A feminist's two sons reject her lies about rape culture etc and she's very pissed off about it: "My teen boys are blind to rape culture - The Washington Post"

bloodshot_eyes · 2016-09-17T04:57:50+00:00

Jesus fuck, could you imagine having such a zealot for a mother? She is so hopelessly mired in her own delusion of persecution and celebrated victimhood that she can't even see that she's driving her sons away. Surprise surprise, when you proselytize ad-nauseum that men are such pieces of shit, men stop listening to you.

This article is so full of buzz-words and solipsism that I'd almost think that it's satire. She's so far up her own asshole that she can see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Tedesche · 2016-09-17T07:14:55+00:00

Jesus. The only relief I got from reading that bullshit screed was (a) seeing that her sons weren't buying her shit, and (b) neither were most of the commenters on the article. Hopefully WaPo will stop giving page time to loons like that soon.

manicmonkeys · 2016-09-17T11:16:39+00:00

One of the most fucking stupid things about this is they ALWAYS talk about needing to get a woman's consent before having sex. Why the hell is it NEVER about them getting a man's "enthusiastic consent"?

And obviously this is tongue-in-cheek. I know why they don't talk about it. These types assume men always want sex, to them, men are living in a state of desperate consent to any sex they can get. Their worldview would be shattered if they ever stopped to think for a moment that maybe men don't want sex with every woman all the time.

I've got a pretty strong sex drive, but on the uncommon occasion when I've told significant others I didn't feel like having sex at the moment, they got PISSED every time.

fengpi · 2016-09-17T04:41:53+00:00

I never imagined I would raise boys who would become men like these. Men who deny rape culture, or who turn a blind eye to sexism.

Golly. It's almost as if people resist having an ideology rammed-down their throats and maudlin attempts to manipulate them into following your political agenda.

The solution is clear: more stern, finger-wagging lectures that nobody asked for.

Yes, to be a "good man" you must do exactly as this woman commands. To not follow her diktat is to acquiesce to that gosh-darned invisible raep kulchir/flying spaghetti monster that only she can see.

Remember:

Raep kulchah!

RAEP KULCHAH!

RAAAAEEEEEP-PUH KUL-CHAAAAAAAAAAAH!!

unbelievablepeople · 2016-09-17T10:37:45+00:00

This same woman wrote something a couple years ago about taking her children to Ferguson to protest: http://time.com/3614690/brought-kids-ferguson-protest/

She really seems to see her children as a tool to promote her own political causes, not as human beings who need a mother's love. I feel sorry for them.

unbelievablepeople · 2016-09-17T10:26:18+00:00

The way she writes this:

They’ve been listening to me talk about consent, misogyny and rape culture since they were tweens.

She sounds like she views her sons as two guinea pigs in her social science experiment to see if she can turn two boys into raging feminists. She seriously seems like she loves her ideas about rape culture more than she loves her sons. It's sad to think of two boys growing up in an environment like that. Fortunately they seem like they've got good heads on their shoulders. Perhaps they have men in their lives who are good role models.

electrodude102 · 2016-09-17T04:42:44+00:00

Sounds like her sons have heard the story about "the boy who cried wolf." Or, in this case, "the feminist who cried rape." Poor kids.

baserace · 2016-09-17T08:01:57+00:00

Some Feminists learn to understand and respect boys when they become mothers and raise their own sons. Some remain ignorant assholes.

tHeSiD · 2016-09-17T07:05:34+00:00

Those boys are smart

Rik_the_rodent_king · 2016-09-17T14:00:00+00:00

From the comments over there;

Such a brave article...Some other articles Jody has written in his series include: "I have to learn to care for my suicidal teen" "My kids need trigger warnings" "My daughter is a gift, her autism is not" "I took my kids to the Ferguson protest" "My adopted sister tried to kill me (repeatedly)" "I'm a single mom of 7 and couldn't be happier" "My DNA is keeping me hostage" "I'm a rape survivor with a rape apologist son" "My teenager is drinking and using drugs"

All must reads from this wonderful mother of 7 healthy normal children.

mikesteane · 2016-09-17T09:05:18+00:00

The archive link doesn't show the comments under the article. Almost 100% against it.

v573v · 2016-09-17T09:51:14+00:00

I always get the feeling that people who proselytize enthusiastic consent have not used it themselves.

