Full transcript of a conversation i had with a 9/10 at a bar and how i managed to get her number in less then 5 minutes

hahatimefor4chan · 2019-09-23T03:57:51+00:00

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KingRemu · 2019-09-23T02:09:56+00:00

Nicely done! I liked the Harry Potter stuff, sounded like something that would come out of my mouth haha

Twobithatter · 2019-09-23T06:15:44+00:00

This is good and all but how good looking would you rate yourself. Right off the bat she reacted to your joke and pretty much made you open her. Then she offers you to take a drink of her cup, it’s almost like she picked you up.

MrColfax · 2019-09-23T07:04:28+00:00

I have a question, did the bartender ever get your drink or did he just walk away when you started chatting to her?

Escochapo18 · 2019-09-23T02:51:22+00:00

Negging was brilliant. I liked the way you put higher value on yourself and made her feel like she had to do more to get your attention. I liked the initial conversation about her drink and the Harry Potter stuff was good. Overall, well done. Might need to use your bar routine.

franciscocg68 · 2019-09-23T04:39:04+00:00

Actually, pretty great moves there! I use to establish the day and hour straight up forward when texting, even if I don’t know if she’s free, just to test if she’s interested enough to reschedule the date. If you manage to get another girl’s number, I advise you to be pretty straight forward when it comes to the day and hour to hangout. It happened to me when I met girls at parties: the moment when we met was cool and all, but it’s a very different scenario when it comes to text gaming.

Keep up the good work and be sure to update how the date went ;)

recyclablebanthas · 2019-09-23T09:49:12+00:00

Bartender: Hey what can i get you

Me: Can you just make me a basic white girl drink, the more basic and white the better

Cute Brunette: turns to me & laughs more guys should order like you

Me: yeah ive decided to embrace my inner white girl at this point, your drink looks really good by the way.

On point there.....! just going to play at a couple of things for any newbs wandering in:

If you're going to go out and game at night, you need to be having a good time: sounds like you were in a great state of mind going into that interaction.
Excellent use of observation.... It might seem like it was too obvious to use her drink as material, but given the situation, it fit the topic so well that you almost had to go there.
I was also amused with the layers involved in saying you liked her drink, considering you were just talking about how you wanted the most stereotypically basic white girl drink.

Visualize_ · 2019-09-23T06:31:23+00:00

I dig the banter. Nice work

hahatimefor4chan · 2019-09-23T08:33:03+00:00

Loved the conversation, loved the SMS, great job OP. But fuuuuuuck Am I getting too old or closed minded ? The " hahaha noooo we used to sleep together but we both decided that we work better as friends" is such a fucking turnoff for me.

jay_kei · 2019-09-23T08:27:34+00:00

Hey I think your text game is alright. Definitely a good idea to seal the date quickly. It clearly showed your initiative and that you’re interested. Perhaps it’s not necessary to text all day every day yet. Congrats and good luck on your Tue date!

vnsssh · 2019-09-23T13:40:50+00:00

I dont really see this working for me. But NICE WORK man !!!

StunnedMuffin · 2019-09-23T10:40:55+00:00

Wow. If a guy told a girl around here (Maryland) he liked her “hipster aesthetic” he’d be completely shunned if not punched in the face...

protonaman · 2019-09-23T14:21:26+00:00

The way u ordered the drink was awesome and everything was smooth man... Keep posting your experiences helps a lot... All the best and thanks mate

nwboie · 2019-09-23T14:29:59+00:00

Damn man, you're smooth asf

CibrecaNA · 2019-09-23T15:02:05+00:00

Cringy? Yes. Successful? Yes. Worth? Yes.

Good work.

IntoxicatedOrange · 2019-09-23T17:59:48+00:00

She was into you before you even opened your mouth...

recyclablebanthas · 2019-09-24T02:35:41+00:00

For clarification and in response to people reporting this post..... This is a field report, not one of those, "How do I get that one girl," posts. So it doesn't violate Rule #1.

MXta5y · 2019-09-23T05:03:16+00:00

I'm curious now, OP. Are you white too? I feel like this is an important detail.

lnwbrave · 2019-09-24T03:00:29+00:00

logged in to comment on "wow imagine being in the white supremacist house of the Harry Potter world" HAHAHAHAHAHA

crakavelli88 · 2019-09-23T07:56:41+00:00

Well done!

