's like he didn't mature past age 3.

llamasinspace420 · 2020-09-07T12:58:39+00:00

Lmao I hate seafood. Loser ex loved it. He never cooked. I never made seafood. He would complain. I would say "you can make your own food any time you want".

He never made his own food and still constantly complained about not having seafood. Not my problem and I never cared lol.

Lonlinessandtitties · 2020-09-07T14:08:07+00:00

OH MY GOD MY EX

I cooked every night! Whatever he wanted 99% of the time. The rare occasion I'd make something i was craving he'd pout and complain. He never ONCE cooked for me. Even when i was sick in bed, i got my ass up and got my ass some soup.

I would rather be single forever then be a mommy to a grown ass man ever again. I'm so much happier, and i eat whatever the fuck i want.

howdoilogoutt · 2020-09-07T11:16:22+00:00

I am shocked she feels she needs to ask this, he sounds awful.

gimmeyourbadinage · 2020-09-07T13:36:32+00:00

I was happy to see the top comment say she’s actually got two kids and a baby

chateauduchat · 2020-09-07T12:54:02+00:00

🤮🤮 I tell men in relationships that I don’t cook from the get go. Patriarchy needs to pay up.

Proud-Purpose · 2020-09-07T13:54:07+00:00

She has children and this creature thinks every dinner should revolve around what he likes?

alexis_le_trotteur · 2020-09-07T14:41:38+00:00

He doesn't like soup? Wtf does that mean? There's like a million ways to make soup.... He pout because he just doesn't want to eat with a spoon instead of s fork?

xYennefer · 2020-09-07T09:41:04+00:00

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PottyMouthx · 2020-09-07T16:20:26+00:00

I really hate this restaurant mindset where men and children feel entitled to demand to eat what they like the most most of the time. Unless it's disgusting or someone has a food allergy/intolerance, they should be content and eat it.

Not every meal can be elaborate chocolate pancake tower.

lilithdianara · 2020-09-07T10:48:44+00:00

I cringed

2020-09-07T14:18:15+00:00

In conclusion my husband is actually three years old and won't eat his vegetables. Boohoo. Send him to daycare.

Moonxtal · 2020-09-07T14:50:42+00:00

He's a grown ass man he can make himself a pb&j if he wants. My ex hated soups and stews too...never stopped me from making em

asteria2002 · 2020-09-07T11:33:33+00:00

He should be grateful for the fact that she cooked, after all the thought is what matters right🥺. If men want to start proposing with a rubber ring, than let's start cooking the most disgusting dishes for them.

Hennyyenni · 2020-09-07T10:40:59+00:00

I feel like grown ass adults who don’t like soup are immature AF. I didn’t like soup when I was a child but now I love it. And to complain when someone else lovingly makes you a meal . 🙄

Eris_the_Fair · 2020-09-07T16:24:22+00:00

My dad did this to my mom once when she made a dish we liked, but he did not. He got irrationally angry, and even as an elementary school student I knew it was wrong. My mom just said sorry. I still remember being disgusted by his audacity 30 years later, and have never eaten that dish since that day.

Charming_Mix7930 · 2020-09-07T17:49:32+00:00

I mean... the teens loved it and my belief as a childless woman is that my only responsability in cooking is to make sure those who depend on me (either children, disabled people who can't fend for themselves or eldery) get full of the most nutritious food possible. Adult people can cook their own food.

NikolasIsAGoodBird · 2020-09-07T14:11:01+00:00

I know I’m on the right track, when I read posts like this and can’t help but CRINGE

This was me at one point, but I’m waking up!

pao664 · 2020-09-07T19:49:47+00:00

Just throwing this out there- if you ever have to resort to posting about your relationship in the “Am I the asshole” subreddit, you are 100% in a relationship WITH an asshole. All of those posts on “AITA” sound the same. It’s rinse, repeat.

2020-09-07T17:05:21+00:00

Overly dramatic eye roll.

Throw the whole manchild away and make all the stews you like.

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-09-07T17:54:56+00:00

Then you can have sleep for dinner. But that soup sounds good

FDSxMuffinVSrat · 2020-09-07T17:02:57+00:00

Goddamn I would make more soup out of spite.

cherryloaf · 2020-09-07T21:35:03+00:00

Once, my dad threw a fit and broke several pieces of furniture because he didn't like what my mom made for dinner. My mom explained it away with "men in our culture are just used to having soup before dinner!". She also sacrificed me to the altar of his penis for his paycheck while roleplaying feminist my entire childhood.

naenita_ · 2020-09-08T02:33:32+00:00

I've commented about this, but one time, my therapist was telling me how we will repeat the same patterns from our parents (that we witnessed in our childhood)

If you always saw your mom cook, clean, on top of having a job while your dad only worked, that's what you will think healthy/normal is. If you saw your mom pick out your dad's clothes and lay them on the bed like they're a kid, that's what you will think is normal; and so on...

So, I think this could be one of those instances. This is why it's important to make sure we have children with HVM!

To this day, my mom is -always- thinking of making food specially for my dad, because he will not like x or y - I eyeroll so hard internally :(

hvwthrowaway · 2020-09-07T16:06:38+00:00

I would never cook for a man, not even instant-soup.

Silverpool2018 · 2020-09-13T10:42:11+00:00

Why isn't he turned into a stew already, huh? Jokes aside, this man can eat cereal for all I care.

Title	The state of Reddit.
Author	sentinelsexy
Upvotes	298
Comments	65
Date	September 7, 2020 8:34 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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