I'm all for having the sex conversation before hand about everyone's likes, dislikes, lines, and boundries but during sex it's a cold shower.

If you want to pester your spouse do enthusiastic consent in your everyday life around them.

In fact, that's what her sons should do - apply enthusiastic consent in their everyday life with mom.

I_divided_by_0- · 2016-09-17T10:46:35+00:00

But they have never been sexually abused

Nope, but they sure as hell are being mentally abused. Think how awful it is to be called a rapist by your mother.

5th_Law_of_Robotics · 2016-09-17T12:55:33+00:00

And in this broken system, anyone who isn’t with us is against us. Particularly, and especially, men. Even my own sons — even yours. It’s not enough to teach our sons about consent; we have to encourage them to have the courage to speak out against rape culture, too.

This is cult level nonsense.

Everyone who isn't part of the cult is an enemy. You should turn on your own family if they reject the true path to salvation.

I'm glad the kids have seen through it. Women like this shouldn't have sons. It's like a white supremacist adopting a black kid and raising him to hate himself.

MyL1ttlePwnys · 2016-09-17T11:16:51+00:00

Pretty much this whole article...

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/ab/77/2e/ab772eacd8e1f5072cc26a732ffbf509.jpg

Lethn · 2016-09-17T11:51:47+00:00

We were sitting around the dinner table talking about the news. As soon as I mentioned the Stanford sexual assault case, my sons looked at each other. They knew what was coming.

So as expected with most feminists she's found one legitimate rape case vs hundreds of hoaxes and she's trying to force her sons to listen to her bullshit because that one incident somehow justifies all her bullshit and they have to listen to her because of it and it automatically means that because of how they were born they're somehow going to end up raping a girl as well.

I'm so glad to see that they're completely ignoring her, hopefully they'll be able to get out of that household fast before she starts getting really controlling and abusive. This is why it's so important to publicly counter the feminist propaganda, if it weren't for contradicting viewpoints and evidence spreading across the internet these boys would have ended up growing up as another bunch of self-hating idiot male feminists but they've clearly done their research and realised their mother is both stupid and crazy.

They don’t call each other out when they make sexist jokes or objectify women. It’s too uncomfortable to separate themselves from the pack so they continue to at least dip their toes into toxic masculinity.

Yeah, they don't call each other out because they don't try to make people uncomfortable and attack others over stuff which is obviously a joke and not actually fucking serious you deranged woman, no, jokes you find 'offensive' don't mean they're going to go around and treat women like shit. I bet having to spend family gatherings with her must be hell, feminists are the left wing version of the christian right who everybody bitched about for several years having to put up with whenever they sat at the table and now the situation has simply flipped on itself.

I am sick to death of people who think just because they're 'offended' by something it automatically gives them the right to go around acting like violent and deranged cunts, well guess what? I'm fucking offended by the total lack of respect for free speech and expression in this world and I've had enough.

mjsansai · 2016-09-17T04:44:42+00:00

She forgot to put the aluminum hats on her boys when the reach puberty. Aluminum hats protect boys from the Patriarchy, she never learned this lesson.

410LaxMD · 2016-09-17T11:17:19+00:00

Poor kids. You can tell she's misquoting and misrepresenting them throughout the article. Mama is a scumbag.

2016-09-17T12:01:40+00:00

And in this broken system, anyone who isn’t with us is against us. Particularly, and especially, men. Even my own sons — even yours. It’s not enough to teach our sons about consent; we have to encourage them to have the courage to speak out against rape culture, too.

WTF. Is this a troll, or someone who's so desperate for attention that she's purposely trying to spark outrage? What kind of person tries to tell people that their own children are the enemy? And who actually straight up says the "with us or against us" line - I mean, I know that's the attitude of many feminists, but to actually come out and admit it?

This woman has an awful relationship with her kids. If this story is true, I hope those kids get out of there. That's not a healthy environment.

