Where the quality bitches at?

prodigy2throw · 2017-03-20T01:31:42+00:00

You guys really wanna find a proper girl? Go to whole foods at 10 AM on a Saturday. The women out doing groceries in the morning weren't out getting shitfaced the night before.

paceyboy · 2017-03-20T03:30:30+00:00

You must realize the power of AWALT and high SMV. This shit is chess, not checkers. From a saved thread a year back I was touching up on last night, I bring you this analogy.

Women are like dogs chasing cars. They wouldn't know what to do if they caught one. You could park the car right next to them, toss them the keys and say here ya go, this is all yours. They would just piss on it and trot off. That's why the chase is so important and why you must practice dread game to create tension and arousal. They want high SMV to chase and you must bring them into your frame.

Sdom1 · 2017-03-20T00:32:23+00:00

This is bullshit. Not because these women don't exist -- because they sure as hell do -- but because you claim these girls are the norm. They're not. Not many chicks have been in a creampie gangbang. That's very deviant behavior, 2 sigma shit at least, and probably closer to 3. Even the other things you've mentioned aren't the norm.

Most people are normal and boring because human traits tend to distribute in a roughly gaussian manner. You don't see many seven footers walking around, right? Bet you see a lot of guys who are 5'10 though. Same for whorishness, it's roughly gaussian.

Most girls aren't getting dicked down by 30 different guys, or sucking 50 dicks or anything like that. Here's the thing though - THEY'RE BORING. They aren't that exciting, free-spirited girl who fucked your brains out the first night you met her. When you start gaming girls, the ones you get anywhere with are more likely to be slutty by definition. It's kinda like how you can't buy homeowner's insurance when your house is already on fire - adverse selection. Or perverse, in this case?

That's not to say that you can find a girl that's 100% guaranteed not to cheat on you, but you can sure as hell improve your odds. Here's a pro tip - look for a girl who is a homebody and who's a bit introverted. She's not going to be the girl who wants to go out and drink all the time, and you won't be going out with your boys as much, but the chances of her cheating on you drop quite a bit. I believe psychologists call this openness to experiences or something like that. Well, the more of that she has the more likely she's open to new dick.

TheLaughingRhino · 2017-03-20T11:38:33+00:00

A girl I grew up with said to me once, randomly, about other people and other situations

"If you want to be happy, never marry a pretty girl"

Don't get me wrong, I subscribe to Matty Anon's mantra, which is basically to never marry at all under any circumstance.

I think though, to be honest, if you marry a girl who is not attractive enough to garner interest from other men, that might be less trouble in the long run if you decide you absolutely want to marry and have kids. Average height to weight proportionate body but maybe not a great face is probably the compromise there.

Most of the women I've been around who are lurking to cheat are women who have idle hands.

A woman is less likely to cheat on you if she doesn't have suitors and if she's too busy to find time to cheat, in which case your biggest threat will be her fellow coworkers.

It's much easier to get into the scenario where your SMV is higher than hers and she can more easily come to terms that you are the best she's likely to get.

My first year in college, I ended up in class with a girl I ended up knowing a long time. Was not attracted to her, did not date her, never slept with her, etc. We talked a little before and after class, I studied with her a few times. Her dad died when she was very young. I helped her move a few times ( no brothers, no dad, etc) I helped fix a few things around her house that clearly she and her mother could not do. Sometimes over a period of years, I'd give her a ride to the airport or something like that. I was always supportive, always decent, always listened. A few times I took her out on her birthday.

To me, we were friends. Sometimes she'd cook for me, bring me a cake or pie on a holiday. One day, she revealed her feelings for me. I knew she had them but was nothing we ever discussed. I told her I was not interested. Two weeks later she called me, to tell me she found someone, and was in a happy relationship, and that she could not "hang out" with my anymore because of it, even though we only talked or hung out maybe every 6 months over a long period of years. I wished her well, but understood, all of it, helping her move, driving her to the airport, fixing her water heater, etc, all meant nothing. I did those things because I wanted to do them, no covert contract, I was sympathetic to that there was no one to help her and her mom from a male perspective.

