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espada_da · 2021-12-24T13:33:57+00:00

Triple text is wild bro, just let it go. If she’s into you, she’ll reach out.

slaybrownbeast · 2021-12-24T09:27:32+00:00

Honestly ,Feel like you should meet a new girl

jwaters0122 · 2021-12-24T13:59:33+00:00

Delete her number and forget about her. People are on their phones more than ever nowadays. If she hasn't texted you back then she's not interested. There are better ways to waste your time than waiting for a text

TheTruth221 · 2021-12-24T10:09:27+00:00

let it be and talk to other females

if she comes back then shes comes back if not then u know what it is

2021-12-24T10:57:45+00:00

dont text her again. meet another chick

HyakuShichifukujin · 2021-12-24T11:45:47+00:00

Move on and hit up 10 other girls. No matter how good it looked at first, no response to double text is the end of this one. There’s a small chance she might get back to you but don’t count on it, and any further effort on your part is 99.9% likely to be a waste of your time.

thechaseofspade · 2021-12-24T09:28:56+00:00

sure, you can try that.

just be prepared for when she most likely doesn't answer, or shuts you down, cause it doesn't seem like she is into you. best be prepared to move on bro

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-12-24T10:55:10+00:00

If you wanna lose your dignity keep contacting her despite her ignoring you. You’ve only been in a date and there was no kissing or anything as you said. Double texting is bad enough, but triple texting is even worst. If she was into you she would be missing you and would text you

Snadderloffen · 2021-12-24T13:48:24+00:00

Bro! What did u wrote in those two texts? It's difficult to give any clear advice if we do not know what u was texting.

George97o · 2021-12-24T14:18:51+00:00

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Londonaxis · 2021-12-24T09:51:46+00:00

The way I see it, she either answers to your one text reply (no need to double text) or she is either busy or not interested. You don't want to waste your time with someone that will be like that. There's plenty more, just move on to the next one. Numbers game.

GlitterSnatchCyTex · 2021-12-24T13:28:29+00:00

Just ignore her. If she’s interested, she’ll be curious and reach out. If she’s not interested, you’re taking the first step in forgetting her.

sslacaptain · 2021-12-24T11:10:51+00:00

It's gone. Just watch some birds of paradise to understand your situation better

AJAY_SS · 2021-12-24T14:19:18+00:00

You don't. You move on..

2021-12-24T14:42:47+00:00

in this case, you don't. let it go.

snoozeaddict · 2021-12-24T15:48:42+00:00

She's just not that into you bro.

When a girl is into you its obvious in her communication. Unless she's just a massive flake in which case you should move on anyways.

2021-12-24T16:09:32+00:00

There is a scene on suits with Harvey specter and Louis on this kind of scenario. You don’t beg the girl to go out with you, you wait, she’ll call. If she senses your desperation then you’ll never get anything you want with her. What you should have done is chill after the first text and play the waiting game.

TheTransparentOtter · 2021-12-24T19:06:46+00:00

If you really want to go for a last ditch effort, you can try and be sincere. Be like "hey I felt like we had a connection on our first date, though now I'm not so sure. Hit me up if you want me to set up a second date, no reply is plenty of a reply though. " Or some shit like that. A genuine text might catch her off guard enough that she'll atleast break it off if that's the route she's going. If you felt a connection and she went cold, she probably felt more of connection somewhere else and she's pursuing that route. Atleast mentioning that no reply is answer enough, you'll know what the answer is.

2021-12-24T10:55:19+00:00

Let it go bro

19Black · 2021-12-24T14:11:30+00:00

If a woman doesn’t respond to you within 12 hours, she isn’t interested.

External_Lifeguard49 · 2021-12-24T10:33:11+00:00

I don’t.

loosemon · 2021-12-24T16:44:58+00:00

Seeing as you double texted her and she still hasn't responded I would just move on bro. If it was a double text I'd say you have nothing to lose but triple just shows she's not interested.

At the end of the day I've been in your shoes before though, and emotionally get where you're coming from but you're just wasting your time.

