Does day game/cold approaching work well because women aren't approached at all anymore outside of bars and apps?

Pbake · 2022-09-12T23:54:31+00:00

Girls are open to cold approaches from guys who don’t come off as hungry, but most guys in the seduction game come off as starving.

Icy_Rub1839 · 2022-09-12T17:04:16+00:00

If you're the guy that they want approaching them then it'll work.

Mundane_Natural5131 · 2022-09-12T17:21:12+00:00

I want to start too but i always see women complaining on reddit about it saying its annoying that a guy wants to talk to them “just because their cute and doesn’t work and creep so im still iffy its the only thing stopping me but i feel like mostly women on reddit are feminists i can be wrong

Odd-Letterhead-1633 · 2022-09-13T03:35:50+00:00

Bro just do it. It feels so good talking to women and it feels like a superpower being able to strike up a conversation to a girl that looks like a model. The anxiety, the fun, the dopamine it's all so addicting.

cryptosis420 · 2022-09-12T18:33:55+00:00

Duhh most guys dont have the balls to do it.

My dad use to say the bees come to the flower. The flower doesn't come to the bee.

userisauser · 2022-09-12T22:59:25+00:00

If you go into it caring what the woman is going to think when you approach her, then you will be starting at a disadvantage.

Women say a lot and it is never consistent.

Just focus on what you want and ask yourself how you're going to get it without breaking the law. You will creep some girls out, that's just a fact. You have to be ok with looking like a creep some times. If you can see that you are creeping a girl out, just move on.

However, you can't give up on girls too easily because sometimes they just don't know what to say to you or they are still not sure about you. So just keep making statements you are sure they will identify with and eventually she'll open up.

Saying things she will identify with is harder than it sounds though, so be prepared to make many errors on that front. The better you get though, the more dramatic your results will improve.

theselfreliantman · 2022-09-13T01:13:27+00:00

There are men who try it themselves, and men who will watch their 20s and 30s go by because they read some comments from people online saying it doesn't work.

My point is that does work, but that's actually irrelevant. Which type of man would you rather be?

Nothing to lose, everything to gain! (Have approached hundreds, and some of my most beautiful experiences and hottest girlfriends have come from daytime approaching).

Get after it man!

The_Advocates_Devil_ · 2022-09-13T03:58:27+00:00

Despite what Reddit would have you believe, men are still out there approaching women. Most of those approaches are just bad. When a woman says that she’d love for a guy to approach her she’s imagining the man of her dreams approaching her in a way that she thinks is perfect. It rarely happens that way lol

hunterpua · 2022-09-12T17:33:27+00:00

Daygame has pros and cons.

One of the pros is what you're talking about because it's definitely true that women get approached far less often during the day. I've had women tell me that us meeting was like a scene from a movie.

But one of the cons is very few people go out in the daytime for the purpose of getting approached or socializing. Unless you approach people at pool parties that happen during the day.

But if you try to meet people on the street or in a park or in a shopping center, they're usually not thinking about meeting someone, their focus is usually on getting somewhere or doing something.

But that doesn't mean daygame is actually hard. Just means it can be if you don't take those things into account.

Now you said you need to "nut up" and go for it?

If you have nerves around this, I've written something a while ago that might help you with that.

And after you read that, you might wanna try this because it might be a fun way for you to apply the advice in that post and making it fun will definitely help you get over those nerves much faster.

Lower pressure too because it doesn't require you to talk much in the beginning.

burncushlikewood · 2022-09-12T17:33:30+00:00

The old saying is that 99% of guys don't do day game, but it's the best time to meet women. Day game is very different from night game and sometimes it's easier, however the only thing that doesn't work in day game is working the room and building what I call social proof, which is the most advantageous part of night game. This is mystery method 101 I like to see the reactions from women when I approach 10 girls in a club, they start to feel a little bit competitive and they are more likely to be attracted to you, however the advantages of day game is maybe a lower bitch shield, maybe she's had a bad day, but it can sometimes be annoying in a club or bar where men with no game try to creep on women, may make them less approachable

bow_1101 · 2022-09-12T22:06:22+00:00

Everything works way better in real life, homey.