2016-09-17T09:23:27+00:00

I would get emancipation. This mother is idiotic and is using her skew point of view when raising her children.

Lethn · 2016-09-17T11:20:34+00:00

Jesus Christ. I remember in the 80s there was a cultural thing of films and books by writers who'd been brought up as strict Catholics and were using their fiction to work through the problems they had as a result of being indoctrinated with the idea that they were indelibly tainted to the core by original sin.

I look forward in 10 or 15 years time to similar books and films by the children of feminist mothers (and fathers).

CaptainTeaBag24I7 · 2016-09-17T11:24:09+00:00

I mean, I agree with her on the consent before sex part (saying something like "are you sure" before engaging), but the fact that her sons don't scold their freind for having sex with his gf is not even any of her business.

2016-09-17T13:25:16+00:00

Did she have enthusiastic consent from her sons about talking of them in such a prominent article?

This is Boy-shaming on her own sons!

5th_Law_of_Robotics · 2016-09-17T13:35:19+00:00

Why do lots of women CLEARY want a gender war?

Madlutian · 2016-09-17T15:44:28+00:00

But they have never been sexually abused

They sure as hell have been psychologically abused.

mwobuddy · 2016-09-17T10:14:22+00:00

If it helps, the author is a known fantasist (a reporter who makes up stories, sources, etc. in order to weave an entertaining or outrageous yarn). She has written several articles under that name, indicating that she hates her children for a variety of reasons, from her son's rape apologia to her daughter's autism. She claims to have seven kids, each of them with severe genetic or moral faults, and whom almost certainly don't exist.

CyFus · 2016-09-17T09:42:16+00:00

I'm surprised she didn't abort them in the first place

onetimeuser111 · 2016-09-17T13:08:25+00:00

If this continues, this is what CPS is for.

2016-09-17T15:36:37+00:00

My sons contribute to rape culture cause they don't believe all men are potential rapist. She basically hates men so much she hates her own sons. Plus she's from Seattle.

mooshudork · 2016-09-17T10:09:43+00:00

I couldn't live with two 'feminist' mothers... sounds like he already woken up and is based, good for him.

enriceau · 2016-09-17T11:36:12+00:00

Somebody should call child protective Services.

acelister · 2016-09-17T12:01:41+00:00

How does she know they've never been a used?

onetimeuser111 · 2016-09-17T14:46:46+00:00

[permanently deleted]

a1eksanderr · 2016-09-17T15:08:12+00:00

If you cannot comprehend/accept why someone could disagree with you, then you're not in a movement, you are in a cult.

bertreapot · 2016-09-17T15:14:43+00:00

Really, your sons don't subscribe to an ideology that presumes they are proto-rapists in waiting? Perhaps good, innocent people don't like being called criminals just because of their sex.

Their friend who encouraged his girlfriend to have sex isn't a rapist, either. Your peers can encourage you to do things that you regret, that doesn't mean they forced you to do it, or that you aren't responsible for your own actions.

Lunatcharsky · 2016-09-17T15:31:38+00:00

And in this broken system, anyone who isn’t with us is against us. Particularly, and especially, men.

Aight, fuck you.

Sks44 · 2016-09-17T16:16:34+00:00

The more she wrote, the more she destroyed her own position. It wasn't that they disregard rape or victims, it was that she didn't consider them "allies" to her cause. Because they don't agree with her 100%.

ProfessorFog · 2016-09-17T09:17:58+00:00

Can someone explain to me what rape culture is? Not the Oxford definition please.

SaigaFan · 2016-09-17T12:32:46+00:00

From the comments.

Such a brave article...Some other articles Jody has written in his series include:

"I have to learn to care for my suicidal teen"

"My kids need trigger warnings"

"My daughter is a gift, her autism is not"

"I took my kids to the Ferguson protest"

"My adopted sister tried to kill me (repeatedly)"

"I'm a single mom of 7 and couldn't be happier"

"My DNA is keeping me hostage"

"I'm a rape survivor with a rape apologist son"

"My teenager is drinking and using drugs" All must reads from this wonderful mother of 7 healthy normal children.