It was all basically a lashing out at me. I didn't give her what she wanted. I was no longer useful to her. So I was disposable.

She was not attractive in a general sense, she had pretty much no male interest. Someone told me once, who saw me with her, when I was single, why not marry her dude, she'll be good to you, she won't hassle you much. I didn't explain it to him. But even then I understood.

You'll have less hassle marrying an ugly girl than a pretty one. But you won't even avoid hassle period. Because every negative experience the ugly girl has or perceives, will be taken out on you for simply being there. You are the proxy for all of that latent rage. Doesn't have to be logical, it's just how she feels in the time and place.

AWALT

Most women are just shitty at understanding basic marketing in the SMV/RMV marketplace.

I knew a guy in college who came from a money family. He went to a nice private college and met a girl working at his university. She did not have US citizenship. He married her, she got citizenship. When he first dated her, she cooked and cleaned and baked and all that. As soon as the ring went on, she got heavy, started complaining non stop, wanted to have a baby as soon as possible to stop working, and pressured him to set up something nice for her parents who were not financially stable.

A girl who is not attractive and gets no interest is no more rational than a pretty girl who gets a ton of interest.

A lot of guys here don't quite understand or agree with the MGTOW angle, but I do. Some guys simply cannot get over their irritation with the base female behavior. Some guys can't do it. Like some guys cannot contain their own anger in life.

What do you call a person who steals a million dollars? A thief. What do you call a person who steals 1 dollar? A thief.

1000 cocks in her. 10 cocks in her. Zero cocks in her. No bearing on her being an emotional terrorist. And they are all emotional terrorists. The ugly ones are just ones who post leaflets on a wall, and not wipe out an entire city block at once. The methodology is the same.

[deleted] · 2017-03-20T02:33:19+00:00

You don't find them. If you do then you better play the lottery because it's fucking rare.

I have a girl right now (23) who's well off. Cuban jew, good family, graduate student and into all the shit I'm into. I thought she was a unicorn but it turns out she's sucked more dick than the 35 year old I'm seeing. Debating whether or not I'm going to cut ties but she's a fucking expert so I don't think I can do it yet.

2weird2care · 2017-03-20T05:25:46+00:00

This idea that there's a mythical woman out there who is a "classy girl" among a sea of whores is a very romantic (re: stupid) notion which has no real place here. The rest of Reddit exists for that.

TRP exists to dispel this notion and replace it with hard fact. TRP is a catalog of the behaviors, experiences, and idiosyncrasies which expose the aforementioned notion as a grand deception. I don't know why we're seeing this blue pill ideology upheld, as you say. That old world marriage, and its byproduct -- a market for chaste and loyal women -- is gone, and in its stead are Amy Schumers and Meghan Trainors looking to make their "next mistake" before or after getting married to a NuMale? That's lamentable. To suggest that those chaste and loyal women still exist in this age of rampant hedonism, promiscuity, and patient zeros is irresponsible bordering on idiotic.

Bitchezbecrayy · 2017-03-19T22:09:16+00:00

I'd be fascinated to see how this all plays out in the near future. I mean, we're already at below replacement birth levels at many countries in Europe.

Guys, women are hoein' out so hard, even betas are starting to give up on marriage and kids. Compounding this misery is the fact that the muslims are invading in hordes and these r-selected fuckers breed like rabbits. Shits gonna go down, fellas. Major shit's gonna go down!

JSizzl3 · 2017-03-20T00:46:28+00:00

The so-called "quality women" you seek are very much aware of The Game, and have at this point taken advantage of it to secure their optimal Alphas; in other words, all the "quality women" have been "snatched up" before you (we) could get to them, and all that's left are whatever's left. You said it yourself u/awalt_cupcake, you plated her. As her n-count grew before your eyes you should have realized that she simultaneously plated you as part of her journey to find her optimal Alpha.

A unicorn is a mythical beast with no physical evidence of ever having existed on this planet. If you actually find one, you should check for tape or glue.

