Yes.

Sage_Planter · 2021-12-22T01:35:43+00:00

I was the crazy ex-girlfriend? You know, the one who had emotional outbursts?

Well, as it turns out, my ex was gaslighting me and lying to me our entire relationship. He kept pulling these little stunts to protect his secrets. Every time I came close to finding out the truth, he'd call me "too emotional" and refuse to continue the conversation. "I can't keep talking about this with you. You're too emotional!!!"

Yeah... so, the only flaw I had was believing his lying ass.

BlueSkiesOverLondon · 2021-12-22T01:30:38+00:00

I mean, men tell on themselves in this regard all the time, when they say they don’t want to date a woman with previous partners because she will be “damaged” and have “baggage”…

lansburysoda · 2021-12-22T01:28:29+00:00

This is literally exactly what every man I’ve dated has told me 🥴 he was perfect and his ex was crazy/abusive. The projection is so strong with them

queenofswordsxxx · 2021-12-22T01:10:50+00:00

It’s like they don’t understand how systemic misogyny/ patriarchy works to abuse women from all directions (including relationships)

lostmillenia · 2021-12-22T01:13:52+00:00

screams internally

millennialpink2000 · 2021-12-22T00:57:23+00:00

They're so close to getting it

Bwolffff · 2021-12-22T03:38:49+00:00

And apparently every guy’s ex is crazy but he was perfect 🤷‍♀️

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2021-12-22T05:41:51+00:00

More like most women were out there trying to have a real relationship, while their worthless boyfriends were just trying to mooch maximum free benefits and services out of women until either the bills came due or a new target came along to exploit.

ItsFreezen · 2021-12-22T12:56:29+00:00

Yes. And explain why Scrotes choose to have multiple children with a women they call "crazy"?

Owl-right · 2021-12-22T07:58:29+00:00

Yeah that's why they're an ex 🤟

xfelugirlx · 2021-12-22T01:10:37+00:00

Yeah they are crazy but hey they used to love them, get it? Who’s lying out there

mashibeans · 2021-12-22T05:49:27+00:00

LOL they accused women so much of being the "crazy ex" to the point it became a trope, but now they hate it when they get accused the same way... except there's actual data, facts and anecdotes backing up women's situation. Hell, men are literally stalking AND killing their exes to the point THAT is a common thing!

themissdaydreamer · 2021-12-22T10:10:40+00:00

well, who was the one living her best life, taking care of herself, working two jobs, making the most of 20's, had both the looks and the wits, and wanted a relationship because she was in love and it just felt right?

and who was the emotionally damaged, with mommy issues, daddy issues, afraid of making long term plans, had the smallest dick I'd seen, the typical "forever potential", and wanted a relationship so he could flaunt his beautiful, successful girlfriend around until he started resenting her and decided to hurt her like the asshole he was?

yeah, thought so.

spicyspa · 2021-12-22T02:42:13+00:00

Posted by a person who has a frog holding a firearm.

pickadaisy · 2021-12-22T04:47:26+00:00

I read and was like, “where’s the joke?” Before I saw your post title. 😂

East-Willingness513 · 2021-12-22T09:25:59+00:00

I didn’t even realise this was sarcasm for a sec because most men are toxic and abusive and most women are (close to) perfect 🤣

onceuponasea · 2021-12-22T01:10:38+00:00

Correct

queeninprogress · 2021-12-22T06:23:20+00:00

Where's the lie though

ifhewantedtohewould · 2021-12-22T02:13:36+00:00

Yes… it’s almost like there’s a pattern with men, huh, who would have guessed!!

lolmemberberries · 2021-12-22T13:43:47+00:00

No, sometimes the guy is low-effort and boring.

biwinny · 2021-12-23T01:44:07+00:00

If you've ever genuinely sat down with women, and asked them to detail their experiences with men, you'd realize that most likely, yes.

Men are rarely kind to anyone, but if they are, it's only towards other adult men. They're never on the receiving end of male entitlement and predation.

laylaloolah · 2021-12-22T16:02:26+00:00

I’ve had 2-3 exes who were honestly incredibly high value men, just lacked physical chemistry, enough in common, or I didn’t like their family… these men were rarely mean, and apologized immediately if they were. Made nice plans, etc.

Those guys are rare. Every other ex has been emotionally abusive, won’t apologize, talks to exes, physically abusive, etc. So my ratio is 1/10 relationships roughly. And that doesn’t include all the creepy dates, stalkers, scary randos. Just people I dated for ~6 months or more.

Title	Yes.
Author	lonesocksss
Upvotes	900
Comments	45
Date	December 22, 2021 12:40 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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