If you do do it send something like "Hey I'm checking out this (insert cool place, coffee shop, bakery, ice cream parlor bar etc.) on this day at this time, if you're free you should join!" And don't expect her to respond. It honestly has a 2% chance of working but is your best shot.

tequilapurell · 2021-12-24T17:04:11+00:00

She might not be into you but also it’s the holidays and people are stressed and distracted. If it’s really bothering you, I don’t think it would hurt to ask. Just maybe a “hey haven’t heard from you. I was wondering if everything was ok!” And if she responds with an answer that isn’t what you wanted just say something like “thanks for telling me, happy holidays!” And delete her number. I’m a girl and have been bad at responding during finals/ holidays/ stressful weeks and I always appreciate a little reminder text, even if I’m not into the dude, but just one. It’s not weird if it’s just one extra check in. But don’t do it on Christmas lol.

aidsjohnson · 2021-12-24T17:18:38+00:00

You take the L & move tf on, that's how you do it.

jjboy91 · 2021-12-24T17:27:26+00:00

If it has been that long she's smashing elsewhere bro

2021-12-24T19:19:03+00:00

You mind your own business. Take care of yourself and and your family. And if she has any more business with you, she'll text. If not, on to the next one.

Rockfella27 · 2021-12-24T12:42:06+00:00

Text her friend

lightlysaltedStev · 2021-12-24T12:43:39+00:00

Look I’m gonna come at this from a slightly different angle as there’s a lot of comments (maybe rightly) just telling you to move on which you may have to do in the end.

BUT if you are really set on this girl and don’t want to give up just yet like you have suggested in your post, then I’d wait a while before contacting her again. I saw you mention you was going away in the middle of January. Just wait until then and give her one last message or call..

if you still get no response or spark from that then I’m sorry to tell you bro but it ain’t happening. I mean.. we all can be wrong in life but I would say if the date went well and she enjoyed it THAT much she would of probably of been in contact more. Then again she might be waiting for you to set up a second date but if that was the case I would assume she would of messaged back small talk until you did.

Give it that one last call when you get back if you are really hung up on her but I would also use this time to get used to the fact it probably ain’t going to happen. Maybe a 20% chance it does.

I have been on a few dates myself were from my prospective it went really well and it seemed she was really enjoying too and was into it, only to be a hit with a “sorry just wasn’t feeling it” text rather when I got back or a few days later. It can hurt but it’s part of the process we all go through.

comacove · 2021-12-24T15:37:47+00:00

Glad_Scientist_9892 · 2021-12-24T17:05:14+00:00

Move on

Visualize_ · 2021-12-24T17:12:46+00:00

You double texted already. If she wanted to hit you up, she would have already

DarthFarris · 2021-12-24T17:31:44+00:00

She's not interested. Probably just being nice or responding out of boredom. People who are genuinely interested will make it very apparent.

papiwoldz · 2021-12-24T17:42:33+00:00

Move on, if it vomes back it does. You holding onto it and even secretly hopping for it will work against you. Move on, you got your own life an dypere own problems. She's just another girl.

PetiteCaresse · 2021-12-24T19:06:52+00:00

It's family holiday time. Try next year.

Beezus333 · 2021-12-24T20:17:22+00:00

Move the Fuk on man, it’s a numbers game buddy, hoes are strange af real talk, go watch FreshnFit on YouTube and then you’ll get it better!

Teamtoast · 2021-12-24T21:12:25+00:00

The fact you’ve double texted means it’s over

loofyd · 2021-12-24T18:26:27+00:00

you text another girl, go out with her, post the fun you had with that girl on your snap story / insta story ( whatever it's called ) .. the girl who ignored you, will atleast get jealous

while you should move on to the next girl

no need to bother with a girl who doesn't respond ..

darrenlennie · 2021-12-24T09:28:27+00:00

Yeah I'm in a similar sitch would like to know

GhoulChaser · 2021-12-24T10:18:33+00:00

Stop texting. The only reason we should text a girl is to 1. Get her number. And 2. Set up a date. Don’t be afraid to call (if you have her number) but make it brief and make sure you follow the 2 steps.

Another thing, she may no longer be interested in you from the experience of the date. If the date was so called great from your own words she would be invested therefore would be hitting you up regularly. I advise you cut your loses for the time being and explore other options. Females like attention, and having multiple options keeps you from giving her that attention, but if she does come around go to rule #1. Rule # 1 do not reward bad behavior. If you do get back in contact with her be very firm in telling her that what she did was not cool leaving you in the wind like that, and that she deserves to pay for the next meal or drink you guys have if you guys do go back out again. That shows her accountability, and will at the very least show you something she hasn’t. Which is respect, for your time and your money.

icantfigureredditout · 2021-12-24T14:43:53+00:00

Girls are nice because men can be dangerous. Sounds like these things were only true on your end.