[deleted] · 2017-03-20T09:00:55+00:00

I could write pages on this, I agree with the general theme of your post. You can find a good girl, but she has either been railed by Chad, or she wants to be railed by Chad at some time in her future. Even if you are her Chad, she will still have beta orbiters available to her, and she will still want to lock down a BB if she wants to. Really Rollo has this story well and truly covered in his blog.

If you want a good girl, then get an ugly girl. I mean a nerdy looking, flat chested girl who goes to church. Or the fat girl in class noone is nice too. Otherwise you just have to accept the world for what it is. If you get a good girl, you may keep her for a while if you are alpha bucks, maybe even for a long time, but it will end in tears. Men are fuck boys and women are whores, welcome to the final awful revelation of the red pill. Just when you thought you had swallowed it all.

I know a bunch of older, rich, high status guys. They have been with hundreds of women. Guess what they all have in common when they get over 60? They only date bar girls from the Phillipines or Thailand. They all say "I do not date white trash, those bitches are only for fucking". That will come as shocking to many but as you get over a certain age they are all whores, at least the Phillipino and Thai girls are honest about it.

[deleted] · 2017-03-20T10:31:05+00:00

I can answer your question about where to find quality bitches by restating what should be obvious to an unplugged man who is past the anger stage.

Quality women dont exisit. When you see a quality woman, what you actually see, is a woman who is being led by a strong man.

Dont look for that which does not exist.

Instead, look for women who have potential to be molded into quality.

Submissive, from households with strong fathers, youth etc

You dont go to breeders and buy fully trained puppies do you?

Arranged marriages, dowries, and this sort of thing existed across many cultures for thousands of years.The patriarchy was effective and now is rewritten in history as a hate crime.

Yet, the history books are devoid of tales of purple haired fatties and crazy cat ladies

IllimitableMan · 2017-03-20T14:36:23+00:00

Studious quiet girl from class? She liked being tied up and fucked.

I don't see anything wrong with this to be honest. Gahahaha. She wants to be dominated in the bedroom? That's feminine as fuck. As long as she's YOUR slut rather than everyone's, who cares.

JFMX1996 · 2017-03-20T00:32:37+00:00

I've met some in those extremely hard-line non-denominational churches.

Girls are submissive, wear veils, respect men, don't wear makeup and wear their hair long and surprisingly look more attractive.

They share the belief the body is a temple for the holy spirit, and that it is only a shell being borrowed so one must take care of it and in turn workout and eat pretty healthy and get good physiques.

These are rare and a lot of guys get straight shot the hell down (though with kindness).

You have a point about most church girls though. Modern churches just tell people what they want to hear and have this "Don't judge!" attitude, though you are supposed to judge righteously.

If you're into that, check out Dalrock from the sidebar, he writes pretty well on the subject of churchianity.

It's a hard truth to swallow but I feel my brothers can be saved from wanting to jump off a cliff if they don't buy into these delusions that church girls are some kinds of unicorns.

GunsGermsAndSteel · 2017-03-20T03:28:37+00:00

While there's no such thing as a perfect 10 on any level, there are women who are on the low end of the "AWALT" spectrum.

Finding them requires a specially tuned radar: is she asking a million questions about your resources? Is she unwilling to leave her phone in the same room with you? Are most of her friends male? Does she smoke cigarettes or drink? If yes to any of these, be aware that she may be of low quality.

nicetimeisback · 2017-03-20T00:47:33+00:00

That's what i say too, "high quality women" are a bluepill fantasy, disney style.

women are women, it was needed millions of years of evolutions to let them become the whore they now are, and it's a great thing (evolutionary speaking).

whoring assure high probability of impregnation, thus the continuation of the human specie.

the problem is, now with birth control methods, impregnation is kept in check. On a fundamental level, the evolution/subconscious want impregnation, but society (birth control) block it, evolution try to balance this thing by putting whoreness at full throttle, so here we have a world full of whores that have an average of 1thousand dicks visit their vagina during their lifetime.

Imo the real cure for today whoreness would be ban every sort of birth control method (no condom, no abortion, no other methods of birth control).

