Interesting paragraph

sixsidepentagon · 2014-07-13T17:00:04+00:00

Tl;dr: Disregard females, acquire currency.

noisycicada · 2014-07-13T15:44:54+00:00

True. I find myself outright neglecting self improvement in the way of finances when I'm involved in game. Being lonely doesn't help. Being desperate for sex doesn't help. All you want is to hook up and satiate your lust so you can concentrate on money but, in many ways, you need to have your money issues sorted out before you can hook up. It's a vicious circle.

caduceuz · 2014-07-13T19:07:25+00:00

TL;DR: You'll lose a lot of money chasing women, but you'll never lose women chasing money.

PornoPaul · 2014-07-13T21:44:52+00:00

Money makes you more desirable to women, because it demonstrates stability and allows for more leisure. Make enough money, you're bound to find someone. Even if the reasoning is shallow, let's face it. A lot of people base their lives on shallow reasoning.

choc_is_back · 2014-07-13T17:18:53+00:00

I'm on the other side of this coin now - love wise this year has been a major dud so far, but having loads of fun with my startup! (which I could definitely not dedicate this much time and energy to if I were worrying after girls more. Hard to find a good balance though, being single / not getting lots of action is getting annoying too at times)

plasticsleeper · 2014-07-13T23:02:32+00:00

as a generally broke person I'll say this:

let's say money doesn't attract women at all. what it does still do regardless however is give you a certain peace of mind that you'll never have if all you can think about is finding your next job, moving out or after pay day where the rest of the money to make up your rent is going to come from, so on and so forth.

back in the real world, where money makes you a more interesting person to men and women, that peace of mind makes it easier to have a social life (in terms that no event or form of transport is too expensive), you'll be less intimidated by women who earn more than you/ are on a career path to earning more or come from a richer social background than you.

I've never been rich but when I do have a decent amount in my pocket I don't have to worry about petty things like "can I even afford to go out and buy one drink at the moment, much less go on a date or get into a cab for a 1 night stand without having to ask her to pay for me?"

A girl will pay for you if she's interested and you're broke but that's not the point really, it's just that a lack of money brings about limitations and limitations bring about a negative mindset which is bad for your game and of course for your life in general, mentally and financially

jlusedude · 2014-07-13T21:34:22+00:00

I am not sure I agree with this personally. I found myself more motivated by being in love and wanting to provide for that person and having a successful future together.

Kliko · 2014-07-13T18:00:11+00:00

Which book is this?

RedPandaRoyale · 2014-07-14T10:15:07+00:00

At the end of the day, money can go a long way towards building confidence and attracting women. I just turned 23 and have based my last two years around making as much money as possible. Have close to $300K in a managed brokerage account, have a nice condo in Boston that is paid off and just bought a $40K Jeep cash.

When I turned 21, I decided that the college path wasn't working for me. I was going to a good state school in the midwest and while I was social - Went out to bars/clubs, had a lot of friends, dated a 9/10 sorority girl - I never had a lot of self-confidence. I would put my ex on a pedestal. Looking back it is crazy how pathetic I was and how much I killed myself to keep her happy.

Anyways, I dropped out. Realized I had just dissolved my life "safety-net". Started selling cars at a dealership. Worked up my confidence in approaching people and being out of my element. Within 4 months at the dealership I was promoted to being a Finance Manager (Making between 10-15K a month) Did that for a year and then started investing in options and haven't had to worry about money in the past year or so.

Moral of the story is that once I pulled my head out of my ass after my college relationship and started focusing on myself, things fell into place. Working in sales (especially car sales, which is considered "lowest of the low") forced me to develop better social skills and learn how to overcome objections and "close". Taught me how fun of a game seduction can be.

agumonkey · 2014-07-14T09:51:22+00:00

Can't agree more. Every hobby/passion/topic I cared about vanished the second I found someone to sleep next to. At best the became a mean to an end (us). Spent all my life pursuing hobbies because I couldn't have someone. Now hobbies have no value. The irony is that this thing blew up in a week. Now I feel both the void of her and the disinterest of past passions.

As Bruce Lee said: Be balanced my friend.

patrikas2 · 2014-07-13T21:58:22+00:00

Is he purposely trying to use many big words in conjunction? I didn't come here to get confused!

herbinlegend · 2014-07-14T02:27:51+00:00

So, in order to pursue your ambition of your material desires you must detach from any possible emotional passion? Talk about wasting your life away

Ohmylordyjesus · 2014-07-14T06:06:04+00:00

Translation please?

Izirath · 2014-07-14T08:12:57+00:00

Everytime I feel that that area of my life is secure (women, love, appreciation) and sailing steady all of my other passions dampen och slowly drift. I don't motivate myself and strive as hard as when I had nothing. That's a bit weird.

pacg · 2014-07-14T09:34:41+00:00

That's last sentence is terrible.

Llawgoch25 · 2014-07-14T13:43:18+00:00

What book is this from?

Box-Monkey · 2014-07-14T15:42:11+00:00

This subreddit has really gone to shit if the majority of top comments all seem to believe that money will get you all the women you want.

sedditforthewin · 2014-07-14T20:54:38+00:00

I think you guys are missing the point.

This man is saying that he wants money, and that's it. He doesn't want love, happiness, challenge or women. He wants money. I've read the book, in it he describes how to become a dynasty, not just rich. He doesn't care about anything else.

chetway · 2014-08-12T04:42:08+00:00

I'm not so sure about this. I mean it depends on what kind of ambitions you have. I've always felt that to be in love with someone is to be inspired to create your best self. To become someone for them. Maybe I just get this from Rilke's letters to a young poet but I think it is true.

rusty84 · 2014-07-13T21:59:16+00:00

there's a saying that goes something like: A guy chasing women loses money, but a guy chasing money, never loses money.

chainlinks · 2014-07-13T19:58:50+00:00

What is this glorious book? I must acquire it's knowledge.

Sir_Psycho_Sexy_ · 2014-07-14T01:14:15+00:00

So basically, do it the Gatsby way?

Terakahn · 2014-07-14T01:22:01+00:00

What book is that? Looks interesting

jdepps113 · 2014-07-14T03:07:03+00:00

Is this "Think And Grow Rich"?

imstartingover · 2014-07-14T03:38:49+00:00

I think thats definately possible, but one day when i decide i want a long term girlfriend, I want one who's always pushing me to try harder at everything i do, and calls me out when i'm slacking. That's my idea of an ideal partner. ya know, synergy and interdependency and what not.

aznology · 2014-07-14T04:08:47+00:00

Get money buy dividend stocks sleep with women... Have sex with women get money

blondedre3000 · 2014-07-14T05:26:12+00:00

The key is balance. Worry too much about money and don't develop any dating skills due to lack of time and you'll be a doormat/golddigger bait and still clueless in your 30s. Focus too much on women as the end-all be-all of happiness and you're bound to be left disappointed and possibly broke.

charlesbukowksi · 2014-07-13T23:29:46+00:00

true fact

Get_Stamosed · 2014-07-13T20:15:13+00:00

Money doesn't buy happiness, it buys freedom and confidence, which inevitably lead to happiness in one way or another.

Basically money buy indirect happiness.

Afeni02 · 2014-07-13T20:09:09+00:00

What's a man to do?

Interesting paragraph

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