Sorry she won’t be straight up with you, but as they say: no response is a response. Move on.

airmcnair06 · 2021-12-24T14:16:27+00:00

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quantumactual · 2021-12-24T15:15:19+00:00

Trigger an emotional response

be-right-or-be-funny · 2021-12-25T00:49:25+00:00

That’s the great thing, you don’t.

moehrse · 2021-12-24T18:57:54+00:00

Write her something offensive, so it triggers her and she will write back… something like “you know what? I think you’ve got too small tits for me anyway. They look funny compared to your fat ass”

corninahcup · 2021-12-24T17:00:22+00:00

My buddy once told me if you can’t reconnect within a week, just let it go. After a week it’s not there and just let it go and find a new focus

Xanzibarr · 2021-12-24T17:26:33+00:00

Dont get stuck bro i know u want her but more u text the further u will push her away. Be patient

RossManPirate · 2021-12-24T17:48:32+00:00

Leave and move on

that27thkid · 2021-12-24T18:01:48+00:00

You don’t

kingmanifestation · 2021-12-24T18:35:26+00:00

you dont lol.....

ExquisiteGrowth · 2021-12-24T18:44:20+00:00

Move on.

FindingE-Username · 2021-12-24T18:45:57+00:00

If she was interested she would have replied

e5roberts1 · 2021-12-24T18:58:06+00:00

Did you ever call her before or after the date? If the only form of communication is text, it’s not looking to good.

adveros · 2021-12-24T18:59:49+00:00

I'd focus on other girls and if you feel like it, text her after you are back; but only to set up a date. Trying never hurts, but take her out of your mind and enjoy your time with someone else.

rahhumilovedogs · 2021-12-24T19:06:36+00:00

Double text? Delete number. If she replies... cool. Otherwise she gone, bro.

Gentleman33 · 2021-12-24T19:20:41+00:00

you can't force a girl to like you, just doesn't seem like she's interested. trust me if she was, she'd show it

reversedbydark · 2021-12-24T19:34:32+00:00

By not texting her again? Plus you already came of as needy by double texting...so. Also she hasn't texted back and the best plan you came up with is calling her?! :)) Dude, come on...

EdUNC- · 2021-12-24T19:40:57+00:00

it’s over bro, sorry.

MyName_isLame · 2021-12-24T19:47:52+00:00

Girl here 🙋‍♀️ I agree with a lot of the other comments. I don’t think she’s that into you. If she were, she would have responded back very quickly. She’s probably exploring other options. That’s exactly what you should be doing. If she feels something for you, she will come back, if not there’s nothing you can do.

WestwardAlien · 2021-12-24T19:48:38+00:00

Block the bitch

elusiveclownface · 2021-12-24T19:57:27+00:00

You have been ghosted just move on

am2549 · 2021-12-24T20:01:09+00:00

I think a double text is okay, triple text not. If you really need to be 100 Percently sure instead of 99.99 (which is now), write again in a couple of weeks without reference to your earlier texts. You will lose dignity, control and respect in her eyes - don’t do it to try to get her but if it makes it easier for you to accept having lost her. My 2 cents.

Maabuss · 2021-12-24T20:12:20+00:00

You don't....

LONEWOLFF150 · 2021-12-24T20:20:30+00:00

Yeah don't double text man. There are very few reasons to do so but apart from that, honestly, you should move on. 1 day of no reply oof, 2 days? Maybe they're phone has problems, 3 days to a week? They gave up or never had interest to begin with.

3 days no reply is my cut off for moving on. In my eyes you'd have to have been in the hospital unconscious to not answer the phone. The whole point of dating is finding someone you like and are interested in. It's really not that hard to find time to send a text or message. I'm not the best at messaging people but if I find someone I supposedly like I at least make an EFFORT (keyword) to make time for them. It takes 30 seconds to a min to send a text. If you're going long periods of the day and barely receive replies for more than every 6-12 hours (god forbid entire days) they're not really interested their just bored. Bored girls are the epitome of the toxic dating world. Because it's always an easy trap to fall into. They'll claim they are interested in you and they'll put in the bare minimum effort to keep you hooked on them so they can feed on the attention whenever they feel they need it. They'll totally accept dinner dates and going outs without having to reciprocate for you or put out because they know they got you hooked enough they don't need to do anything for your affection.

I think we all deserve someone that misses us not just when they're alone at nights but when they are going throughout their day in crowded afternoons. Find that girl that misses you in both.

