Be Sober!

*You get better faster

*You gain courage

*You stay healthy

*You can do more things

*Logistics are easier (you can drive)

*You are sexier

Please feel free to add more things to the list!

It is hard, but if you want to BECOME better with women, and not just better at getting drunk and picking them up, do your sets sober.

There's No Excuse

Edit: Thank you for all the comments, I read every single one. The different perspectives make for great discussion!

As I was reading I noticed a two major disagreements that I would like to address:

1) I need a drink or two to just to raise my energy and let me be social.

2) Not drinking makes you look like a creeper, makes things awkward, and makes you look like you are preying on drunk girls

These comments are amazing things to address because these are the reasons that we drink. They Are Misguided and Will Hurt Your Game!

1) The sober you at the bar is the same person that you were the first day you thought about meeting women. The person you were at the beggining of your sedduction adventure. You struggle to approach, to open, to hold a conversation, to tease, to escalate, and you struggle to close. The reason is you used alcohol was to skip steps. You are a slave to alcohol now for the rest of your life because your game requires it. The first day out sober I was doing No Drink November, and it was weird, I could not approach I could not do anything, when just the week before I was balls deep in the girl with the red dress, boning in the bathroom of a nightclub, I stole her dress and ran around the club. It was the most epic close of my life, but without the booze on which I had been training my game unconsciously with for 6 years, I was at square 1, with no idea how I did it... So like every good sedditor I stared at square one, just saying hi to people, then asking them about their day, building up my skills. Three months later, I have K-closed at least 6 women in the last two night, danced my ass off on open dance floors with people watching incredulously, and have had several propositions for sex from the women whose faces I'm eating. All, Sober. Having fun and bringing the energy is not something you have, it is something you learn. Everything you do with a beer in you is something you can do better at sober if you stop being lazy and work at learning it.

Alchohol is Always a crutch as is every other drug, nothing is wrong with you, so stop using it if you want to get much better, much faster. (Unless it is your schizophrenia medication, in which case it is a crutch you may actually need.)

2) "Not drinking makes you look like a creeper and a stalker, what do you do if they ask?" You just tell them the truth! You say you are out hanging out with your friends and you are doing a no drink whatever the month, or a New Years resolution. That is what I'm doing not drinking for 2013. Not drinking is something to brag about!. They are always amazed you have the balls to go out and have fun. And if they don't ask which they usually never do, after we have a crazy good time and I make out with them, and then it comes up, or I bring it up, they are always stunned and ask me how I am able to just start kissing a girl when I haven't been drinking. I tell them I am a man who knows what I want! They usually proposition me for sex at this point.

Myth: makes you creepy. BUSTED

Makes you look like you are preying on drunk women? Fuck no, The only time you look like this is if the girl was wasted and then you would be preying on her, with booze in you or not.

TL/DR: even one drink is a crutch, don't do, No Excuses. The reason you look like a creeper is that you have no game sober, so work on it! Not drinking makes women wet for you. Don't try fucking chicks who are wasted, whether you are wasted or not.