I see people (mostly guys) whining about how women get everything they want in the dating game, and men have it so unfair.

But... women outnumber men. And women tend to want 1-on-1 commitment. If they think you are a player, they just pass you by.

How is that unfair? How are males denied anything? Sure, some guys pull it off. There are Chads. In fact, Chad is probably getting a hummer right now form some girl you'd break your hands for. And tonight, he'll be backdoor a different chick.

So what? Change your game plan--become a little bit interesting, and offer the women a nice personality and a relationship.

Guess what, you'll get more hummers than Chad. Yes, it will only be with one woman (the HORROR!).

When it comes to casual sex, it is a sellers market and the demand is about 1,000 times the supply. But relationship sex?

It is a market where a man who is offering a good relationship gets to be picky. Now HE is supplying what is rare, and very much in demand by the women. Women might wish they had a Chad, but Chad already did them once, so he stopped calling. That means the women wake up and realize that they need to focus on what is achievable. And there you are, not even trying for sex on a first date. Nah, you save yourself for women you are in a relationship with.

It will be fewer sex partners than you might prefer, but the woman you wind up with will actually be afraid of losing you.

I mean, aside from the asking out (which I loathe--and not out of needing to "feel more secure"--I swear to fucking God anyone who tells me I need to simply build up more internal fortitude so I can ask women out I am going to come over and seduce their mother and do her on the kitchen table in FRONT of them!) I think dating is actually weighted in favor of the guys. Women have to stay pretty. Women worry about their weight. Women tend to worry about relationship shit that MEN don't even know exists!

I just don't see HOW it is unfair against men.

Oh sure,in the casual sex game women have it made.

But dating? I think we kinda get to coast through most of it.

Thoughts?

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EDIT: I forgot my main thesis!

As long as women WANT LTR, and most guys WANT CASUAL SEX, just switch your game plan--if you offer decent LTR, most women will chase you.

The more men who want casual sex, the rarer you, the LTR guy, is. Your value goes UP!

In fact, if I was you, I'd encourage ALL men to stand up and show they have a pair and only follow the Red Pill Rules!

...While I am out buying flowers for my SO on Sweetest Day.

Edit #2: Ladies, a gift for you. The next time a guy blames YOU for auto-rejecting him if he doesn't spend phat lewt on you, have the data from these reports ready:

https://www.cnbc.com/2019/11/20/study-men-get-more-stressed-when-their-wives-make-more-money.html

https://www.fatherly.com/love-money/when-wives-earn-more-money-than-husbands/

https://www.marketwatch.com/story/can-american-men-ever-be-happy-if-their-wives-earn-more-than-they-do-2019-04-29

Turns out the three BIGGEST problems in marriages where the women earn more are:

  1. Men can't handle it
  2. Men still think housework is YOUR job (even if they are unemployed!)
  3. Men who make less are FIVE TIMES as likely to commit adultery.