Is it possible to cold approach and have sex same day?

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-07-02T22:57:45+00:00

Yes. Met a girl, set a date for later that night. Went out for drinks and came back to my place. So it wasn't an insta date pull but if you think about it, why are any extra steps necessary if you're both free that night to go out... I think many people put a lot of imaginary road blocks in their own way thinking there has to be arbitrary time frames.

Getting a number without attempting to set a date in person just adds an extra layer of friction. Unless you're specifically trying to collect contacts, always ask her schedule during the initial approach.

Initial-Laugh1442 · 2022-07-02T21:04:16+00:00

Yes. It's rare, but possible ...

Alextryingforgrate · 2022-07-02T22:23:39+00:00

Throw enough darts at a dart board and youll hit the bulls eye.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-02T21:28:36+00:00

Cold approach i don't know i guess it's possible. Warm approach at night - yeah i did have sex on same night.

*warm approach for me means the girl sends signals of intrest before i say anything.

DDSwift · 2022-07-03T01:28:27+00:00

Yes.

I was out of town, and I went to a girl who was a cashier at a local chicken joint. I gave her my number, and told her I'll only be in town for one day. She called that night and boom

Initial-Laugh1442 · 2022-07-02T21:04:03+00:00

Yes. It's rare, but possible...

Simply_Bry · 2022-07-02T22:55:17+00:00

Yes it's possible. Have seen it happen multiple times with my pickup buddies. We left without them because they stayed at the girls place. I have not (yet) been among them.

RobbyRock75 · 2022-07-02T23:32:35+00:00

Anything is possible

ithand_geezer · 2022-07-03T03:50:28+00:00

If you're Ryan gosling in "Crazy, Stupid Love"

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-07-02T22:09:38+00:00

Did it a ton OLD but never pulled it off on a same day CA

revente · 2022-07-03T01:10:11+00:00

Yes. But it's not the most likely course of action.

Personally, I've never really bothered to try pull girls straight to my house and just took their numbers to schedule a date.

starfoxes · 2022-07-03T15:27:38+00:00

Yes! Well, technically speaking!

Met this girl at a bar, didn't know who she was. Complimented her on her jonas brothers t shirt. Started chatting, went home later that night and did the deed.

4 years later and she is going to be my wife!

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-02T23:00:58+00:00

During the day extremely rare. While most guys just need to get hard to be ready have sex and maybe wash their dick, most women need to shave their pussy, legs, wax their asshole, feel really cleaner and fresh down there, etc. I've done it, but it was a rare occurrence.

If you want to get laid fast, go to places where women go to get laid...aka night clubs.

TkdDvd · 2022-07-03T03:26:50+00:00

I did it! Knock knock at the neighboor door from campus. There was a sexy girl, i told her that i.m new and i wanna eat something and i invited her with me in the city. She said no but we can talk later when she s free. We talked playe some truth or dare and watch a movie,,, you guess how this continued( in 10 minutes after movie started i was in missionary up on her)

SideofClouds · 2022-07-03T01:56:58+00:00

Yeah man... you just gotta pay /s

LeaderOfWolves · 2022-07-03T06:57:27+00:00

I was minding my business.. Caught her smiling & waving using signaling hand gestures.. I walked over & we chatted & made plans pretty quick.. Smoked.. Went to wafflehouse per her suggestion, I wasn't hungry but she insisted on buying me food which I ate two bites of.. Went to her place that night to smoke, netflix & chill.. She resisted & insisted it wasn't happening.. I whipped it out on her & she pounced.. We ended up going all night & then some more upon waking.. Pecker was raw by the end of it all.. She asked if I wanted to move in but I didn't see it working for me in that location.. Good times lol

carlos1973633826 · 2022-07-02T23:28:51+00:00

It’s possible look into “gunwith method” also google “3-step process for getting laid a lot “ both these guys focus on same day lay as their strength. This is for daygame. However note the faster you get laid the more likely it’s going to be a one night stand. The guys who spend the least amount of time before getting laid tend to have 0% retention rate, however they hook up with more women.

Amkg2020 · 2022-07-03T05:53:12+00:00

Yeah I mean one night stands are a thing but most definitely I say its 100% achievable

Zhai · 2022-07-03T08:45:43+00:00

Easier when travelling. Just talked once to a Spanish girl afraid to jump off the cliff into the water in Thailand. Invited her to lunch, met in the evening at a party. Went back to her place and then fucked for next 3 days like crazy. Good times. Just keep approaching brother.

DrinksAreOnTheHouse · 2022-07-03T15:10:13+00:00

100% . Its called a one-night stand.

imperiorr · 2022-07-03T15:31:59+00:00

In my experience girls go crazy if you send the vibe "Dont need to fuck you the same day".

I often tell the girl im happy to just sleep next to you or meet the next day, then they get a sense of keeping their integrity.

I also like the thrill of waiting a day or ten..

chonglang_gaoshou · 2022-07-03T18:33:50+00:00

Definitely yes and that’s what most Japanese gamers in Shinjuku aim to do. The pattern looks like: Cold approach, then ask for an instant date for either coffee or drinks to build rapport, then love hotel.

alexanderldn · 2022-07-03T00:05:56+00:00

if you dont mind taking home walruses or whales then yes

tdroylshy · 2022-07-02T23:33:26+00:00

It's about to get more impossible thanks to our republican asshat friends taking away women's body autonomy.