Archibald_Andino · 2016-09-17T13:16:10+00:00

I'm surprised her boys would act like this. Teenagers love talking to their mothers about consent and rape, right?

kaluh_glarski · 2016-09-17T13:51:19+00:00

I giggled

thomasjeffersonlives · 2016-09-17T15:28:08+00:00

Being raised by a feminist as a male. Terrible.

elebrin · 2016-09-17T15:57:20+00:00

Maybe when they turn 18 and disappear, Mom will wonder what happened to her boys, and why they never call or visit.

My grandmother is that way. She isn't superfeminist or anything, she just argues and complains to anything that comes close enough. None of my aunts, uncles, or cousins has had contact with her in 20 years or more. When you treat people like shit, they walk away and never come back.

mLii · 2016-09-17T11:12:47+00:00

comedy gold

nuesuh · 2016-09-17T12:13:36+00:00

poor boys :(

2016-09-17T12:56:27+00:00

This article is Hugh Mungusly shit.

2016-09-17T14:11:17+00:00

TIL

We're apparently all rapists in waiting.....

Killionaire370z · 2016-09-17T14:12:20+00:00

"If men would learn what consent was" She needs to be tied to a tree in the middle of nowhere and left out there for days to scare her shitless. That wouldnt change anything or do any good but it might make me smile a little

Jaersh253 · 2016-09-17T14:13:31+00:00

This is ridiculous, why is she putting not only herself on blast but shaming her own sons with this crap. There are other ways to be heard without going completely anal. It's a one sided story, and women are always the victims right. I call bullshit!

zenguyva · 2016-09-17T14:50:19+00:00

Guess Mom has issues. She's alienated her sons because she won't listen. Teenagers, like all sentient beings, like to be treated with respect and heard. I'm sure you'd see similar approaches to debate at KKK meeting. Intolerance isn't the property of any point of view.

Mythandros · 2016-09-17T14:53:05+00:00

I feel very sorry for these boys, seeing as how much poison their mother is trying to force into their heads. It's a good thing these boys are WAY smarter than their mother. She is a feminist after all, so even toddlers could mentally trounce her. What a horrible, horrible excuse for a woman.

2016-09-17T15:22:59+00:00

Respect to this woman's sons for not growing up to be a pair of pussyholes.

SRSLovesGawker · 2016-09-17T15:59:41+00:00

No matter how often my sons remind me that they are good men, they don’t understand that being “good” is an action.

No, being good is a state of existance.

DOING good is an action.

ChrisHansenBait · 2016-09-17T16:19:21+00:00

I’m a survivor of rape and sexual abuse. My sons know this like they know I was once a reporter and I love curries and coffee.

You know that saying, "dont talk to me til ive had my coffee." for her the saying is, "dont talk to me til ive had my coffee AND retold the story of my sexual assault and gauged your reaction to my story. If I find your reaction is not sufficient then, you have to listen to why youre part of the problem and how you are contributing to the rape culture we live in".

chuck258 · 2016-09-17T17:31:52+00:00

"My teenage sons are blind to rape culture"

No,they're not, you've evidently been cramming it down their throat for several years, they're just tired of fucking hearing about it. The more you cram it down their throat, the more you sound like you are accusing them of doing something abhorrent.

Nothing wrong with teaching your kids that forcing themselves on women can be wrong, but constantly berating them about it isn't going to make them any less likely to do it (rape)

Regiskyubey · 2016-09-17T15:50:20+00:00

Green text it!

pokemon_fetish · 2016-09-17T18:50:58+00:00

My sons are good boys, just like thousands of other good boys in America.

Wow, she sounds like a defense attorney.

iwanttheblanketback · 2016-09-17T21:37:52+00:00

That's funny, I just read an article about slut shaming to be primarily a tool used by women themselves.

AlphaTitan8 · 2016-09-17T22:33:44+00:00

Can someone explain why people think there is rape culture?

existentialhack · 2016-09-17T23:36:12+00:00

"My sons are part of the problem."

Cunt.