DaBaulz · 2017-03-19T22:27:28+00:00

What's wrong with a girl who likes to be tied up? Also with a girl who gives BJ's. I understand that you want a low f number, but did we all turn into Mormons too?

Is your concern that they won't be faithful or that they have history? As you get older it will be hard to find someone who has no history. I imagine you will have one too. This is something you will have to get over.

blackedoutfast · 2017-03-20T00:02:16+00:00

there are quality women out there. very attractive, virgin or low n-count, fun (but not slutty), stable traditional family, etc.

they aren't all found in one place. there's not a secret bar where all the virgin unicorns hang out. no matter where you are the good girls are evenly distributed among all the crazy party sluts. there are CC-riders sitting in church every single sunday and sweet little virgins who like to go out and dance in clubs every weekend.

but one thing is absolutely true and universal: if you're not a top tier, high quality man, then you shouldn't feel entitled to these high-quality girls. insecure guys, guys still stuck in the anger phase, guys who still haven't gotten their shit together, guys with no social status and no social skills, guys with no game, guys who don't exercise and sit around bitching about women on the internet - if you're one of those guys and you do happen to cross paths with a quality girl, you don't have a shot in hell. at least sluts are fun to fuck. a low-value, bitter, insecure man is about as unattractive as it gets.

so until you reach that top tier of male SMV, you shouldn't whine about the lack of quality women. a fucking loser of a man whining about not being able to find virgin unicorns is just as ridiculous as the dumpy, post-wall CC-riders asking where are all the good men.

[deleted] · 2017-03-20T03:23:36+00:00

Is this the male version of 'where's all the good men gone?'

Jokes apart, if you can't fight them, join them(in the bed).

The implications for the future is sad indeed but then nobody cares, so why do we care?

RyanMAGA · 2017-03-20T15:05:30+00:00

Library school. Seriously, that's where they are hiding. I found one on OkCupid and my alpha friend snagged one too (he met her in a different venue). Elite librarians are the female equivalent of top computer programmers. Here is the map of all library schools:

http://maps.google.com/maps/ms?ie=UTF8&hl=en&msa=0&msid=105865627555958965474.000449740ea1f057a8b91&ll=41.508577,-93.515625&spn=89.94393,163.125&z=3

[deleted] · 2017-03-20T22:49:02+00:00

I've been in it all: clubs, church, social groups, tinder, online dating, friends circle, parties.

What's the common factor in all of these situations? You.

Reading this subreddit is bewildering - it's post after post of people owning themselves. People who are so broken that they cannot form a meaningful connection with a member of the opposite sex. Holy moly. As a normie, it's like reading a different language almost. I recognize nothing from any of these posts.

RPDrogan · 2017-03-21T09:08:03+00:00

Here's a thought.

Maybe you keep getting slutty girls because those are the type of girls willing to fuck you. Maybe your SMV isn't high enough. Maybe you don't exhibit the type of aura or behavior that non slutty girls are looking for.

But to imply that all women are like this is just an excuse you tell yourself. There are 3.5 billion women on this planet. Let's assume that at least 50 million of them are fuckable. What do you think is more likely? That there isn't a single girl out of 50 million that isn't a slut? Or that the girls you're looking for aren't attracted to you?

Sometimes you need a reality check. This is yours. Feel free to downvote me but if every single woman willing to sleep with you isn't fitting your standards, maybe it's because you don't fit the standards of the women you're looking for. Improve yourself for the purpose of bettering yourself and you might find what you're looking for.

[deleted] · 2017-03-24T23:46:01+00:00

I think alot of these girls are whores to be quite honest. If she is bad as fuck, has a phat ass, is dolled up all the time, squats alot, spray tans. dyes her hair blonde..... She is trying to get wifed bro. Also once again these all point to her more than likely being a whore, and/or a little gold digger type. There is change she could be a good person though. Take a peak at a girls Facebook if you really want to see the type of girl she is. I looked at this girls Facebook once, and immediately was like nah this bimbos a fucking whore.