Shoot your shot if you want I mean you really don't have anything to gain or lose but if you feel like you need to do it to gain some closure then by all means go for it. Just don't get delusions that it'll lead to anything. This kind of stuff happens to everyone even to girls on their side but at the end of the day you'll know when you find someone who truly is interested in you. You're gonna look back on this and see the difference soon. Just move on bro.

McWhiters9511 · 2021-12-24T20:40:36+00:00

She's not interested

killerdolphin313 · 2021-12-24T20:40:44+00:00

Repeat after me, “I don’t chase ‘em, I replace ‘em.”

RPslimjim · 2021-12-24T20:47:28+00:00

Don’t double text in the future. If you want her to get her attention, just remove yours.

S0GGYS4L4DS · 2021-12-24T21:03:35+00:00

Burn a cross on her lawn and chant her name while wardrobed as a wizard.

Ok-Restaurant-9356 · 2021-12-24T21:04:50+00:00

It is hard to answer this question with these informations.

What did you talk with her ? What is your value/her value in life ? Are you masculine enough ? Did she give you signs for sex and you didnt go for it ? Does she have someone else on her mind ? What is her lifestyle ?

You cannot get this girl back, and you shouldnt. If she comes back, don't accept her.

papiwoldz · 2021-12-24T21:09:06+00:00

You dont, move on

hyxhufchy66666666 · 2021-12-24T21:32:04+00:00

Go find another chick to talk to, will always make a woman contact you again.

cyrusol · 2021-12-24T21:44:12+00:00

Didn’t have sex

That's the issue.

Numbw1ll · 2021-12-24T22:01:25+00:00

I don't want to crush your Dreams but she may not be that into you. Perhaps busy.

Don't break your head over it and find another girl.

SoulRebel99 · 2021-12-24T22:06:33+00:00

Always reciprocate the energy back, perhaps as a man do even less with someone who is lukewarm. Do what you can with this one, but don't hesitate to move on

aaw9573 · 2021-12-24T22:08:36+00:00

Let it go. If she’s really interested she’ll reach out eventually. Don’t take it personal is she doesn’t, you never know what’s going on behind the scenes. Bottom line, you’re always better off with someone who is truly excited to be with you. Move on.

Jacob_961 · 2021-12-24T22:23:00+00:00

"I thought we had a connection but I haven't heard from you in a while. I'm still interested in you and I would like to see you. If you are up for, I'd like to see you again. Let me know if you are willing to see if there is anything worth exploring between us."

benjaminTrader · 2021-12-24T22:29:36+00:00

You don’t. You keep it moving get a new girl.

Blackbellamy1717 · 2021-12-24T22:38:03+00:00

It's better to offend her than to bore her but know where you are going with it

notpornrelated · 2021-12-24T22:42:10+00:00

A girl I was chatting to and things were going good asked me when I was free for us to... have relations... I answered the question then she blocked me...? Lol, women are weird like that sometimes, hella interested one second and gone the next, don't waste your time!

BreakinLiberty · 2021-12-24T23:00:58+00:00

No. Don’t even submit yourself thru the trouble of Double texting let alone triple…

You already messed up there.

Just let it go. Don’t contact her. Go live your life and be with family. After you come back to town just find new people to date

If she contacts you then she’s missed you. If she never hits you up then she’s more than likely seeing other guys as well and she didn’t feel it with you

amanslive · 2021-12-24T23:30:16+00:00

You're not just just move onto the next one. It's truly a numbers game.

goodomens111 · 2021-12-24T23:35:01+00:00

I have the one different opinion 😩

I’d say text her, and you have a few options to either spark a conversation or possibly set up another date.

Don’t send a Merry Christmas today or tomorrow. Maybe on Sunday or Monday, text her a meme and try to start a convo that way.

Or wait a week, and text her something like how you e been so busy, sorry you’ve been MIA but you’ve been traveling for the holidays, but you’d love to see her, and set something solid up, like when are you free this week? Lets go do x, y or z.

If she doesn’t respond to either then yeah, she is not interested. Sometimes people get busy & too caught up to text right back, and then it’s been too long so you feel weird to text them that your favorite food is pizza eight days later. Maybe I’m people 🤣

istalkezreddit · 2021-12-24T23:49:30+00:00

Compliment her girl friends in front of her.

Kiltmanenator · 2021-12-24T23:54:11+00:00

You don't. Adjust your attitude.

She'll talk if she wants to.

Lockybrah666 · 2021-12-24T23:56:15+00:00

Dick pics bro they work like 80% of the time

gonzaloavila16 · 2021-12-25T00:26:37+00:00

Been there, move on man, you will meet another great girl who matches your interest

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