I read TRP not because I agree with any more than at most maybe a third of their philosophy, but rather because there's literally no where else to go to find discussion about this sort of strangeness:

http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2015/07/grilling_feminism_and_masculinity_a_grand_unified_theory.html

Link is to a BP man who is ashamed that he likes to grill. We can be assured that he was not born ashamed to grill. His shame was nurtured by his contact with feminists - he says so specifically. The second sentence is a good summary:

"I’m uncomfortable with the pleasure I take in something so conventionally masculine."

This sort of thing crops up all over the place. The link is just one example.

So question for the feminists .. why is masculinity bad? What's wrong about him enjoying his masculinity? To borrow terminology from another sub, "explain like I'm five." Thanks.