Revorob · 2016-09-17T23:45:42+00:00

Credit to the two sons who despite having a nutbar feminazi for a mom, still managed to turn out well-adjusted. I have seen no end of examples of women like this completely fucking-up their children. Seriously, feminism needs to be regarded as a mental illness and feminists need to be banned from having children.

baserace · 2016-09-18T03:12:47+00:00

I’m a survivor of rape and sexual abuse.

"I'm projecting the loathing from my own bad experiences onto my sons, the penis-enabled bastards that they are."

Spread this article far and wide to your feminist friends with young sons as a warning of how this shit turns out if you treat your sons and view men as cunts by nature. They aren't going to like you. They are going to call you out on your bullshit. You're going to drive a wedge between you and them, and between them and women.

AlexReynard · 2016-09-18T03:36:36+00:00

I happen to have been the victim of many long years of child abuse. It is enough for me to simply heal from that trauma and move on. I do not need to invent a false nightmare reality where everyone hates child abuse victims, in order to perpetuate my victim status in my own mind so I can beg for sympathy forever.

GingerJack76 · 2016-09-18T03:52:03+00:00

But they have never been sexually abused, and they can’t fathom what it’s like to stand in a scalding hot shower trying to burn away the touch of a stranger’s hands...But they aren’t willing to sacrifice their own comfort for my sake, or for anyone else.

Co-Dependence much? Not to mention I've been raped and I didn't try to burn off my skin. Holy Christ...

Not all men, they remind me, and my guts wrench as my own sons mimic the vitriol of a thousand online trolls...My sons are good boys, just like thousands of other good boys in America. They understand consent and they won’t rape an unconscious woman behind a dumpster.

Kinda saying they are rapists...

And in this broken system, anyone who isn’t with us is against us. Particularly, and especially, men. Even my own sons — even yours.

Man she is frighting. She needs help, and those boys need to go to someone who's sane. Fuck...I need a drink.

baserace · 2016-09-18T03:56:43+00:00

Lots of gold in the comments section.

You know it's a hate movement when parents begin to throw their own children to the mob.

Ooft.

You just publically shamed your sons, in a newspaper with an international circulation, for showing insufficient ideological conformity and for not being fervent enough ideologues in their private relationships. And you think they are part of the problem.

Anyone able to fully screenshot the comments section before it's inevitably nuked either now or in the future?

onetimeuser111 · 2016-09-18T08:08:16+00:00

I just googled authors name and a "Ripoff Report" popped up about her past history of animal neglect and past reports to child protective services. I am sure it is same person as name, pic, city and "mother of 7 kids" was used to ID her. I would post link , but not sure if it is allowed, but google her name plus the words: "rippoff report".

So she may have a history of child neglect.

I am not trying to publicly shame her, but she is the one who has put herself out to the public. Many of us here have speculated that she may be unfit to parent with mental issues, and this is possibly more proof.

onetimeuser111 · 2016-09-17T07:40:00+00:00

The author of this article is on Facebook and she posted her article and it is open for comments. she is encouraging discussion as a writer/blogger. I would put a link, but i am not sure if it is allowed, but just go to facebook and type in her name and you can give her your opinion.

2016-09-17T14:45:27+00:00

[permanently deleted]

2016-09-17T16:16:43+00:00

Why is it always a fat ugly woman whining about this crap?

2016-09-17T19:58:47+00:00

As soon as I mentioned the Stanford sexual assault case, my sons looked at each other. They knew what was coming. They’ve been listening to me talk about consent, misogyny and rape culture since they were tweens.

Future MRAs for sure. They are probably already here.

He didn’t remind him that lack of enthusiastic consent means there is no consent.

Said everywhere except in the law.

My sons are part of the problem. I’m a survivor of rape and sexual abuse. My sons know this like they know I was once a reporter and I love curries and coffee.

Holy crap. No, this cunt is the problem. Although I'm about 99% sure she is making this shit up now.

And in this broken system, anyone who isn’t with us is against us.

And proud of it!

Cheveyo · 2016-09-17T04:57:56+00:00

[permanently deleted]

R-M-Pitt · 2016-09-17T13:31:28+00:00

To be fair, if the boys' friend needed to persuade and pester his girlfriend to have sex, she probably just agreed so he would shut up and didn't actually want to have sex.

Comments