I spent like $60 on Tinder "Super Liking" women today.
There were just so women adorable Asian women who were not only pretty faces and stunning bodies but also successful professionals with fascinating careers...I'm talking fascinating careers. People you would want to meet, have a glass of wine with, and date. So much more than merely young/hot but also interesting/successful/fascinating, classy, well-traveled, intellectual, cultured, and wealthy. The way they smile in their pics just pulls you in and it's so powerful in a way that pics of some brooding model online never can (however gorgeous she might be). You can just feel the personality/character radiate from these images, and combined with their stunning good looks and incredible careers/hobbies/education/wealth it makes you want to meet them so badly even if it doesn't really go anywhere...just to talk to them and get to know them...
A couple of them even talked to me for a while; we'll see if the conversation continues later or not.
The ones I "Super Liked" were all mind-blowingly attractive young professional Asian women. They are all killing it in their professions and (unless the pics are fake/doctored) they are stunning/cute/hot as hell.
It's just a dopamine-fueled addiction to swipe through Tinder. They must make so much money off men Super Liking women. I rarely get Likes from women unless I Super Like them. Sometimes they match me within seconds when I Super Like them; it's the only way to get matches with the awesome women pretty much.
Never before in human history has there been a dopaminergic experience like this. All of these potential mates just a swipe away. It's not like looking at porn or something; these are real women with real personalities and real careers and you can actually talk to them and potentially meet up with them.
It's a hell of a phenomenon to experience.
I Super Liked this woman who has a PhD in neuropsychology. Do you know how fascinating it would be for me to talk to her, given my interest in the topic and my interest in ADHD and disorders and stuff? Plus she was hot. There are all these self-described "nerdy" women on there with beautiful faces/bodies/smiles...with pictures in their university-graduation gowns...that intelligence triggers my imagination. These are not nasty sluts; these are genuinely attractive women with class.
It also makes you reflect on fate a lot, because it is literally true that one swipe could open a door to a woman who changes your life forever. It's technically true, as cheesy as it sounds. And if you accidentally swipe left then you are closing the door on an entire hypothetical life that you might've had with that woman. These little swipes are determining your fate.
It's also an extremely painful experience for men because it shows you the truth about your SMV. At least I think it does.
These are my questions:
1: What do you think about Tinder overall and why?
2: What do you think Tinder is more most women? Is it just a validation mechanism and they have no actual interest in meeting anyone or maybe even talking to anyone ("Let's see how many Super Likes I can get to show my friends!")? Are they looking to fuck? Are they looking for mates?
3: What can a man actually learn about his SMV from Tinder?
4: Are there actually super hot/rich/high-SMV men on Tinder who are actually matching with all these women, talking to them, and fucking/dating them?
5: What kind of men do well with these high-quality women on Tinder? Why do they do so well? And how do they do so well; what kind of Tinder "game" do they run?
Edit: I want to clarify something. I swipe left on 99% of women. I live in downtown Toronto, and there are all these smoking hot women from all over the fucking world, and what I'm trying to say is that if you spend a few hours on the app you can find some gems. I agree that 99% of the women on there are trash; some are actually smoking hot, well-educated, classy women with incredible experiences and instagrams filled with awesome travel photos and PhDs...a lot of them are current U of T students...they are interesting, wealthy, hot, genuinely fucking awesome women. I don't swipe right on gross sluts.
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