I've been reading into TRP stuff, and while I agree with a lot of the premises, I just can't seem to bridge the gap between hypergamy and shittests and "mommy doesn't love you" kind of claims.

I'm aware that women love opportunistically. I just think all humans love opportunistically.

You see, the reason we love in the first place is that we have an innate need for companionship. Humans become dysfunctional if they don't communicate and form relationships (not necessarily sexual). On the first level, we love because of that, because we need it to stay stable and are naturally pushed toward it.

Then comes what the specific person we love is providing for us. Generally speaking, if you don't enter retarded relationships, every partner will love you one way or the other. But that isn't enough. Do they understand you? Do you understand them? Are they able to provide emotional comfort to you? To satisfy you sexually? To motivate you? To help make your time together fun? Generally, you're striving for a partner who is. And if they're no longer able to, without the possibility of them being able to do it in the foreseeable future, you leave them. No matter the gender. If you're not enjoying yourself, if you're suffering and there doesn't seem to be an end to it, you don't generally stick around. Oh and btw, leaving somebody doesn't necessarily mean you don't love them anymore. There's just no practical purpose in staying with them anymore.

You might be wondering why am I leaving material goods out of the question, but the thing is, they're very much a part of what makes someone able to provide for you in other ways. If someone is struggling to make ends meet, if they couldn't survive without your help, that generally makes them stressed, insecure about their position toward you, lowers you to their lifestyle, which might prevent you from expressing and pursuing your usual interests. Not only that, but they also aren't able to leave you when they're dissatisfied with the relationship, so you don't know if/when you're being used. Basically, it comes down to class differences. People with similar income are going to have most in common, deal with similar life problems, have similar friends, go out to similar places etc. and are thus going to make better partners. Anyway, feel free to address this paragraph, but the essence of what I'm asking is really in the upper two - don't all humans love like described above?

If you think men do love unconditionally, please try to explain me what that unconditional love is in practice and how is it different.