70% of American women are overweight or obese. This effects massively on the dating market as the vast majority of men are 'wired' to find slim, healthy weight women the most desirable. I honestly think that 80% of men are competing for 30% of the women (i'll discount around 20% of men who are chubby chasers etc). I've witnessed with my own eyes just how much value being slim vs. being fat is if your a women. I worked at a place once that had fat woman after fat woman come in to work temporary shifts. The men didn't pay much attention to them. When a slim (young or young-ish) woman got temp work, well, the men are onto them like hawks. Its actually quite funny; kind of like how people are around a kitten compared to a toad is the only way I can describe this analogy.

When all the female staff where fat, guys at lunchtime would congregate with other men, paying no attention to the fat girls. The fat chicks would be sat alone in the staff canteen. When a slim girl gets work, suddenly guys are eager to sit with and chat to her during lunch hour. She's turning heads when she gets up to get a coffee a refill as she's the only slim woman in this joint.

These healthy weight women weren't bombshell HB9's, 8's or 7's, some were worse for wear facially, but what I see is guys are so thirsty now to bed a slim woman that all the power is with women who look after their figure. (don't get me wrong.. other things matter to men but sex and physical attraction is right at the top). We see average slim women demand Chads/Chadlites and rich guys... and they can get them.

So average looking men are turning their noses at below average looking fat women while average looking women who are their actual looksmatches are chasing Chads and not interested in average men, because hypergamy allows them too.

As a non-Chad myself, with a low-ish income, is it best just get out of this country? My biggest fear is being a with a fat woman. I look after my weight, but I'm still invisible to average healthy weight women.