The only girls that dont seem to be whores for the most part are muslim girls, and I mean some of those girls stink, and if one of them really really likes you. More than likely the marriage thing is going to come up, and she will bring you around her sister and her friends and start talking about it. I might have though, if I was well compensated to marry the girl. I would need to get paid to marry her, and I mean paid.

Venicedreaming · 2017-03-20T02:47:19+00:00

Foreign women, check them out, most are still virgins

JDiculous · 2017-03-20T04:44:19+00:00

Seriously? This post is garbage and adds absolutely nothing of value. If you guys want this shit taken seriously, then stop posting these juvenile whining rants.

Their sole objective is to lock down high quality semen. They're biologically whores.

Yes, and your sole objective is to lock down the most physically attractive woman you can who isn't a psychopath. We're biologically whores too.

So if these unicorns exist, tell me, where do you find them? Because from where I'm standing, you don't find them. It's a needle in the haystack. If you're lucky, you'll stumble across them.

We get it, you're jaded. First step is to fix your attitude, get out of this victim mentality, and start working on finding a solution given the cards you've been dealt. Believe it or not there are still quality women out there and they're not all hopping between millionaires. They're probably just not going for you because 1. you're not meeting them (hint: you prob won't find them on Tinder and/or at bars/clubs) 2. your value/game isn't high enough.

DarkRenaissance · 2017-03-20T04:15:47+00:00

Saving this man. Thanks a ton for writing it. A lot of blue shit coming lately, needed this. Pure, unfiltered truth. A lot of people will be saying that this is not the truth, but I'll believe that only if I see an EC, SE or Vanguard confirm it.

Pastelitomaracucho · 2017-03-20T06:41:08+00:00

I have been with amazing women since I was a teenager.

I personally don't know what are you talking about.

wanderer779 · 2017-03-20T15:28:48+00:00

it is probably tougher than it used to be. But I think quality women are still out there. I think I have seen some, but to be fair I don't really know them and they may have been huge sluts in the past.

Being realistic, I think you have to accept that if you want a LTR, she's probably going to have at least a bit of sluttiness in her past. You can try to do detective work, but women aren't stupid and they know what you are doing, and they lie. So my thinking is to either forget about ltr's and having a family, or accept that it will probably have to be done with a girl who has some miles on her. No matter what you do LTRs are a big gamble with fairly poor odds.

hyugafan · 2017-03-20T19:00:26+00:00

sucked more dick than a hooker who forgot to pay rent

That's rich, I'm stealing that one. That said, I don't agree. If "quality women" don't exist, it's because you haven't attracted her. Remember, they can be trained. Red pil LTRs are possible, they're just very hard to maintain.

Abadalt · 2017-03-20T21:53:04+00:00

I think it's neat that a comment I made created further discussion within the RP community. Thanks for the love

Abadalt · 2017-03-20T21:53:04+00:00

I think it's neat that a comment I made created further discussion within the RP community. Thanks for the love

BusenitzBoy · 2017-03-21T00:46:25+00:00

Parents/friends/acquaintances: "Why don't you get a nice girl to settle down with?"

Me: "Show me one." (emphasis on "one")

Jax77789 · 2017-03-21T09:40:35+00:00

Women are what the times are. Our time is one of sluttery and open hypergamy so most women become whores.

Back in the old days social shaming worked well enough. Most women were LTR material.

My point is : quality girls do not exist, what you should be looking for is a girl you can mold in your own image. You will create your quality girl because if you do not, society will make a slut out of her.

psyduck117 · 2017-04-14T20:26:11+00:00

Move to an amish town or something lmao

DukeofSaxony · 2017-03-20T03:39:47+00:00

You don't find good women, good women find you.

Be successful in your vocation, have passions and interesting hobbies, network, travel, and good quality women will find you.

If you're in you're 20's, invest in yourself. A quality women will want a man of equal or better status. Accordingly, most quality women are already in relationships with high SMV men (they've married young to a man in his 30's who has his shit together).