SamwiseGanja69 · 2019-09-23T07:57:32+00:00

Well improvised my friend sounds like a pro

salgadosp · 2019-09-23T09:28:37+00:00

as smart as a Ravenclaw

Handsome_Claptrap · 2019-09-23T10:01:28+00:00

I think the most important part of all of this is how you asked the drink. It made you stand out and she approached you because of that.

You have to try to be like this all the times, joke and talk with barmen and everyone you interact with. Not only you get more comfortable talking with strangers and making clever lines on the spot, but you also attract non-negative attention on yourself and allow for stuff like this to happen.

newgrounds · 2019-09-23T10:07:41+00:00

Why didn't you meet the friend?

eating_kfc · 2019-09-23T14:59:47+00:00

Pretty solid interaction, here are my two cents:

Your "out of my league" concept is kinda weird, focus more on inner game, you are enough. And on top of it she initiated conversation.
I don't think any of these lines are 'negs', actually, you have complimented her with "If i get another drink ill come to you for advice" and "I really like your hipster aesthetic by the way", although second one can be delivered differently (tease/push-pull/flat out compliment).
Talking about drugging a drink can be a neg, but you clearly said it in a push-pull way, like "If I drink this, promise I won't wake up missing my kidney".
I think you have done a really good job figuring out her logistics in a funny non-needy way.

Alucardis666 · 2019-09-23T16:44:58+00:00

So my take away here is that since I think Harry Potter is trash, I'll never get with a pretty girl at the bar, is that right?

Congrats OP.

Domkustos · 2019-09-23T17:02:05+00:00

Man you’re good. Teach us senpai.

a_doody_bomb · 2019-09-23T17:39:01+00:00

dude I'm from Queens New York and I gotta say impressed. Anyone reading this from Queens knows whats up.

Jay_Bonk · 2019-09-23T18:16:56+00:00

Cheers mate, proud of you!

HoobaDooba420 · 2019-09-23T19:08:08+00:00

You should never validate women

treatsndentalsticks · 2019-09-23T19:25:45+00:00

Now you can roleplay Harry Potter scenes

Mesartic · 2019-09-23T20:16:06+00:00

Sounds like a scene out of Master of None for anyone whos seen it.

shiftyshellshock239 · 2019-09-23T21:01:35+00:00

Not sure of your age, but I’d probably slow up on all the haha’s and lol’s and winkys if it progresses. With that being said, you’re a smooth operator and making a girl laugh is 90% of the job. Nicely done.

Lon4reddit · 2019-09-23T21:10:28+00:00

Congrats on your game and on your success, enjoy your time and someone said we want field report

deadlyhater · 2019-09-24T01:40:30+00:00

It's pleasant knowing people still meet dates IN PERSON cause most of my friends have failed relationships cause they all start on DMs

YwUt_83RJF · 2019-09-24T02:23:13+00:00

There's no actual negging here, just light teasing.

DIme_x · 2019-09-24T03:50:24+00:00

God job. But I do echo the sentiment that it was basically on from the get go. But still... one of the biggest players I ever knew, who was a player years before “the game” came out, once told me “Dime, the truth is most niggas talk theyselves OUT of pussy” I kinda knew what he was on about but mostly didn’t. In this thread there is the supposition that game is more about not losing the chicks that are interested in you and while I think that’s a bit simplistic, it’s very much real. So kudos to you dude for not talking yo self out the pussy. Game on brother!

smoothmax · 2019-09-23T03:13:50+00:00

Harry Potter game lol.

I'd be like, is that the one where the red headed guy got crushed by the chess man? That was intense.

No seriously if a girl shows signs of being into a pretty weird hobby (to you) just act like, I have no idea what you're talking about but it's kind of cute.

And

"When we go out I'm not dressing up like your favorite character, I wanna look GOOD."

If she asks how you'll dress, pause for a sec like you're thinking and say,

"Robin Hood"

EDIT or if your game is extra strong:

"Bill Cosby"

hahatimefor4chan · 2019-09-23T14:10:33+00:00

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IsuckatGo · 2019-09-23T17:56:02+00:00

Meets the girl outside and gets her number;

Brags on the internet and posts pictures of private chat.

A+ mate, a+.

recyclablebanthas · 2019-09-23T03:27:46+00:00

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hahatimefor4chan · 2019-09-23T13:01:53+00:00

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jabaas · 2019-09-23T16:30:08+00:00

OMG this is so boring.

Title	Full transcript of a conversation i had with a 9/10 at a bar and how i managed to get her number in less then 5 minutes
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Upvotes	593
Comments	141
Date	September 23, 2019 1:46 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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