EthicalSeduction · 2022-07-03T11:55:03+00:00

Yes. You just want to spend some time together, feel sexually drawn to each other, and then make it safe and non-judgemental for the person to say “yes”. Set things up to be safe, easy, and without any negative consequences.

spandexgod · 2022-07-03T12:03:33+00:00

Not from a jedi.

bluemind361 · 2022-07-03T02:45:06+00:00

Absolutely. It won’t always be successful but you just have to find the right one.

rjones416 · 2022-07-03T04:45:43+00:00

pretty common for night game. how you think one night stands happen?

Wakka_Grand_Wizard · 2022-07-03T05:27:08+00:00

Unless you’re gigachad with giga Bucks, I’d say highly no

ahab1313 · 2022-07-03T08:53:34+00:00

With the same person? Nope, never happened before.

iluvreddit · 2022-07-03T10:41:37+00:00

Yea happens all the time at bars and clubs

blessedwiththecurse · 2022-07-03T11:03:34+00:00

The tourist trick seems to work pretty well for same day lays. “I’m from XYZ in town for tonight bla bla bla”

givemechocolat · 2022-07-03T11:44:24+00:00

I did a few times

itsondahouse · 2022-07-03T12:12:17+00:00

Yes it is. Very context dependent in my experience at least. Summer is usually a great time for that to happen.

GarlicTraditional227 · 2022-07-03T12:56:27+00:00

Yes. But don’t be surprised if you get involved with someone who gets around more then you realize. Usually says something about how much they value themselves if they make it that easy. Make sure you get tested as well

LetsFuckOnTheBoat · 2022-07-03T13:12:22+00:00

Yes, has happened multiple times

Best one was a sunday afternoon i was in a shitty state of mind out on the motorcycle, went into a local bar a girl I never saw or met before was across the corner of the bar from me, says hi want to buy me a beer and tell her to buy me one, she does, I drink about half of it in 5 minutes and we are out the door on the bike back to my place for my sweaty fun, dropped her off at her apt the end

Atibana · 2022-07-02T23:39:55+00:00

Yes totally, I’ve done it a few times. Approached a girl at a party and we went back to her place later that night and did the deed.

gregsapopin · 2022-07-02T21:29:57+00:00

no that only happens in movies. The guy sees a girl, then they jump cut to them having sex.

Joy_Boy96 · 2022-07-02T23:17:08+00:00

Possible but extremely rare.

theKnightWatchman44 · 2022-07-02T23:27:54+00:00

Yes I've done it, if night game is included.

If you mean day game, I've heard of people being able to do it but never seen it myself

nelsne · 2022-07-03T03:12:12+00:00

Yes I've done it.

Narudatsu · 2022-07-03T03:19:23+00:00

If you do, it’ll probably easier to do during a shared experience. Like a day club concert something to give some common ground. Don’t expect to walk down the street, hit on a girl and think they’ll actually hook up with you that day.

Joe_Doblow · 2022-07-03T03:33:15+00:00

More_Internal_9892 · 2022-07-03T03:34:40+00:00

Yeah of course

BooksLoveTalksnIdeas · 2022-07-03T05:27:18+00:00

Yes, with women who are not good wife material.

barricade551 · 2022-07-03T05:41:37+00:00

They could say no to the sex. But they won’t; because of the implication

daring_innovator · 2022-07-03T07:06:59+00:00

I have with one of my classmates. I took her home, gave her my number & turns out she was horny af that day so yea sometimes not often tho.

Quick_Watercress_932 · 2022-07-03T07:07:41+00:00

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-07-03T07:11:36+00:00

Did that a few times so possible. Rare it's tru to find a girl on the street who has nothing to do but can happen

okaris · 2022-07-03T08:10:52+00:00

Take them to three dates in the same day. This will simulate the relationship enough to imcrease the connection

FlatDistance5 · 2022-07-03T08:48:41+00:00

3x this year for me. Have to do a shit load of approaching though

More-Impact3644 · 2022-07-03T13:11:47+00:00

Pretty sure that's why they serve alcohol in bars, no?

Kemuser · 2022-07-03T14:22:59+00:00

Horny Jail for you

Economy_Bit_5980 · 2022-07-03T14:38:23+00:00

It's possible for women to randomly ask you.

PackagedWater · 2022-07-03T14:38:44+00:00

Yes it’s possible. It’s happened to me only a couple of times and most of the time I was out of the country as the cute foreigner who spoke the local language

bennie_thejet30 · 2022-07-03T15:42:32+00:00

Yes. It’s really not that hard when you’re young. Honestly, when you’re in college people go out looking for sex. As you get older, the question becomes what’s the rush. Women rather get a night of free drinks, food, and transportation because they can. Plus, sober sex is much better than a late night one night stand.

If you’re having trouble, look within. Get modern clothes (have women help), get a new haircut, workout, invite women to new hip restaurants, etc.

Total_Obligation_371 · 2022-07-03T16:44:01+00:00

Yes I've done it several times. Instead of inviting them out for a date later that week, just ask if they are doing anything that night. It's pretty much the exact same process but with that one difference. You don't need to do anything extra special, just ask if they are doing anything that night.

sleekmeec · 2022-07-03T17:07:57+00:00

Usually when alcohol is involved its way more likely.

Title	Is it possible to cold approach and have sex same day?
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Date	July 2, 2022 8:57 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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