J_AsapGem · 2017-03-20T04:12:47+00:00

we all know unicorns don't exist but they are some women with morals ( we get it though AWALT ), some are less hypergamous than others.

billsmashole · 2017-03-20T06:32:59+00:00

I may not like the fact that women fuck every guy they want, but it's hypocritical of many in this sub for giving them shit about it. Most men here, if we are honest with ourselves, want to screw as many hot women as we can. Maybe some want a LTR with a loyal woman. But it's hard to judge a woman wanting to get laid a lot when I want the same thing.

JunkyardSam · 2017-03-20T03:28:40+00:00

They exist, man. Coming up on 10 years married. 3 perfect kids and another on the way. Both parties in this relationship do their part... things are good.

Rare to find but maybe look at a different type of girl and be sure you're worth it yourself, etc.

supersonic-turtle · 2017-03-20T06:49:22+00:00

I like your study but honestly I like the fact that it comes easy. My pops always says "if it comes easy get it once, if it comes too easy dont try it at all"

Also lets be real here, not all women are the same... its so easy to wrap them all into a nice sushi roll and cut out perfect one inch bites but its a lot more complicated than that. If I was to speak my mind which I am, I would say this post is a diatribe of some guy who mediocred red pill ideology and failed so he's still in the niceguy blue zone somewhat.

bsutansalt · 2017-03-20T11:31:55+00:00

You need to first define "quality". What exactly is a quality woman in your opinion?

FirstmateJibbs · 2017-03-20T16:09:50+00:00

Lol. This is utter nonsense.

hypnotoad114 · 2017-03-21T23:41:22+00:00

This post is useful, yes there are women out there like that no arguing that is a fact. His stories are definitely inflated. But this poster has allowed himself to be consumed with anger. Even his name awalt_cupcake. This is what happens when you allow (stories of) women or anyone/thing else dictate your thoughts. Instead of obsessing over the (supposive) actions of others accept them and act in your own self interest.

If we woke up tomorrow in the world of OP' s women the best thing you could do is accept their actions and conduct yourself in a matter that was self beneficial. Even if all women are literal cheating cock addicts it would have as much power over you as you give it.

nonthaki · 2017-03-20T01:52:17+00:00

Its because they want attention. Thats why they like being Gangbanged , creampied and Bdsm, even being raped. And also as you said , because They can fuck a lot of guys. They are still young and attractive .

toothemoon8 · Sun Apr 2 23:30:47 2017 UTC

I have many more objectives in my life as an adult human than obtaining your jizz. No thanks. I have better things to do with my time. You're like that guy who sends a girl a dic pic and thinks that it will lock her in. That her entire life has come to this point when she got a dic pic from you. She can now die happy. Omg bitch please. Women are whole people not sex objects. Women have one purpose. Maybe to you. Which is really sad because we are so so much more.

RedMoonAscendant · 2017-03-20T02:46:07+00:00

I looked for quality women on West Coast USA for 15-20 years and never found anything. Went to the Asias and found someone who's remained pretty good for 5 years, but the USA culture is starting to convert her.

I think men will never find quality women unless we band together and force society to change so that good women are rewarded and bad women punished. Until we do that, we will continue to get gold digging sluts.

Natural_RP · 2017-03-20T03:55:38+00:00

They don't exist. I have "dated..." ahem a lot of women. I found one girl that was probably an actual unicorn and only then because she accepted the training I gave her.

There was a second but she was only so great because her dad was a CEO and this girl was basically bred and train from birth for success. Also not as hot as the first one though probably a solid 7.5

icancto · 2017-03-23T22:19:02+00:00

Have you tried Saudi Arabia?

kooshi84 · 2017-03-20T09:47:20+00:00

They'll come out of hiding when you lose your little bitch attitude.

Rushed77 · 2017-03-20T07:01:26+00:00

Well obviously you don't lay the pipe well otherwise she'd stick Armenians. And learn some respect you sound like the gutter trash.

shadowq8 · 2017-03-20T04:33:49+00:00

Arab here, while there are some promiscuous women around, a lot of people still do raise there girls right and you can marry someone who is a virgin.

Title	Where the quality bitches at?
Author	awalt_cupcake
Upvotes	320
Comments	313
Date	March 19, 2017 9:45 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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