4elements_and_leeloo · 2022-09-12T23:34:51+00:00

I know I would love it if guys approached me more! Even in bars it's not that common. I usually have to make the first move. I'm very friendly and talkative so I'm not usually sitting alone quietly, which might make it harder. But I've always got a smile on my face and would never belittle a guy for hitting on me. I say go for it!!!!

Keithlct · 2022-09-13T01:59:11+00:00

Any ladies have any input on this? Like me.. A men in 50s I think I will definetely creep out ladies in their 20s if I do cold approaches. Let me try out and see how it goes.. Wish me luck.. Lol..

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-09-12T16:38:48+00:00

If you can become just mediocre at day game is such an advatange because most dudes don’t have the balls to approach women outside of clubs/bars, and that’s usually after they have had a few drinks in them.

revente · 2022-09-12T18:38:58+00:00

Does day game/cold approaching work well

Define 'work well'.

You're looking at a very low success chance. Most good looking girls have bfs, some are undatable, some are not in a mood. Even before your attractiveness comes into play you're left with like 10% girls.

That being said if you're consistent, success is bound to happen.

MeanYeti · 2022-09-12T21:15:51+00:00

Daygaming is barely even a strategy because the thing is basically brute force. If you do it long enough, statistically you will succeed. Whether shotgunning yourself like that is worth it to you is for you to decide.

incognito3107 · 2022-09-12T18:10:14+00:00

You are kind of catching girls off-guard, also you are presenting yourself as confident and competent in social interactions, also many girls have not that many interesting encounters in their schematic and safe lives.

Most guys just don't have a clue how to treat girls properly. Also, girls are getting more and more demanding, so there is big possibility that they will embarass themselves or get straight rejected. You are in a big niche, most guys just get their women by chance and due to mutual social contacts.

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-09-12T17:29:46+00:00

i've actually only did this at gyms and it's worked a few times, im the opposite, i can't approach at bars and the only time anything happened at clubs they called me to them

FranciscotheBull · 2022-09-12T19:24:54+00:00

Their are so many mixed messages. Some women will say it is fine, cute, and wouldn't mind it and some absolutely hate it. Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised if their are more bad or not so lucky experiences than good and positive experiences in general whether daytime or otherwise. Apps are always lopsided.

In my opinion, it is better overall to find community based places where people meet up who have common interests whether it is forums, activities, or other forms where their are opportunities.

The_Advocates_Devil_ · 2022-09-12T22:17:58+00:00

Nope.

Hot girls I know are constantly getting approached everywhere.

Also take all these old advice with a grain of salt in this tinder/social media era.

Iv been relying on social media and tinder and been fine.

Kobe_curry24 · 2022-09-12T18:47:04+00:00

It works causing your doing it repeatedly Lmfaoooo

inline6throwaway · 2022-09-12T20:55:51+00:00

I would say that has quite a bit to do with it if you look good to her and you are smooth and do it "right"

debu206 · 2022-09-12T23:44:43+00:00

Kind of easing it mentally as just a game helps me with approaching women and asking them to make out as soon as i can catch vibe helps me

Bansheebot420 · 2022-09-13T00:40:56+00:00

It’ll only work if they like you or think your cute

FaithInStrangers94 · 2022-09-13T01:14:48+00:00

I feel like many women fantasy about the perfect guy approaching them, but would get uncomfortable and annoyed if anyone other attempted to

beenpimpin · 2022-09-13T02:32:08+00:00

Any time a guy hits on a woman he doesn’t know he is effectively doing cold approach.

Title	Does day game/cold approaching work well because women aren't approached at all anymore outside of bars and apps?
Author	The_Advocates_Devil_
Upvotes	88
Comments	99
Date	September 12, 2022 4:35 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/xchgke/does_day_gamecold_approaching_work_well_because/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/does-day-gamecold-approaching-work-well-because.1250139 https://theredarchive.com/post/1250139

Comments