I've never really bent the knee for anything or anyone. Not because I'm some sort of fighter or anything, but the other party overestimates my willingness to fight or put up with things. I only exert myself for things that are truly meaningful and profitable. Like my career, things that bring me a sense of pride, or my passions. I could never be a beggar or desperate chooser.

So, why on earth do men simp? I just don't get it. Nothing is worth self compromise. Nothing. When you simp, you become a sell out, you lose virtue, and you are easily manipulated and controlled.

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Easy to digest times when women expected me to simp:

  1. I (24m at the time) asked out of a date with a gorgeous socialite (34f). She was beautiful, smart, and self made successful. Very charismatic and charming. I had fun, but I knew it wasn't going to work, but even I wanted her, my deal breaker were her not wanting kids--outside of that, she was awesome. But the romance of the night was killed when she not so implicitly said she can get any man she wanted. And I'm sure I'm not the only young guy she's taken out like that. I played it cool, but that was s major turn off--there was not recovering any warm feelings I did have. Did she expect me to simp? She wanted me to kiss her at the end of the date--I just couldn't bring myself to do it. To make myself some kind of toy for her entertainment? No thanks. I deleted her #.
  2. Earlier this year, I went on a couple dates with this older blondie, we were both looking for something casual. She bragged about getting any guy she wanted and how she has men all over her. I only wanted to smash, but the fact that men have had her without a date while this was date number 2 was a major turn off. And tbh, outside of being a wokist, she was a cool girl. But what did she expect me to do with that information? She initiated a kiss at the end of the night and grabbed my junk at the end of the night. Never before have I kissed a chic and had my junk grabbed, yet at the same time feel repulsed.
  3. A few years back, I woke up after a night with my FWB. I saw, outside her window, I got a parking ticket. She made a joke about the cop "I bet he doesn't get laid". I laughed, but that really rubbed me the wrong way, as if a man not getting laid makes him less than and how it takes a woman to make a man. As if she did me a favor or made me more valuable or something. I didn't respond to her texts after that, she was getting too attached anyway, wanted to get to know me on a level I didn't. She deleted me from IG a few weeks later after she found out I was right wing af and I woke fished the hell out of her.
  4. Recently, I downloaded a dating app. I matched with an older chick. She had 3 kids, and within hours, our convo was steamy. She said "you might get lucky". Early AM, just after midnight, she invites me over for coffee. No interest after "you might get lucky" comment.

Just a few examples, but even outside of my anecdotal experiences, it seems that simps have made women believe they have some inherent power over men they don't have. No self respecting man would allow a woman to run the table on them like that. You'd have to be desperate. It is no wonder these women struggle in LTRs. Btw, the women either paid for me (1) or we paid for our own stuff (2 and 3).

Simps have conditioned women into believing all men are enslaved to their sexual desires. Could never be me. Even on this sub, these women are so used to simps, they think they can have it their way. Meeting a guy with options or a guy with principle, or both is a wake up call to them.

The sooner the simping stops, the sooner they become real men.

They want to be made to feel special. The simp obliges. Meanwhile, the simp is treated like some expendable heap of flesh. Your self esteem has to be in the gutter for you to put up with that.